Total users: 61,275,030 Online users: 220,843
Taina, 53
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

Offline, last seen Sat, 07 Feb 2026 21:53:15

About Me

Who I am looking for:I am searching for one special guy to build a loving and honest lifelong relationship with. Is it you? To get a sense of whom and what I am looking for I offer the following example:“Once in your life, you find someone who you can tell things that you’ve never shared with another soul & they listen deeply & actually want to hear more. They build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special & even beautiful. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved & the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them, knowing they will share in your excitement. There is no pressure, jealousy or competition. You can be yourself. They’re not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself… You find strength in knowing you have a true friend & possibly a soulmate who will remain loyal to the end.” -Bob MarleyIf this rings true for you, too we’re off to a good start. It’s also important that we are compatible and that our differences are complementary to each other. To help you decide if we might be good for each other here is a little about my philosophy and the principles I live by.Honesty: Mean what you say and say what you mean and be accountable for it. The truth should always be delivered with kindness and compassion, never as a means to manipulate or to avoid accountability.Integrity: Your word should be impeccable. Enough said.Loyalty: My loyalty to family, friends and loved ones is not borne out of obligation. It is of my own choosing otherwise I would not be loyal to me. Thus, I choose my friends carefully and am loyal to those who hold a place in their heart for me.Love: I have never experienced love at first sight. I can’t imagine a feeling of complete devotion and admiration for someone I just met in the context that true love requires. For me love develops over time and is nurtured. It should not seem like work but you should want to work at it.More about me:I am independent, secure both financially and emotionally, and like to stay physically fit. I enjoy all sorts of activities outdoors including hiking, camping, canoeing, kayaking, bike riding, sports, etc. Recently, I explored ziplining even in spite of my fear of heights. I would like to try deep sea fishing some time. Good food, music, dancing and especially good company is always in order.According to my friends I have a good sense of humor, am intelligent, sincere and down-to-earth. If we have the chance to meet I think you will find that I am unpretentious, enjoy discussing a variety of topics and will respect others opinions. I am comfortable in most settings and enjoy a formal evening out or charity ball on occasion.The bottomline is if we have chemistry we will enjoy doing anything together. My First Date Expectations:Meeting for drinks and a light bite or dinner works well for me since I enjoy company with a glass of wine. I am also a coffee drinker, so if you'd prefer to meet earlier in the day that's fine too! What you can expect from me: No matter when and where we are scheduled to meet I will always show you the courtesy of following through. No last minute cancellations, excluding a medical emergency, of course. Expect to enjoy our time together. After all, if I'm agreeing to meet that's a strong indication you have potential and I intend to give you my undivided attention.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Caribbean Portuguese Spanish Biography Family & Kids Sport Spirituality
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Jlohan from Shallotte | Woman | 45 years old | Scorpio
    Jlohan

    Offline

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-46

    Hi! My name is Jlohan. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Shallotte, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Jeni from Shallotte | Woman | 52 years old | Aries
    Jeni

    Offline

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am cajun &-again christian. That simply means I have repented of my sins & have excepted Jesus Christ as my Lord & Savior. He is the ONLY WAY to eternal life. Have a deep desire to lead the lost to Christ because things foretold in the bible( PROPHECY) are coming to pass sooooo rapidly. I prefer & seek a Godly man who has a deep and intimate relationship with Jesus Christ birthed in the fires of affliction, and an understanding of spiritual gifts and callings. You understand "Deep calls unto deep".This means I am a very spiritual female & I LOVE & LIVE MY LIFE for JESUS & I prefer the same in a man BUT after serving the Lord for so long now, I know & understand what I desire in a man is very, very hard to find, so I do make exceptions. I mostly lessons to the gospel, but also enjoy cajun, zydeco, all good dancing music like motown & classic rock. I would like to meet a single, born-again christian man that doesn't have kids to support, or none at all, that is looking for a long term relationship leading to marriage...... My ideal man would be 5'8 to 6'3" tall with grey, or dark hair, not too over weight,stable,patient, kind, generous, a great povider, even tempered, not controlling nor domineering,without hang-up or baggage or any disabilities, in good health like myself that wants to settle down and marry. NOT INTERESTED IN ANYONE GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE, THAT'S VERY UNFAIR AND JUST TOO MUCH DRAMA FOR ME. I ABSOLUTELY HATE DRAMA , LOVE PEACE & LAUGHTER, LOVE TO LAUGH, I LAUGH ALL THE TIME, You know the bible says "A Merry heart doeth good like a medicine"...PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE SEPERATED OR MARRIED!!! I love ALL races but I PREFER NOT TO GET ENVOLVED WITH A BLACK MAN. Don't even want them contacting me. Please forgive me & try to understand, and respect my wishes. I enjoy the finer things in life,my rich cajun culture, the arts, music, different cultures, watersports, dancing,antiques, going to the movies,boxing,riding harleys, classic car shows, drag car racing,fast & muscles cars, traveling, dining out, lots of good clean conversation,festivals,bible studies,attending church & Come hang out with me & be my friend. I am lotssss of fun. Honest!! I long walk in the park with a lot of communication getting to know one another, maybe dinner at a nice resturant, a walk on the beach if the weather permits, a sporting event, or just hanging out in a coffee shop. I might even envite you to church with me so don't be shocked if I do.

    Chat
  • Addison from Shallotte | Woman | 51 years old | Aquarius
    Addison

    Offline

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    So hard to kno what to say but here it goes ...honesty and integrity are qualities that I value highly. Mixed with a sense of humor what else could one ask for????.... I think we all get what we give....:).

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: