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Ambrosia, 51
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

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About Me

A meetville user I chatted with said about me that if he were judging a book by its cover he would say "ultra conservative evangelical republican/pastors wife" Once we chatted a bit he then said that I was more than meets the eye. I don't like some of the choices meetville provides. I am a nerd, but not a comic book nerd. And I would say I want to find friends, date, and see if it turns into a relationship. I would like to meet someone I have something in common with. Intelligence is important to me, as is good taste and someone who is a gentleman. And by a gentleman I am not talking about opening doors for me. That is nice, but what is more important is a man who can wait until after a first date before he starts talking about sex. I think a good relationship includes sex, but you have to build up to it. And I like kissing and affection, but I don't want that to be a substitute for conversation. I think conversation is so important in getting to know each other.I love to go out to eat. watch movies (either at the theatre or at home while snuggled up on the couch), listen to live music, go for walks in the park. (Can I bring my dog?) I love live theatre, singing karaoke, reading, and watching TV (history shows, biographies, and classic sitcoms). I love to travel (when I have the time and money.) I also love interesting people, good conversation, trivia games, dancing, and oldies music (70s is my favorite). I'm not into sports but it's ok if you are. I can sit on my end of the couch and read while you sit on your end of the couch and watch TV. If you play sports, I will come and watch you play sometimes, just not every game.I've had many people tell me how much I look like my pictures, and many people tell me I look much better than my pictures. I've also been told I'm a great kisser. ;) And, in case you can't tell, I'm a plus-sized woman. Not ginormous, but curvy. A size 18.I can't believe the number of people who won't take the time to acknowledge a message with just a simple "No thanks." If I send you a message, please respond, even if it's just to tell me that you aren't interested. I respond to all my messages. It's just the polite thing to do.The following are not links. You have to copy and paste these urls into your browser to see the photos: *** say more than "hi." This isn't a face-to-face meeting. Say what you like about my profile and what you are looking for. Tell me what you think we have in common. But please be polite. Don't ask me any questions that you wouldn't have the nerve to say to my face. Just because I am bold enough to put myself out there on a singles site doesn't mean I am not a real person with real feelings. I think we should have a first meeting in a public place, somewhere we can sit and talk and get to know each other. Then we can go home, think about the meeting, and decide if we want to go on a date. Then we should go and do something we both enjoy. I like dancing, karaoke, trivia nights. We could even go to a movie, but I prefer something where we can talk and DO something, not just sit and watch.You will win bonus points with me if you are the type of man who likes to plan the date for us both. I love that. It makes me feel so pampered. Also, I don't have a problem with going Dutch. But I love IHOP and Waffle House. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm warm, friendly, open, smart, funny, and optimistic. You should be too! Other than that, my only requirements are someone close to my age, a non-smoker, and someone really bright. I really love intelligent men.My preferences? Dogs over cats...Beatles over Rolling Stones...dark roast over decaf...fall over summer...milk chocolate over dark...Europe over beaches...jigsaw puzzles over cards...nonfiction over fiction...late nights over early mornings.....train travel over flying...country roads over highways...jeans over pantyhose (not literally, of course)...history over sports...homemade over store-bought...brains over brawn...It's a big world, and I've only seen a few pieces of it, so if you're adventurous, let's talk. I'll also want to know your favorite book and the best book you ever read (only rarely are they the same!). Then share with me your three favorite movies, because I could talk about movies all day. Where did you go to school? What's the best thing you ever ate? Give me three adjectives to describe your mother. Favorite quote? Funniest thing you ever heard or saw? What music gives you chills? Getting to know someone is one of my favorite things to do. Can we do that, please? I need a little favor here...please don't send me a message in "text-ese," like "ur," "plz," or "b4." It makes me feel as if I'm communicating with a teenager, and I most likely won't respond. (Hold your "snob" comments...you won't change my mind.)If you don't like women who are liberal, plus-sized (I'm currently a size 14...down from an 18 twelve weeks ago; please see my photo in the green sweater), or intelligent, move along...nothing to see here. ***I'm not a fan of extended *** texting, so if you're not willing to meet sooner rather than later, please help yourself to a lovely parting gift.***When can we meet? I'm open. What do you suggest?

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  • Angela from Shallotte | Woman | 55 years old | Scorpio
    Angela

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    it's not always rainbows and butterflies........ a man who is ready to settle down again and is done looking when he finds the right person. looking for that. life is so much more fun shared. an easy meeting to see if we click.

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