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Joanne, 55
United States, North Carolina, Shelby

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About Me

What I Like To Do:I enjoy spending time with the people that are important to me; my friends and family, and will always find the time to do so. I enjoy alone and quiet time as well, and am sure to take that when things get hectic. My favorite past times include; going to the beach, dining out at new restaurants, trying new wines, antique browsing, fleas markets & tag sales, learning Latin ballroom dancing, speaking French, traveling, and working out at the gym (well, I don't love that but, love less how I feel and look if I don't go). Long walks are a favorite, as well as reading, movies, shows, theater, gardening, and entertaining. Who I Am:I am loyal, attentive, passionate, and a woman of integrity. I am not into drama and steer clear of those who are. I am grounded and stable and very capable of taking care of myself as needed. Balance and peace are my goals for everyday life (as much as is possible in this hectic world we live in). I love God but am not a religious fanatic. I am quiet and introspective but can be outgoing and playful just as easily, depending upon the circumstances. I take good care of myself physically, mentally, and spiritually and am looking for the same. I am equally comfortable getting dressed to the nines or hanging around in sweats and enjoy both immensely. I love spending time with that someone special and am not that fussy about what and/or where, as long as we're both happy. I am of course romantic deep down inside and love giving & getting gifts of the heart - especially the little ones that say, ""I'm thinking of you"". Acts of service (even the simplest) and quality time are my love languages.Who I’m Looking For:I am looking for a grounded, stable, Christian man. I don't expect anything more than I am willing to give, with honesty and consideration at the top of my list. I am looking for that someone who will enhance my life & shares my interests but certainly will have some of his own. His values will mirror my own and he will be emotionally & financially sound. I am a strong woman but want a strong man. One who can lead without being a control freak. I know men and women are designed very differently and want someone who respects those differences, working together for the middle ground when necessary. The man I am interested in will be gentle but strong, easy going, enjoy laughing, be attractive (to me), and take good care of himself physically, mentally & spiritually. He enjoys a variety of activities as well as hanging out at home. Kindness above all else and always a gentleman. The first date should be very casual and short just to see if there is mutual chemistry. Perhaps coffee or a glass of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-46

    Hi! My name is April. I am separated other caucasian woman with kids from Shelby, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Sharyn from Shelby | Woman | 53 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am employed full time as a Caseworker for a State Senator. I'm also a volunteer firefighter and love what I do. I am game for most anything but I love being outside, walking, bicycling, on the water...no, I don't water ski but I love to swim where my feet can't touch bottom and I used to love laying out in the sun. Horses have been my passion since I was a kid and even though I don't own one anymore, I still love them and miss their company. I could say all the same things I've read on most people's profiles because in some ways, we really are all alike. For example: "I love being outdoors." Okay? Doing what? lol...I love being outdoors working i.e. mowing with a push mower, cutting down trees, barbecuing is always fun too. Then there's the other line: "I love cuddling up and watching movies." Well? What kinds of movies? And what is your definition of "cuddling up?" LOL! Sorry...I'm starting to ramble. As for movies, I love horror movies; these are my favorites with action, thrillers, and independent films close behind. I am absolutely addicted to documentaries about dinosaurs and about a million other things and really dig shows like I Shouldn't Be Alive and Wicked Attraction. I like most kinds of music but have country at the bottom of my list; its not that I hate it or anything, its just not my favorite. I love rock, classic rock, R&B, hip-hop, some pop...anything that makes me feel good.I'm a bit of a throw-back to the hippie age, late '60's and the 70's. Life was just chill then and people were friendlier....hmmm...but then again, that could've been all the weed they were smoking too... But who cares!? It was still a great time! Good music and tons of pizza!Okay, enough about me. Ask me, I will tell you. If your question is inappropriate or too personal, I will tell you that too...gently, of course. I am not easily offended and am seldom shocked by anything (I've worked with men most of my life). But know this, if you ask it...be prepared to answer it as well. ;) My first date will depend a whole lot on who I'm meeting.

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  • Joye from Shelby | Woman | 53 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Well the nest is empty and it's time for me to get on with my life. So let me start by telling you a little about myself. I am a very independent but far from a feminist. I work part time so I can watch the grandchildren two sometime three day a week. So my daughters can work full time. I am very low maintance, so if you want your woman to wear the lastest fashion, sorry not me. I was born and raised on a farm so I can go out and play in the mud and turn around get dressed up and go out to dinner and a movie. An if you have alot of drama in your life write a book I'll read it later. Don't need no crazy ex of yours driving me crazy, I like my life stress free. Tired of men telling me what they think I want to hear, making and breaking promises, and not ready for a serious relationship. Say what you mean and mean what you say. I don't want to control anyone and won't be controled by anyone (I had a dad). I also won't change for a man and don't want a man to change for me, It won't work, you can't teach a old dog new tricks And yes sarcasm is a spice of life. so bring in on. I like motorcyles, flea markets, truck/tractor pulls, playing pool, going out to eat and love scary movies, I like Steven King and Robin Cook. I would love to travel some,I am going to see the Grand Crayon before I die. It's on my bucket list. Yes i'm old enough to have a bucket list. I am looking for a smart independent family oriented man. Someone who know what he wants, Someone who is ready to enjoy life and not go through it at ***mph. I want someone who is active not a cough potato. I don't look or act my age. If you want to know more just ask. i'm kinda shy til I get to know a person. So best first date is a flea market , fair, football game, ect someplace where u have something else to talk about.

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