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Desdemona, 52
United States, North Carolina, Shelby

Offline, last seen Tue, 30 Jun 2026 21:40:48

About Me

Long over due for fun and enjoying life and all it has to offer.Looking to spend quality time with someone who enjoys doing things.I've recognized that sometimes when we go on an on about ourselves in a profile, people get overwhelmed and rarely read the whole profile. So, I'm going to be like me, short, sweet and to the point. I can say all kinds of things about me, but I'd rather you take the time to learn. I appreciate a good joke, even if it's a little dirty - as long as it makes me laugh! I would consider myself considerate, thoughtful, loyal, certainly appreciative, loving and affectionate to a fault. I'm kidless, meaning they are older and out of the house. I strongly believe after sacrificing for so many years as a single mother, it's "our time". Maybe I'm on the wrong website (grins). Mini-vac's are big on the list and well thought out planned vacations. The main thing is I'm looking to spend some quality time with someone who can appreciate a very affectionate, passionate, compassionate individual who can articulate her feelings, thoughts and maintain a stimulating conversation. I'm not looking to serial date, just ONE good guy!!If you are interested, please don't hesitate to contact me!Must disclose... I prefer fit, taller men and height weight proportionate, and if there are no smiles in your profile pictures - I get a feeling someone is hiding something, therefore please provide pictures with smiles showing teeth. Also, I'm looking for someone who's independent, meaning no roommates, has a job, car and can manage their finances. Thank you!I must also say, I'm not looking for someone who has young children. "It's our time, and I intend to live it" I've raised my kids and would like to find someone in the same position who can appreciate my philosophy. (****PRIVACY NOTICE: Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one) Romantic but not over the top.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House R&B American Spanish Turkish Crime Family & Kids Fantasy Sport
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  • Jedidah from Shelby | Woman | 55 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Here's a bit about me, I'm single, I have 3 grown children on their own, so it's me and my 4 yr old husky. I have a good job with the government and I also take college classes almost finished :). I like doing all sorts of things, and will try ALMOST (I reserve the right to define the 'almost' at any given time lol) anything once. Still holding out to find my best friend lover someone to share the second half of our life together, do things together and of course love and passion, at the very least I'm looking for Mr. IcanTolerate (there are things you have to be able to tolerate in a relationship..you know like tooth paste cap not on, etc) I can tolerate a lot except being lied to. I love anything to do with water.“I believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.” ? Blue-Eyed Devil Whatever we both decide, maybe meet for a drink somewhere in public, sit and talk and get to know one another.

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  • Jaelyn from Shelby | Woman | 52 years old | Gemini
    Jaelyn

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am the type of girl who is comfortable in various scenarios: Jeans and tennis shoes attending a Titans game, t-shirt and shorts on a fishing trip, leather chaps on the back of a Harley, but equally comfortable in a dress and high heels, attending a play at TPAC, or a black-tie event.I have a very diverse spectrum of interests, which include:Travel - Local and abroad. Love exploring small towns and nature venues.Music - Love attending live music venues of all types.Photography - Love capturing glimpses of God's art gallery.Reading - I read a great deal. I prefer the feel and smell of a hard cover book; no electronic books for me.Gardening - I grew up on a farm and still love the smell of freshly-tilled earth.Being outdoors - Attribute this also to growing up on a farm.The Arts - Besides music, I enjoy plays, museums, art galleries, etc.Cooking - I enjoy cooking, but the empty nest doesn't provide too many opportunities for that now.I work out regularly and enjoy staying active. Eat healthy with occasional reward for good behavior.My faith is very important to me. I would say that I am a well-grounded individual, but have a playful spirit and love to laugh and have fun! I am not looking for perfection, just the right fit.Intrigued? Contact me...there's so much more than can be put in this short essay! Ideal first date would include time spent in conversation getting to know one another, and deciding where to go from there.

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  • Missie from Shelby | Woman | 53 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    OK, about me.....lol here goes...... I am 52, I smoke and enjoy an occasional night out on the town having fun. Sometimes I display unladylike qualities at inappropriate times. I have a great yet sometimes twisted sense of humor. I have been divorced since 98 and I am not looking for a man to take care of me neither am I just looking for somebody to have sex with. I want the romance, companionship, trust, honesty and respect that I feel I deserve and that I have worked this long to earn. I will not lie, cheat, steal, compromise my morals for anybody. I am totally if not sometimes. brutally honest. I will not turn my back on my family or friends. I feel family is what we all have to fall back on in times of emotional needs and somebody who will always have your back. I have raised three children to adulthood and now am the proud grandma of eight little ones. My daughter and her four little ones live with me now as roommates. If all of this is to much for you to handle then so be it and good luck with your search. If I peek your interest, just drop me a line. Have a fantastic day. Look forward to hearing from you. Please leave your exs in your past, if you are still in love with them then you should not be on here to begin with. I can also be a lady when needed or wanted. I can dress up to fit in or dress down to fit in, I am versetile. I will not respond if you were born in another country or you are not caucasion...sorry guys, just my preference. I am not trying to be rude or snobby, I am just tired of the men who play all the games. If you have no interest in meeting at all then please go to the next profile. If you have read this far then you may as well send a note Would depend on what the man and I both decide on.

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