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Ednah, 53
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

Offline, last seen Wed, 14 Jan 2026 18:13:33

About Me

Hi . I'm smart, sexy, fun and fit and looking for someone to share love, laughter, good conversation and adventure. I’-term. I have lived in many places throughout the US and Europe. I love experiencing new countries and cultures. I like to share my personal life experiences, talk ideas, current events, politics, books, art… the universe. I travel a lot but hope to travel soon more for just personal adventure and not just professionally. I always hope to continue to make my small contribution to the betterment of humanity. I'm grateful for everything. Let's see.... so, what kind of person would I love to spend time with? I’m in awe of someone with integrity, who expresses intelligence, compassion and passion. I'm a warm person (a bit reserved til I know you ;-) who resonates to the same. I love humor and love to laugh. I love spending time with someone who is wickedly funny (reinforcing the humor part), and without a doubt, sexy. I hope he has a pretty good dress sense and smells good :-) Comfortable, laid-back, observant, aware, sensual. I am not a fitness fanatic but I love to stay strong and fit. Love to eat good, healthy food!Like to keep it simple and creative on weekends catching a film, going on a hike or on some unplanned weekend discovery, cooking together with a great bottle or two of wine, going to listen - and maybe dance - to some music or to see an art show someplace. Being in nature is my vital to my balance and my soul--walking, hiking, biking. Love good conversation and spirited discussions. . My style is understated, sometimes edgy - I love flattering lines and elegant, textured things.- love the experience of getting introduced to new bands and musicians- live.I've been online dating for awhile now..and for some of us, it takes time and... timing. Last but not least, I'm physical, sensual and a diehard romantic. I believe in love and falling in love. But no, I haven't read 50 Shades of Grey mainly because I don't need to ...and I've heard the writing is um, banal. There is plenty of other interesting, exciting and well written literature in the same genre. Plus, I've never been a follower of the latest mainstream, over-processed, dumbed-down thinking. I immediately go the other way. Not much for prolonged exchange of messages and prefer to meet relatively soon. And my pictures are current! Thanks for reading :-) First Date: Simple, uncomplicated. A lovely quiet backdrop. Good wine. Conversation. Smiles, Laughter. Relaxing. And no interviewing -. not much interest. Not into one-time intimate encounters or hook-upsInitially dating but very open to the prospect of something wonderful and seriousNo hard drugs.Not into affairs with married guys.No narcissists (Not that you'd know that you were)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Greek Indonesian Korean History Martial Arts Sci-Fi Play Sport Games Singing
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