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Pollie, 52
United States, North Carolina, Shelby

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About Me

I'm a laid back, easy going woman who is looking for a good decent man who does not cheat or get into being verbally or physically abusive. I certainly never thought I would be in the dating scene again, but sometimes you can't control what or who life throws at you. I love being spontaneous and on the go, but can also be just as happy sitting at home watching television. In the summer I enjoy being at the lake or out by the pool soaking up the sun.- lol. After working in law enforcement for 33 years, I retired in July of ***for a change of pace. I started bartending in March of this year and am enjoying not being stuck behind a computer at a desk! I am also making double the money so why not do it for a while? I was blessed with two children; a son 26 and daughter who will turn 20 in December. He lives on his own and she stays with me. They have always been very respectful and have never given me anything but joy. I was raised in a home free of fighting and I have raised my children in the same environment.Now for the IMPORTANT PART - I AM NOT LOOKING FOR THE ONE NIGHT STAND, INTIMATE ENCOUNTER OR HANGING OUT!!!! I hope to find someone who I enjoy spending time with and they feel the same about me. If you're jealous or controlling, please pass me by!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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