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Allyn, 53
United States, North Carolina, Selma

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About Me

I am not looking for a perfect man....just a man who is perfect for me. Myself, restless, creative, witty, sarcastic and some say opinionated. My friends would probably also say I am patient, easy going and a good listener. I am independent but far from being a feminist. All of this and a way cool mom too. My children are my top priority and live with me half of the time. If this is problematic for you, skip by me now! Although my values might be seen as somewhat old fashioned, I can laugh at a dirty joke and occasionally dish one out of my own. I am not afraid of spiders and mice but will require protection from snakes. I believe there should always be music playing and manicures are a weekly necessity. After all, hands get dirty gardening!I am against foods that wobble, cults, sloppy appearances, and poor housekeeping. I am all for rescue dogs,kids' school presentations, beaches and roadside farmer's markets.I am equally comfortable at sports events and cultural happenings, neither in excess. I have numerous environmental concerns and yes, I frequently hug trees and animals. If I am not quick to respond, it could be that I am on a hike or a bike. I might be found in a gym but in a pool or kayak is more likely.What do we have in common? My best first dates have been in Europe or on Tropical Islands, but I will agree to a coffee meet and greet!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Traveling British Bowling Sailing
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