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Tria, 53
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

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Looking to DATE ~ which by definition means I would like to repeatedly see someone to determine if there is enough chemistry between us to grow into a relationship...it's just not that complicated!!!!! Oh....and if you're into being chased or stalked then keep fishin' as I'm a tiny bit old fashioned.....if you don't show interest too then I'll let it drop.I'm looking for the one smart enough to not let me get away! I need someone with enough energy to keep up with me....I'm young for my age & most think I look younger by at least 10 years....just sayin! I've decided this is my year to get myself together, I'm currently a work in progress in health/fitness/weight loss but seeing good results if you're interested....and you need to be able to keep up or challenge me! Thanks for your time.....good luck if you pass me by....please respond if I write you as it's only polite, I can take rejection as well as attention.I Believe: That honesty is always the best policy, however, it can be softened to avoid cruelty....with that said; if you don't want to know, then don't ask! That you should always be very careful about what you ask for, be specific...you just might get it! That being alone may be lonely, but being lonely with someone is worse! That everything in life happens for a reason...time & patience may reveal that reason! That having material wealth does not define who you are but it does indicate how you enjoy your life.Interests: I like to do just about anything...except jump out of a perfectly good airplane, Mountain Climbing (I'm not talking about a climb up a big hill) or to play with snakes! I'm a fan of most sports but not a fanatic...I don't follow any particular team...prefer college over pro games, but never turn down an offer to see either live! Spending time with my girlfriends! I like most types of music, as long as I can understand the lyrics...not so much rap! I love to travel...;...and any warm beaches that have sun & sand. The sun on my face, wind in my hair, an icey drink in my hand...ahhh...on a beach, at a pool or in the back yard all work for me! I like to read, watch or go to the movies...no slashers, gardening & landscaping, remodelling & redecorating, riding horses or motorcycles, boating, having friends in for dinner, dinning out, museums, concerts, plays, zoos......the list goes on!Turn Offs: Hunting...would rather see a beautiful animal in the wild or zoo than on your wall! Liars...I'm a big girl...I can handle the truth! Silence...if there's a problem, then talk to me!Who am I?: I am a survivor, strong willed, soft hearted, more spiritual than religious with a strong faith in God, intelligent, honest, independent, strong minded, curious, well mannered, sassy, a bit of a tease, hot & sexy (or so I've been told) & sure to give you a hard time. I have a pretty good sense of humor...it's the only way to survive in life. I like lazy days as well as the crazy ones...the trick is balance. I am not a barbie doll (duh take a look at the pics) or a trophy wife...and I don't want to be one (a little motivation would be good for working out more). I'm comfortable in jeans, as well as a formal gown...I prefer barefeet or flip flops over 3" heels...although the heels are great for the butt! LOL! I like my house presentable 95% of the time...I have to be organized...I might be slightly OCD...lol! I miss being the person someone wants to get home to see at the end of the day! My career was not my priority during my marriage...I am not defined by where I spend 40 hours a week although I admit there is nothing like divorce for an economic change of values! I have held many titles in my life...mom, wife & lover were what fed my soul...the others just fed the body! I am not into drama or stress...I've survived the effects & just don't do it any more...if at all avoidable!Who I want: I want the "WOW" factor...if you understan that let me know. Someone who can make me laugh, can laugh at himself! Someone who smiles a lot & easily! Understands the difference between making love & having sex...yet understands you can have both within a relationship. Likes or loves to cook...with me or for me! You must "LOVE" dogs (there's a package deal)! You must be able to communicate...verbally, emotionally, physically...don't tune me out or ***! Can you dance in the rain? Do you see the beauty in a sunset or a drop of rain on a flower? Does a childs laughter make you smile & start laughing with them? Can you place your large, strong hand in the small of my back to lead me into a room of strangers so everyone knows I'm with you? Can you catch my gaze from across a room & tell what I'm thinking... Can you hold me if I cry & wipe away my tears....and not be the one to put them there! Can you be my best friend? Can you share your heart & soul?Yes! I am looking for a long term relationship...but it takes baby steps to get things started & get to know each other...so relax & chat with me! If you're looking to chat or IM for months before meeting...then keep on looking! I expect to meet you in a pretty short amount of time to see if there is a real chemistry! None of us are getting any younger...lol! I still want ***years with someone! Not all things in life are fair...however, if you want a response to an e-mail then attach a picture...regardless of your reasons for not having one posted...only fair !Some of you are dancing on my last nerve! When I give you my phone number it's because I would like to get to know you a lot better...it is NOT so I can be a free 900# to assist you with your hands on exercise! Sorry to be crude but seriously! I'm not a prude but I do have rules prior to dating!Thanks for reading...there is still more to learn about me, regardless of how long this profile has become, so drop me a message if you are interested in learning more! Good luck to all! Ahhhh...a first date??? hmmmm...someplace where you can sit & talk, or walk & talk. I'd love to say something awesome, and original, and inspiring...but to be honest, I would like to get to know you and that means you have to talk to me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Swimming Video Games Adventure Music Western
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