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Roxy, 51

United States, North Carolina, Selma

Offline, last seen Thu, 17 Sep 2026 13:45:21

About Me

HI,,..Was married 25years. Im ready to find somoone to spend the other 25 with ~~Im a rookie at this dating thing, and I dont like it too much.Physical attraction is important, but not thee most. I have a 6th sense, and if you love yourself, you can love the outside in everything, and in others. And, as everyones face is different,so is everyones insides, past and expierences. Yet, with all that being said, happiness comes from deep inside. Life is short, and no matter who you are.. Im kinda picky. ya got to be right?? I don't want a defect finder, or someone who can't use something bad, that has happened in thier lifes, and not be able to use it as a tool. I certainly do not want someone who is in STONE, unable to change u a bit..Try new things.Life has so much to offer! Im open, though.. I just don't want someone who doesn't talk. Let's meet and see~ ! Its been 6 years since I left my marriage of 25 years ! It was the right thing to do. I dont pick up guys in bars, never have. I go to only one place here where I live,,the voo on cliff st usually Friday nites. And, sadly, everything else is closed in this town.. It a safe (small dance floor) but I like the band, the music they play. I love to dance fast. And, I only go there, because,,haha there isen't anything else open!!I don't want to see pictures of your bike,,its not that I dont like to ride,,,I do..I just want a man not a bike..lolI still like to fish..just dont be too pissed when I out fish ya..* Im not interested in messaging for a month,,ya want meet me,,lets do it. * Please be a man who is capible of FEELING!! Honesty is besty best. .Im.not going hunting, but dont mind if ya do. Done that,,..did what he did,, But he couldnt hold my hand in public for 25 years.. or take me dancing...wtf.*******I want someone to MOVE me.. TURN my head, make decisions WITH me, come up with a plan,,ya know. Once in awhile, make me feel like u care what i like too,,,that would be amazing..Come up with something fun for us...Be the man,,but don't be afraid to cry. Then take me and make me your wife ! haha A dream that seems so impossible, yet I know God has someone right around the corner for me.I really don't want someone who drinks alot,,but don't mind if u might. I love a guy with longer hair, but don't mind if your bald..lol Its who you are, that will attract me...If ya drink everyday,Stop now. Im not interested in a drunk. Ya can't hide it..Cuz Im a pro. 21 years I have not taken a sip of alcohol, Never got in trouble with it, but its in the gene pool lol~~~*~~~I like to be busy doin stuff, making things, going places..I even like my space..,,,I just dont like to lay around,,,and hope you dont :)Im not after your money,,, and I hope u dont want mine...if we are together its yours anyway..right?..Sorry if I have alot of wishes here,,, Its just I truely have lacked them for so long~ so this is important. Because for the first time in my life IM IMPORTANT,,,I won't make me second or last on my own list ever again:)I would love a strong guy, someone who doesn't run into the barn and build a bird house when something tragic happens, Someone who can admit he made a mistake. laugh bout it, learn from it...be honest gawd..sh*thappenes. I don't ever want to be an actress anymore either,,I am what I am. I say it like it is, anbd I want to be happy! I want to be important to u. As u are to me.. Take care of me, as I would you anyway...... look me in the eyes when ya talk, . Give me butterflies:) If you can cry..oh my what a plus! extra poinTS!!If u can't be honest...GUT HONEST then it won't worK..Cash register honesty won't do. hahaI dont like diamonds..not interested in expiensive stuff...but tell me your taking me to a estate sale..and my eyes will light up the room:) My heart will flutter. Let's meet each other on fone first, I think that would be a start..I am thinking of ending my account in March***, when it ends. This is a scary site, Im not happy with it,,,but I keep pluggin away, as my best friend is still dating her fish,,lol But you better hurry before I get cold feet..Im getting better.. One last request..my son lost his dad..my x remarried, and quit suddenly speaking and loving my son and daughter.Its as if they didnt exsist. His kids and life has been erased...seriously...so my son lost his best friend and hunting partner of 25 years....Its like my son said... its like dad died...but he lives across town.. Sorry.I gotta have someone who could enjoy the races or a beer with my son once in awhile.. If you dont mind that i am who i am, they send me a message..and please MOVE me.! one more thing..I smoke a little,,trying like hell to quit..Have a beautiful day~ PS..The honesty here is because, why not...thanks for reading it..I think we are worth it,,,don't you? coffee, dinner dosen't matter:) Just don't drink on our first date...if ya dont like to dance maybe you could watch me..~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ just feeeeeeel it..youll be ok..I promise.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

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    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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