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Joanne, 55
United States, North Carolina, Shelby

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What I Like To Do:I enjoy spending time with the people that are important to me; my friends and family, and will always find the time to do so. I enjoy alone and quiet time as well, and am sure to take that when things get hectic. My favorite past times include; going to the beach, dining out at new restaurants, trying new wines, antique browsing, fleas markets & tag sales, learning Latin ballroom dancing, speaking French, traveling, and working out at the gym (well, I don't love that but, love less how I feel and look if I don't go). Long walks are a favorite, as well as reading, movies, shows, theater, gardening, and entertaining. Who I Am:I am loyal, attentive, passionate, and a woman of integrity. I am not into drama and steer clear of those who are. I am grounded and stable and very capable of taking care of myself as needed. Balance and peace are my goals for everyday life (as much as is possible in this hectic world we live in). I love God but am not a religious fanatic. I am quiet and introspective but can be outgoing and playful just as easily, depending upon the circumstances. I take good care of myself physically, mentally, and spiritually and am looking for the same. I am equally comfortable getting dressed to the nines or hanging around in sweats and enjoy both immensely. I love spending time with that someone special and am not that fussy about what and/or where, as long as we're both happy. I am of course romantic deep down inside and love giving & getting gifts of the heart - especially the little ones that say, ""I'm thinking of you"". Acts of service (even the simplest) and quality time are my love languages.Who I’m Looking For:I am looking for a grounded, stable, Christian man. I don't expect anything more than I am willing to give, with honesty and consideration at the top of my list. I am looking for that someone who will enhance my life & shares my interests but certainly will have some of his own. His values will mirror my own and he will be emotionally & financially sound. I am a strong woman but want a strong man. One who can lead without being a control freak. I know men and women are designed very differently and want someone who respects those differences, working together for the middle ground when necessary. The man I am interested in will be gentle but strong, easy going, enjoy laughing, be attractive (to me), and take good care of himself physically, mentally & spiritually. He enjoys a variety of activities as well as hanging out at home. Kindness above all else and always a gentleman. The first date should be very casual and short just to see if there is mutual chemistry. Perhaps coffee or a glass of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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