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Ivette, 51
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

Offline, last seen Wed, 22 Oct 2025 18:31:08

About Me

I am recently an empty nester and looking forward to the next chapter. Having new adventures and finding ways to be of service are somewhere in my book.I value warm and productive relationships, gravitating toward people who are not judgmental and are kind to others. No interest in cynics, critics or politics. Honestly, when people start talking politics, I am in danger of slipping into a coma.I am not afraid to get my hands dirty - no sissy around the power tools. I love hitting the thrift stores and flea markets for treasures to save.I like all the regular stuff. I'm a bit of a pyromaniac.... live music/dancing, a fire and a DVD, flip flops cut-offs, walking the dogs, reading together, local festivals and flea markets, Bubble Wrap, Chocolate, R&B, little/no make-up and hair fussing (ready to go in less than 5 minutes and I don't melt in the rain), sharing Sunday paper with good company, cruising with the top down. I appreciate a good meal, but not into spending lots of money on fine dining. I have an active lifestyle, but I do have a hammock. I am a professional, and have enjoyed a great career doing what I love. I travel a lot for business, so I do best with partners who understand or are similarly situated. I’I like casual times and dinners with close friends...board games, cards, or just a fire in the fire pit and great conversation...A good Scrabble match. I appreciate a man who can put a sentence together. There, their and they're used in the proper context; Oh my.I prefer guys that have their own circle of friends, so we can both expand our circles. Chemistry is important - we must be able to laugh together! I prefer to meet for a quick, no pressure, coffee rather than e-chat for a long time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Pop Crime Music Sport Dance Rodeo
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

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