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Julissa, 55
United States, North Carolina, Selma

Offline, last seen Mon, 08 Jun 2026 14:22:04

About Me

There is so much more to a persons’ character than a few written words can describe. In fact in many cases it can take years to really get to know someone. But we all have to start somewhere, right. Do you have just about everything in life but that one fantastic person to spend time with? Do you long to be with someone that makes you feel special and important? Are you looking for your better half… your soul mate? If so, you’re not alone.Our experiences shape who we are. Even so, there’s so much more to learn and much to look forward to… when we find that one right person to share it with. Like Forest Gump said: my momma always said, “Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get”. We don t know what the future holds for us. All we can do is take chances… and pray that Lord blesses us along the way.Do you enjoy the outdoors as much as I do - long coastal walks with the salt water swishing between your toes, the soothing sound of ocean waves, watching sunsets and sunrises, and cozy beach picnics on warm sunny days? I strive to share my time with people who are kind hearted, open, honest, genuine, fun, and down to earth. I'm way past the bar scene, *** spending time with friends at fun restaurants, outdoor events, house get-togethers, picnics, anything that encourages good conversation... and the opportunity to get to know and appreciate people for who they are.I enjoy going out, as well as the comforts of home. There is much to be said about the simple things in life. I love all kinds of music from New Age to New Country. I believe that exercise and taking care of ourselves is important… no matter where we’re at in life.If I were to describe my ideal mate, he would be handsome, clean-cut, intelligent, with a great sense of humor, responsible, and financially stable.’s even-tempered, open minded, and giving in heart and soul, a man with the ability to listen and communicate on a deeper level, a man understands that good things do require effort, and someone who enjoys the simple pleasures in life - as simple as cooking dinner together, when time allows.Equally important is chemistry – a crucial component to any lasting relationship. Sometimes it’s *** it develops over time as we spend time together. Either way it’s a necessity -- and one of those intangibles that has a magic all its own… and it can all start here, if we give it a chance. Lets decide together over coffee.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro English French Greek Portuguese Turkish Comedy Fantasy Sci-Fi Bowling Drag Racing
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