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Elana, 52
United States, North Carolina, Shelby

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About Me

I'm really just looking for a man who loves to laugh and joke and have fun with a partner. I'm looking for someone who enjoys going out and doing things, as well as hanging at home and doing whatever is comfortable for the moment. I go to the gym ***times a week, doing kickboxing or cardio-workout on a regular basis. I've been divorced for many years, and have raised my son who is in college and not living at home anymore. I've become independent and have lots of interests and friends for doing things, but I really would like to find a man who likes to do some of the things I like to do, and maybe introduce me to some fun things that he enjoys. I miss conversing with a man, the hugs, intimacy and the company of that special someone who makes you smile at the end of a hard day's work. I like spending time in the sun, or at the lake, or with friends. I like going to the local wineries and listening to live music and sipping a glass of wine. I enjoy gardening and doing some home improvements. I like the feeling I get when I get a project completed, and especially if I've learned a new skill while doing it. I'm financially stable and am not looking for someone to support me. I'm looking for that special someone to travel through life's journey together, and enjoy the ride along the way.If this sounds like something you'd enjoy, let me know so we can meet! I would LOVE to get off this crazy website, and get on with the rest of my life with someone fun. Maybe a coffee shop or out for a drink, or on a walk around a lake or a picnic. Somewhere where you can talk and listen to each other rather than a movie. Get to know each other and what you want and what you like. Get to know each other to see if there is mutual attraction and chemistry. It's a combination of a lot of things that are taken into account on a first date, so something low key and non stressful.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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