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Aleena, 51

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About Me

I consider myself an easy-going, energetic, kind person with a really big heart that is looking for that someone special to spend the remainder of my life with. I've been divorced for over ten years now and I've been busy raising my fifteen year old son and paying the mortgage. My son is now an awesome young man and I've discovered he really doesn't need me so much any more. I guess it's time for me. So, I work out every morning at the gym during the week, I love spending time with my black lab, and absolutely love everything about the beach. The most relaxing sound is the sound of the and beautiful sunrises and sunsets in the background. So, if you think you'd like to just meet, have a few drinks and hopefully a few laughs, let me know. When it comes to on line dating, I think the first "date" should just be two people meeting each other to see if there's any chemistry. If not, a good conversation and company for a bit doesn't hurt. I'm kind of new to this, so let's see where it goes.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jeni

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am cajun &-again christian. That simply means I have repented of my sins & have excepted Jesus Christ as my Lord & Savior. He is the ONLY WAY to eternal life. Have a deep desire to lead the lost to Christ because things foretold in the bible( PROPHECY) are coming to pass sooooo rapidly. I prefer & seek a Godly man who has a deep and intimate relationship with Jesus Christ birthed in the fires of affliction, and an understanding of spiritual gifts and callings. You understand "Deep calls unto deep".This means I am a very spiritual female & I LOVE & LIVE MY LIFE for JESUS & I prefer the same in a man BUT after serving the Lord for so long now, I know & understand what I desire in a man is very, very hard to find, so I do make exceptions. I mostly lessons to the gospel, but also enjoy cajun, zydeco, all good dancing music like motown & classic rock. I would like to meet a single, born-again christian man that doesn't have kids to support, or none at all, that is looking for a long term relationship leading to marriage...... My ideal man would be 5'8 to 6'3" tall with grey, or dark hair, not too over weight,stable,patient, kind, generous, a great povider, even tempered, not controlling nor domineering,without hang-up or baggage or any disabilities, in good health like myself that wants to settle down and marry. NOT INTERESTED IN ANYONE GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE, THAT'S VERY UNFAIR AND JUST TOO MUCH DRAMA FOR ME. I ABSOLUTELY HATE DRAMA , LOVE PEACE & LAUGHTER, LOVE TO LAUGH, I LAUGH ALL THE TIME, You know the bible says "A Merry heart doeth good like a medicine"...PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE SEPERATED OR MARRIED!!! I love ALL races but I PREFER NOT TO GET ENVOLVED WITH A BLACK MAN. Don't even want them contacting me. Please forgive me & try to understand, and respect my wishes. I enjoy the finer things in life,my rich cajun culture, the arts, music, different cultures, watersports, dancing,antiques, going to the movies,boxing,riding harleys, classic car shows, drag car racing,fast & muscles cars, traveling, dining out, lots of good clean conversation,festivals,bible studies,attending church & Come hang out with me & be my friend. I am lotssss of fun. Honest!! I long walk in the park with a lot of communication getting to know one another, maybe dinner at a nice resturant, a walk on the beach if the weather permits, a sporting event, or just hanging out in a coffee shop. I might even envite you to church with me so don't be shocked if I do.

  • Barrie

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I believe in living a good honest life. Hopefully see how this online dating goes. I would like a partner who likes to show affection, has a great sense of humor, for whom making time together a priority.

  • Tria

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking to DATE ~ which by definition means I would like to repeatedly see someone to determine if there is enough chemistry between us to grow into a relationship...it's just not that complicated!!!!! Oh....and if you're into being chased or stalked then keep fishin' as I'm a tiny bit old fashioned.....if you don't show interest too then I'll let it drop.I'm looking for the one smart enough to not let me get away! I need someone with enough energy to keep up with me....I'm young for my age & most think I look younger by at least 10 years....just sayin! I've decided this is my year to get myself together, I'm currently a work in progress in health/fitness/weight loss but seeing good results if you're interested....and you need to be able to keep up or challenge me! Thanks for your time.....good luck if you pass me by....please respond if I write you as it's only polite, I can take rejection as well as attention.I Believe: That honesty is always the best policy, however, it can be softened to avoid cruelty....with that said; if you don't want to know, then don't ask! That you should always be very careful about what you ask for, be specific...you just might get it! That being alone may be lonely, but being lonely with someone is worse! That everything in life happens for a reason...time & patience may reveal that reason! That having material wealth does not define who you are but it does indicate how you enjoy your life.Interests: I like to do just about anything...except jump out of a perfectly good airplane, Mountain Climbing (I'm not talking about a climb up a big hill) or to play with snakes! I'm a fan of most sports but not a fanatic...I don't follow any particular team...prefer college over pro games, but never turn down an offer to see either live! Spending time with my girlfriends! I like most types of music, as long as I can understand the lyrics...not so much rap! I love to travel...;...and any warm beaches that have sun & sand. The sun on my face, wind in my hair, an icey drink in my hand...ahhh...on a beach, at a pool or in the back yard all work for me! I like to read, watch or go to the movies...no slashers, gardening & landscaping, remodelling & redecorating, riding horses or motorcycles, boating, having friends in for dinner, dinning out, museums, concerts, plays, zoos......the list goes on!Turn Offs: Hunting...would rather see a beautiful animal in the wild or zoo than on your wall! Liars...I'm a big girl...I can handle the truth! Silence...if there's a problem, then talk to me!Who am I?: I am a survivor, strong willed, soft hearted, more spiritual than religious with a strong faith in God, intelligent, honest, independent, strong minded, curious, well mannered, sassy, a bit of a tease, hot & sexy (or so I've been told) & sure to give you a hard time. I have a pretty good sense of humor...it's the only way to survive in life. I like lazy days as well as the crazy ones...the trick is balance. I am not a barbie doll (duh take a look at the pics) or a trophy wife...and I don't want to be one (a little motivation would be good for working out more). I'm comfortable in jeans, as well as a formal gown...I prefer barefeet or flip flops over 3" heels...although the heels are great for the butt! LOL! I like my house presentable 95% of the time...I have to be organized...I might be slightly OCD...lol! I miss being the person someone wants to get home to see at the end of the day! My career was not my priority during my marriage...I am not defined by where I spend 40 hours a week although I admit there is nothing like divorce for an economic change of values! I have held many titles in my life...mom, wife & lover were what fed my soul...the others just fed the body! I am not into drama or stress...I've survived the effects & just don't do it any more...if at all avoidable!Who I want: I want the "WOW" factor...if you understan that let me know. Someone who can make me laugh, can laugh at himself! Someone who smiles a lot & easily! Understands the difference between making love & having sex...yet understands you can have both within a relationship. Likes or loves to cook...with me or for me! You must "LOVE" dogs (there's a package deal)! You must be able to communicate...verbally, emotionally, physically...don't tune me out or ***! Can you dance in the rain? Do you see the beauty in a sunset or a drop of rain on a flower? Does a childs laughter make you smile & start laughing with them? Can you place your large, strong hand in the small of my back to lead me into a room of strangers so everyone knows I'm with you? Can you catch my gaze from across a room & tell what I'm thinking... Can you hold me if I cry & wipe away my tears....and not be the one to put them there! Can you be my best friend? Can you share your heart & soul?Yes! I am looking for a long term relationship...but it takes baby steps to get things started & get to know each other...so relax & chat with me! If you're looking to chat or IM for months before meeting...then keep on looking! I expect to meet you in a pretty short amount of time to see if there is a real chemistry! None of us are getting any younger...lol! I still want ***years with someone! Not all things in life are fair...however, if you want a response to an e-mail then attach a picture...regardless of your reasons for not having one posted...only fair !Some of you are dancing on my last nerve! When I give you my phone number it's because I would like to get to know you a lot better...it is NOT so I can be a free 900# to assist you with your hands on exercise! Sorry to be crude but seriously! I'm not a prude but I do have rules prior to dating!Thanks for reading...there is still more to learn about me, regardless of how long this profile has become, so drop me a message if you are interested in learning more! Good luck to all! Ahhhh...a first date??? hmmmm...someplace where you can sit & talk, or walk & talk. I'd love to say something awesome, and original, and inspiring...but to be honest, I would like to get to know you and that means you have to talk to me!

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