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Taina, 53
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

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About Me

Who I am looking for:I am searching for one special guy to build a loving and honest lifelong relationship with. Is it you? To get a sense of whom and what I am looking for I offer the following example:“Once in your life, you find someone who you can tell things that you’ve never shared with another soul & they listen deeply & actually want to hear more. They build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special & even beautiful. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved & the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them, knowing they will share in your excitement. There is no pressure, jealousy or competition. You can be yourself. They’re not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself… You find strength in knowing you have a true friend & possibly a soulmate who will remain loyal to the end.” -Bob MarleyIf this rings true for you, too we’re off to a good start. It’s also important that we are compatible and that our differences are complementary to each other. To help you decide if we might be good for each other here is a little about my philosophy and the principles I live by.Honesty: Mean what you say and say what you mean and be accountable for it. The truth should always be delivered with kindness and compassion, never as a means to manipulate or to avoid accountability.Integrity: Your word should be impeccable. Enough said.Loyalty: My loyalty to family, friends and loved ones is not borne out of obligation. It is of my own choosing otherwise I would not be loyal to me. Thus, I choose my friends carefully and am loyal to those who hold a place in their heart for me.Love: I have never experienced love at first sight. I can’t imagine a feeling of complete devotion and admiration for someone I just met in the context that true love requires. For me love develops over time and is nurtured. It should not seem like work but you should want to work at it.More about me:I am independent, secure both financially and emotionally, and like to stay physically fit. I enjoy all sorts of activities outdoors including hiking, camping, canoeing, kayaking, bike riding, sports, etc. Recently, I explored ziplining even in spite of my fear of heights. I would like to try deep sea fishing some time. Good food, music, dancing and especially good company is always in order.According to my friends I have a good sense of humor, am intelligent, sincere and down-to-earth. If we have the chance to meet I think you will find that I am unpretentious, enjoy discussing a variety of topics and will respect others opinions. I am comfortable in most settings and enjoy a formal evening out or charity ball on occasion.The bottomline is if we have chemistry we will enjoy doing anything together. My First Date Expectations:Meeting for drinks and a light bite or dinner works well for me since I enjoy company with a glass of wine. I am also a coffee drinker, so if you'd prefer to meet earlier in the day that's fine too! What you can expect from me: No matter when and where we are scheduled to meet I will always show you the courtesy of following through. No last minute cancellations, excluding a medical emergency, of course. Expect to enjoy our time together. After all, if I'm agreeing to meet that's a strong indication you have potential and I intend to give you my undivided attention.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Ursula from Shallotte | Woman | 52 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    They didn't have "unique" as a personality type... so I chose rockstar. Ok so I dont play an *** sing... but I still think Im still a rockstar :)I am an intelligent, independent and honest woman who is passionate about my life and those I love. I have two children who are now grown; therefore I am at a point in my life where I can again, think about "me". I am quite happy and secure on my own, and would rather be single than settle... but, I would love to meet a man I could call my best friend. Someone who will make me smile just thinking of him. Someone who would rather spend a quiet evening at home watching a movie, or hanging with friends, as opposed to a night at the bar, but still doesn't mind a night out now and then. Someone to laugh with, someone to share my thoughts and my dreams. Someone real. I value honesty, integrity and respect. Yes, honesty. Like everyone, I am looking for that "connection", but I am not interested in serial dating, nor am I interested in serial POFers. If you have contacted 50% of the women on here, you are not for me... you, are looking for "anything". I am looking for "one" and seeking another who is also looking for just "one". I am looking for a "friend", friends first, but I hope for a friendship that has the potential to develop into something deeper.Touch my mind and I'm drawn, touch my heart and I'm hooked. Let the rest fall into place naturally... I love to laugh, I love to learn, I love to live, I love to love. I am well rounded and grounded, uncomplicated and easy going, curious and inquisitive, unique with a touch of unpredictability I am real... no games and would like the same in return.I don't believe looks are most important but do believe there must be some form of mutual attraction. I have a soft spot for nice eyes. Oh and teeth... you must have teeth... your own.Just for funLove and Marriage... from the mouths of babes."If falling in love is anything like learning how to spell, I don't want to do it. It takes too long."--;Love is like an avalanche where you have to run for your life."--John, age 9"I think you're supposed to get shot with an arrow or something, but the rest of it isn't supposed to be so painful."--Manuel, age 8"No one is sure why it happens, but I heard it has something to do with how you smell. That's why perfume and deodorant are so popular."--Mae, age 9"On the first date, they just tell each other lies, and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date."--Mike, age 9"My mother says to look for a man who is kind. That's what I'll do. I'll find somebody who's kinda tall and handsome."--Carolyn, age 8"It gives me a headache to think about that stuff. I'm just a kid. I don't need that kind of trouble."--Kenny, age 7"I'm not rushing into being in love. I'm finding fourth grade hard enough."--;When you're married, you should tell your wife she's pretty, even if she looks like a truck"-.. and see who comes back :D

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  • Fairy from Shallotte | Woman | 55 years old | Taurus
    Fairy

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I OWN MY HOME,HAVE A JOB,HAVE A CAR, TWO CATS, THREE FISH.I LOVE THE OUTDOORS, THE BEACH, THE OCEAN, GREAT COMPANY, AND AN AWESOME HAMBURGER!BREAKER'S HAS 17 DIFFERENT BURGERS TO CHOOSE FROM, RIGHT ON THE OCEAN TOO!SEE YOU THERE?(that sounds like a dam advertisement....lol)1 WEEK UNTIL BON FIRES ON THE BEACH!I'M READY!! ARE YOU?? Always in public place first.Meet, drinks and dinner is always fun!Are YOU up for a burger at Breaker's?.....ha)OR you can just meet me at my bon fire!!

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  • Marylyn from Shallotte | Woman | 55 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hello, I was married 33 yrs been single for 6 yrs, never thought I'd be dating after so many yrs. but things & people change for many different reasons, It sure is a lot harder starting over & dating than I ever dreamed..... LOL I'm shy at first until I get to know you. I am a very independent, honest, caring, & warm hearted loving person. I have nothing to hide but I do have a past & I have made mistakes in life but I'm happy to say I learned from them & I won't make the same ones. I am willing to answer any questions up front honestly even if it might not be what you want to hear that way they can't come out & ruin a good relationship. No lie stays hidden for ever so if ur honest from the start u have nothing to worry about. My friends say I'm too nice, have a heart of gold & they know they can always count on me.Im a fuller figure woman for many different reason's, some medical I have started trying to eat healthier & going to the gym was doing very good untill I hurt my foot & had to have surgery the surgery wasn't able to fix the problem & has even caused more problems & pain. So now I have to choose to keep suffering with pain or more surgery's. OK lets get back on track & to the point I like to play cards & poker, watch football on tv or go to the games. play bingo, go to cookouts, eating out, going to see a movie. Or can be happy sitting home cuddled up with my special guy watching TV Also like going to watch my grandson & Spending time with family & friends but most importantly spending time with that 1 special man. I'm in hopes to meet someone with some of the same interest. I like meeting & making new friends. I want a man that wants to get to know each other our likes or dislikes just take it one day at a time see where it goes. We may be friends, best friends, lovers, or who knows we could be soul mates or if we don't connect at all once we meet in person as long as we're honest no body gets hurt. Guy's its a big TURN OFF to me when you starts asking sexual questions before we even agree to see each other Don't get me wrong I enjoy pleasing my guy in & out of the bedroom. However there is more to life & relationships than sex. I personally believe & know for me if I'm not happy with you out side the bedroom or if there is no attraction I don't want to go to the bedroom with ya no matter how good you say or think you are. Thanks for your time & if you have made it this far then send me a message Ya don't have to be scared or chicken I don't bite. However I've been known to nibble........ ***\\\***Please***\\\***Add This***To Your***Profile If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\\***Who Died***\***Of CANCER***\\\***Or Who may be***\\\***Suffering from it.WARNING**: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. I would say meet in a public place for coffee or a drink of some kind, to see how u feel when u see each other for the 1st time u may want to chat & even plan a real date for another time or u could want to spend more time getting to know each other that same nite & turn it into a real date. I think both should decide together on the first date. I don't think u should set a time limit on Ur first meeting.

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