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Ursula, 52
United States, North Carolina, Shallotte

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About Me

They didn't have "unique" as a personality type... so I chose rockstar. Ok so I dont play an *** sing... but I still think Im still a rockstar :)I am an intelligent, independent and honest woman who is passionate about my life and those I love. I have two children who are now grown; therefore I am at a point in my life where I can again, think about "me". I am quite happy and secure on my own, and would rather be single than settle... but, I would love to meet a man I could call my best friend. Someone who will make me smile just thinking of him. Someone who would rather spend a quiet evening at home watching a movie, or hanging with friends, as opposed to a night at the bar, but still doesn't mind a night out now and then. Someone to laugh with, someone to share my thoughts and my dreams. Someone real. I value honesty, integrity and respect. Yes, honesty. Like everyone, I am looking for that "connection", but I am not interested in serial dating, nor am I interested in serial POFers. If you have contacted 50% of the women on here, you are not for me... you, are looking for "anything". I am looking for "one" and seeking another who is also looking for just "one". I am looking for a "friend", friends first, but I hope for a friendship that has the potential to develop into something deeper.Touch my mind and I'm drawn, touch my heart and I'm hooked. Let the rest fall into place naturally... I love to laugh, I love to learn, I love to live, I love to love. I am well rounded and grounded, uncomplicated and easy going, curious and inquisitive, unique with a touch of unpredictability I am real... no games and would like the same in return.I don't believe looks are most important but do believe there must be some form of mutual attraction. I have a soft spot for nice eyes. Oh and teeth... you must have teeth... your own.Just for funLove and Marriage... from the mouths of babes."If falling in love is anything like learning how to spell, I don't want to do it. It takes too long."--;Love is like an avalanche where you have to run for your life."--John, age 9"I think you're supposed to get shot with an arrow or something, but the rest of it isn't supposed to be so painful."--Manuel, age 8"No one is sure why it happens, but I heard it has something to do with how you smell. That's why perfume and deodorant are so popular."--Mae, age 9"On the first date, they just tell each other lies, and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date."--Mike, age 9"My mother says to look for a man who is kind. That's what I'll do. I'll find somebody who's kinda tall and handsome."--Carolyn, age 8"It gives me a headache to think about that stuff. I'm just a kid. I don't need that kind of trouble."--Kenny, age 7"I'm not rushing into being in love. I'm finding fourth grade hard enough."--;When you're married, you should tell your wife she's pretty, even if she looks like a truck"-.. and see who comes back :D

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Tanika from Shallotte | Woman | 51 years old | Gemini
    Tanika

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi, I am a widow who recently moved to Barrie with my children. I am a very energetic girl who loves the outdoors, gym time and down time. I am looking for a sincere man who hopefully would like to establish a relationship with. I love being outside and it is always fun to share things with someone by your side. I have a very outgoing personality and would love to find someone who makes me laugh. Hate shopping and love football. I enjoy the simple things in life at this age and value things that don't require a master card number. I am very creative and a lot of my friends call upon me to cheer them up my glass of life is always half full. Am straight forward and don't like head games...love to laugh and make that special someone laugh. Looks to me matter just like anyone else but most important what are looks without a wonderful personality. This is a tough one...I enjoy a simple date as sharing a drink on a patio and chatting, would love a walk on the beach perhaps after. Movies are nice but really...can't get to know someone while watching a movie. Simple is best. Coffee is for mornings. I enjoy most foods but not necessary on a first date. Intimate to me is a perfect date whatever that might be.

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  • Janna from Shallotte | Woman | 52 years old | Scorpio
    Janna

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    .I guess I have been gone too long! I am sharing an apartment with my daughter and grandson. I have 2 daughters ***& ***and 2 grandchildren ***& 9). My youngest daughter just moved out on her own so I am learning to deal with having an empty house!I like to take drives in the country, going to flea markets,fairs & carnivals,movies,bowling, or just stay at home and relax with a good movie. I like country music, oldies,& 80's & 90's too...Well I am looking for someone who doesn't lie or cheat, who works hard and is responsible. I am pretty easy going, I like to have fun but haven't had much fun in the past couple of years just been working all the time.Well, Thank you for taking the time to read my profile, I wish you luck in your search!Tracey I think that a first date should be something that is easy and not so nerve wracking...(like eating out) Maybe meet for coffee or drinks in a quiet place and just sit and talk.

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  • Letitia from Shallotte | Woman | 55 years old | Aries
    Letitia

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Ready to get back in the game, but not interested in PLAYING the game. I'm honest about who I am and expect those I meet to be the same. I'll come back here to add more detail but for now....I'm a fun loving extrovert who's completely happy with her life. I have a great job, great friends and family, and a great outlook on life. I'm just missing that one person to share it with. My favorite thing to do is go out and see live music. Anything from a tiny club to see one guy with a guitar to full band stadium shows. I also love good food....dining out or cooking in. I'm always up for a last minute road trip....preferably to the beach! First date would be coffee or a drink after work...a chance to talk and get to know each other.

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