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Scholastica, 32
United States, North Carolina, Sneads Ferry

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About Me

I am an independent yet sensitive woman that is not confused about what I want. I am recently out of a seven year relationship and have not really been single since I was twenty year-old. I am enjoying dating because I have not really done it till recently. I am looking for a genuine secure man in the long run who wants to cultivate something of substance. Ideally a man who is a good leader, nurturer, who knows how to bring out the woman in me. Passion is a must. Happiness, energy and a positive upbeat attitude toward life and others are a lifestyle that I hop you embrace like I do. I do want a family. I want to be a wife and mother. I am not desperate however, I would rather have a life partner to love and connect with than to have one child with anyone I am uncertain of. I am a passionate person that squeezes the marrow out of life. Most recently I have been doing a lot of horseback riding and I have been loving it. I think I like riding horses because you are on a strong animal with the potential to kill you and you have to remain cool, calm and collected to keep this from happening... I play golf and played sports for years. I played fast-pitch softball, soccer and rowed but can hold my own in almost any sport.I live to joke around and exchange witty banter. I love dining, visiting museums, taking in theater, dance and movies. I would ideally meet someone whom enjoyed doing these things as well and would also would enjoy some intellectual rhetoric afterward.There is much to me if you are interested this is the tip of the iceberg.(Please no neck or excessive tattoos) I feel a phone date is a good way to see if there is potential chemistry beyond the virtual world. After that I am fine letting you lead or I have some great spots too...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Chinese French German
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