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Lavena, 52
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

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About Me

Caring, compassionate, loving and giving are just a few things that I am passionate about. I love to cook and really miss cooking for someone special. Going out for a couple of drinks on a Friday night or staying home just hanging by a fire enjoying a beer - either is fine with me. Snuggling on the couch watching a movie is great also as long as the company is good. :0)I can honestly say that I do enjoy my job about 99% of the time. I work for a great company and wear many different hats there so every day is new, exciting and even sometimes challenging. Having worked for this company for over 8 years I have a lot of vacation time to book, but no one special to vacation with. My friends are totally awesome, we laugh until we cry, but there is a serious side that is always ready to listen. I also want that in my relationship with my man. Nothing better than laughing so much your sides hurt or just having someone who will listen to you about your day at the office.Country music is probably my favorite however I will listen to just about anything with the exception of rap. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ An ideal first date would be to meet for a cup of coffe or drink to see if there is even a connection before making a lot of plans. If there is a connection a walk in the park would be nice so we could get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Caribbean Middle Eastern Golf
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  • Ivah from Shallotte | Woman | 51 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I know who I am. I know what I want. I'm a very straight forward person..“I appreciate and value the true things in my life, family, health and good friends.Live one day at a time with an easy-going no problem attitude. Life is to short lets make the best of it.I 'm independent. I don't need a man to take care of me. I'm looking for a man that can accept me for who I'm. Somebody to share laughter and Joy with. I am a person with integrity. Don ' t want drama. Won't give any as well.I believe in romance and respect, before sex. I'm a very sensual Person, I'm mind, body, and soul. I know how to use all three.

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  • Lexa from Shallotte | Woman | 54 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    What makes me unique: One side - loves to do adventurous things, enjoys comedy, is artistic, musical, laid back and playful. Another side - professional, intellectual. I am nice and easy to talk to. I like adventures and doing things spontaneously. Like sailing, dogs, photography, watching football (Go Gators), movies, reading, going to the beach, traveling, comedy, doing fun things, exploring. Will lift this description from a personality test I took: I like to think and feel my way into unexplored landscapes where I let my sense of intellectual adventure romp freely. Other words to describe me, courtesy of the test, are: creative, unconventional, intellectual, curious, sensitive, analytical, and intuitive. I used to sing in a band in which the keyboard player was someone who used to tour with Sade.In another life, I would have liked to have gone to film school, learned dance, sailed halfway around the world, gone to Antarctica, studied medicine, been an actress, made a living as a photographer . . . .

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  • Ninfa from Shallotte | Woman | 53 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I love to read, take walks, long drives, going to the movies, spending time with friends and family.My children are getting older and having lives of their own so now it is me time.My goal is to eventually move south where I no longer have to drive thru ice storms and blizzards in the winter anymore. I work retail and I am very much a people person and love working with the public.There is so much I could say about myself but if you want to get to know me,talk to me...Have nothing to hide, my life is an open book. I am an older woman but I have much more in common with younger men so I prefer dating men between the ages of 35 to 48ish. My children's friends have always called me the "cool mom".I have tattoos but they are tasteful. I was a manager for 19 years so I had to make sure what I had was tasteful and they could be hidden under clothing. I also have the side of my nose pierced so if these things are a turn off then I am not the person for you. I will change for no one. I am me. My tattoos all mean something to me.Most women my age are probably into more country and western music. I am not. I grew up with it because my family had heir own country and western band. I love club music. I love to go out and dance.I am not the kind of person that hits the clubs every weekend but once in a great while I like to get out. I am certainly not a couch potato either. I would like my first date to be going to dinner so we could talk and get to know each other and then it would just go from there if we hit it off. That would be the first date, our first meeting would be over a cup of coffee to see if we actually clicked and wanted to go on a first date.

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