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Lakia, 55
United States, North Carolina, Selma

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About Me

I must be honest and say that this site HAS made me some very good friends, if nothing else. I have met two special people on here, so ....maybe will try again. I am a Sagittarian and true to the profile pretty much. That's if you're into the stars at all. I am a good listener, trusting to a point...if I get to know you.. and I just want to enjoy life day by day. I am very spontaneous and okay..a little ADHD, but to a good extent. I just like to keep busy, so as not to hang on to the not so pleasant thoughts of life sometimes. Let's get something straight right off the bat..I don't want to be on the back burner for anyone.. Don't want to be second to a material object. That kind of makes you feel lame. I only have so much life left and I want to make myself and someone else happy.. I had my kids and hopefully they will be fine. I do like to relax after work and have my couple of drinks..I work hard and feel I deserve a little bit of enjoyment. I do smoke, but not a whole pack a day or anything like that... loved it.. It's great there and I miss it terribly. Nothing to explore or visit with awe. But, I made my choice and to be around my kids and grandkids is the best for me. I am a pretty easygoing person, but wear my heart on my sleeve and that sometimes will bring heartache to me. Love bonfires, fireworks, riding motorcycles and just hiking. I am generous and kind to an almost bad extent, so anyone looking to take advantage can look the other way, thanks. Go figure the boys have the kids and family! But they love their mom! The boys have brought me 5 grandkids between the two of them. They are sooo awesome. Two boys, two girls as the oldest. I am a big card player and video game player. Love playing games with a bunch of people. Just don't like sitting around getting bored. I like someone that will treat me like a lady, but this lady, has to laugh or I will be bored. It is one of the healthiest things you can do, seriously. I can be a little sarcastic/funny quite a bit, but never mean anything bad by it. I don't like to always be the one talking all the time either, so real shyness has got to go. I'm rather shy, so I don't need anybody worse than myself, you know? Also, I like someone who doesn't mind getting thoughtful little texts and little surprise cards, or a flower maybe. Can't say I've ever had that, but it really sounds good.:)Good luck! I am pretty easy going and don't judge anyone, so ...whatever makes them feel comfortable

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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