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Ursula, 52
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

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They didn't have "unique" as a personality type... so I chose rockstar. Ok so I dont play an *** sing... but I still think Im still a rockstar :)I am an intelligent, independent and honest woman who is passionate about my life and those I love. I have two children who are now grown; therefore I am at a point in my life where I can again, think about "me". I am quite happy and secure on my own, and would rather be single than settle... but, I would love to meet a man I could call my best friend. Someone who will make me smile just thinking of him. Someone who would rather spend a quiet evening at home watching a movie, or hanging with friends, as opposed to a night at the bar, but still doesn't mind a night out now and then. Someone to laugh with, someone to share my thoughts and my dreams. Someone real. I value honesty, integrity and respect. Yes, honesty. Like everyone, I am looking for that "connection", but I am not interested in serial dating, nor am I interested in serial POFers. If you have contacted 50% of the women on here, you are not for me... you, are looking for "anything". I am looking for "one" and seeking another who is also looking for just "one". I am looking for a "friend", friends first, but I hope for a friendship that has the potential to develop into something deeper.Touch my mind and I'm drawn, touch my heart and I'm hooked. Let the rest fall into place naturally... I love to laugh, I love to learn, I love to live, I love to love. I am well rounded and grounded, uncomplicated and easy going, curious and inquisitive, unique with a touch of unpredictability I am real... no games and would like the same in return.I don't believe looks are most important but do believe there must be some form of mutual attraction. I have a soft spot for nice eyes. Oh and teeth... you must have teeth... your own.Just for funLove and Marriage... from the mouths of babes."If falling in love is anything like learning how to spell, I don't want to do it. It takes too long."--;Love is like an avalanche where you have to run for your life."--John, age 9"I think you're supposed to get shot with an arrow or something, but the rest of it isn't supposed to be so painful."--Manuel, age 8"No one is sure why it happens, but I heard it has something to do with how you smell. That's why perfume and deodorant are so popular."--Mae, age 9"On the first date, they just tell each other lies, and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date."--Mike, age 9"My mother says to look for a man who is kind. That's what I'll do. I'll find somebody who's kinda tall and handsome."--Carolyn, age 8"It gives me a headache to think about that stuff. I'm just a kid. I don't need that kind of trouble."--Kenny, age 7"I'm not rushing into being in love. I'm finding fourth grade hard enough."--;When you're married, you should tell your wife she's pretty, even if she looks like a truck"-.. and see who comes back :D

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Crime Martial Arts Sci-Fi Social Networking
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Will work on recent likes and dis-like soon. I had not realized I had not visited this site in so long.I am now 50 and calm in my life. Set in my ways kind of girl. Looking forward to Spring and Summer gardening and hopefully can get some hiking in this year. Had Major back surgery 14 months ago so that has set me back in enjoying thing's I like a bit. Okay here ***of my dis likes, ***Guys who write me looking for a quick lay or crap chat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is NOT ME! If your into head games, control issues,verbally abusing your woman, keep on moving down the road.I am sarcastic,honest,short,chubby,hard working hands. Can we please have a Summer do over. I am not into raising some other woman's children, that is their job. I have raised my Sons that GOD blessed me with. I just don't feel it's my part to do that. I am a SMOKER, So if that bothers you,Sorry! I say it like it is for the most part, I don't always know when to bite my tongue. I enjoy my quite time, I have been single for eight years by choice, So I have learned to live by myself without feeling lonely. I do enjoy time with another if it is meant to be. (MOTTO) When it ceases to be fun,, It ceases to be. Enough miserable head games in earlier 15 year relationship. IT'S TIME TO START LIVING BABY! Driving go-carts,enjoying a couple of brews afterwards. LOT OF LAUGHTER!

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  • Fanny from Shallotte | Woman | 52 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm warm, friendly, open, smart, funny, and optimistic. You should be too! Other than that, my only requirements are someone close to my age, a non-smoker, and someone really bright. I really love intelligent men.My preferences? Dogs over cats...Beatles over Rolling Stones...dark roast over decaf...fall over summer...milk chocolate over dark...Europe over beaches...jigsaw puzzles over cards...nonfiction over fiction...late nights over early mornings.....train travel over flying...country roads over highways...jeans over pantyhose (not literally, of course)...history over sports...homemade over store-bought...brains over brawn...It's a big world, and I've only seen a few pieces of it, so if you're adventurous, let's talk. I'll also want to know your favorite book and the best book you ever read (only rarely are they the same!). Then share with me your three favorite movies, because I could talk about movies all day. Where did you go to school? What's the best thing you ever ate? Give me three adjectives to describe your mother. Favorite quote? Funniest thing you ever heard or saw? What music gives you chills? Getting to know someone is one of my favorite things to do. Can we do that, please? I need a little favor here...please don't send me a message in "text-ese," like "ur," "plz," or "b4." It makes me feel as if I'm communicating with a teenager, and I most likely won't respond. (Hold your "snob" comments...you won't change my mind.)If you don't like women who are liberal, plus-sized (I'm currently a size 14...down from an 18 twelve weeks ago; please see my photo in the green sweater), or intelligent, move along...nothing to see here. ***I'm not a fan of extended *** texting, so if you're not willing to meet sooner rather than later, please help yourself to a lovely parting gift.***When can we meet? I'm open. What do you suggest?

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  • Rory from Shallotte | Woman | 54 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Life is great! Seemingly everything is in place. I have a great Career, a job I love to go to every day (and its only a 2 minute drive how can you beat that!). And during my free time I spend some of my time volunteering in my community. I also like to keep physically fit by running and cycling. My motto is: work to live but not vice versa. I believe a active mind and active body keeps one young. I have a good balance of serious and fun - and I am serious about having fun! I love music and listen to classic rock, pop, jazz, blues and country..My friends would describe me as compassionate, kind and always willing to help others. I consider myself very sociable; I enjoy spending time with family and friend but also cherish alone time with that special guy.You will find that I am warm, caring and loving person. I think laughter is the best sound to hear. I like to explore new places, But really - I don't mind what we are doing as long as we are doing it together.I have learned in past relationships that kindness is imperative. Laughter is essential! and no one is perfect - you have to try to just be yourself. Live for the moment. Make time for important people in your life; there is no telling what tomorrow will bring.All thats missing is that special guy, my partner in crime.....So if you are still reading - and you are compassionate, affectionate, fun(ny) happy and healthy. If you are adventurous, you can teach and be taught. You are not carrying a lot of lifes baggage around - I am looking to build a relationship not casually date.Thank you for taking the time to read my profile, if we do not connect - good luck in your search First Meeting would be casual - meet for a glass of wine or coffeeBut if sparks fly - lets go down to the Bier Markt or Distillery District (Boiler House or Mill St. Bar) St.

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