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Lakia, 55
United States, North Carolina, Selma

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About Me

I must be honest and say that this site HAS made me some very good friends, if nothing else. I have met two special people on here, so ....maybe will try again. I am a Sagittarian and true to the profile pretty much. That's if you're into the stars at all. I am a good listener, trusting to a point...if I get to know you.. and I just want to enjoy life day by day. I am very spontaneous and okay..a little ADHD, but to a good extent. I just like to keep busy, so as not to hang on to the not so pleasant thoughts of life sometimes. Let's get something straight right off the bat..I don't want to be on the back burner for anyone.. Don't want to be second to a material object. That kind of makes you feel lame. I only have so much life left and I want to make myself and someone else happy.. I had my kids and hopefully they will be fine. I do like to relax after work and have my couple of drinks..I work hard and feel I deserve a little bit of enjoyment. I do smoke, but not a whole pack a day or anything like that... loved it.. It's great there and I miss it terribly. Nothing to explore or visit with awe. But, I made my choice and to be around my kids and grandkids is the best for me. I am a pretty easygoing person, but wear my heart on my sleeve and that sometimes will bring heartache to me. Love bonfires, fireworks, riding motorcycles and just hiking. I am generous and kind to an almost bad extent, so anyone looking to take advantage can look the other way, thanks. Go figure the boys have the kids and family! But they love their mom! The boys have brought me 5 grandkids between the two of them. They are sooo awesome. Two boys, two girls as the oldest. I am a big card player and video game player. Love playing games with a bunch of people. Just don't like sitting around getting bored. I like someone that will treat me like a lady, but this lady, has to laugh or I will be bored. It is one of the healthiest things you can do, seriously. I can be a little sarcastic/funny quite a bit, but never mean anything bad by it. I don't like to always be the one talking all the time either, so real shyness has got to go. I'm rather shy, so I don't need anybody worse than myself, you know? Also, I like someone who doesn't mind getting thoughtful little texts and little surprise cards, or a flower maybe. Can't say I've ever had that, but it really sounds good.:)Good luck! I am pretty easy going and don't judge anyone, so ...whatever makes them feel comfortable

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Sharalyn from Selma | Woman | 52 years old | Sagittarius
    Sharalyn

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hi,I'm 52 yrs old. Divorced. I have a 19 yr old son in college. He is on his own. Stable income. I'm looking to date, and see where things lead. Hopefully leading to long term in the end. I'm usually up for anything. I have a lot of different interest, and am diverse in my musical taste. I like to try new things. Sometimes I'm spontaneous, and other times I like to plan things out. I can stay home cuddled up with you, or go out on a last minute road trip.I have a Great sense of Humor, and appreciate someone with a good sense of humor as well. I can be serious when needed. I'm looking for someone who is Honest, Sincere,Trustworthy, Unpretentious. I have a Big Heart, and I'm looking forward to sharing it with a man who has a Big Heart also. I'm a Hopeless Romantic with the right man.Open communication is a plus.I'll leave the rest for when we meet. Looking forward to getting to know you. Meet at a public venue, and maybe go for a long walk, and just talk, and get to know each other. Doesn't have to be anything fancy.

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  • Celeste from Selma | Woman | 52 years old | Aquarius
    Celeste

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I think the profiles that are the most compelling, the most thoughtful and hopefully the most honest are the ones that tell the story that can’t be told the first or second time you meet and probably don’t need to be told if there is a third. Oddly enough, it is about subtleties delivered with a broad brush approach. So here goes… I have an unyielding zest for life but love the quite times. I have been on meetville for about a month, quietly learning about the site and how it works. This morning, cup of coffee in hand, I am writing my profile. My life is about the yin and yang…I am an artist. I paint but I also work in the corporate world. I love the water and sailing/cruising but love connections to community and friends. I am not mixed up… it makes perfect sense to me. Humor, I truly think the world can’t turn without it. I love to laugh…the good kind, a real belly laugh. It is a gift we should use more. I like organization and try to keep my home/boat in order. She is my passion. I love my boat and Mr. Dobbs, my rather large, cat. He has turned out to be quite the boat cat.-aboard, boat cat. The people here are the perfect mix of eccentric and down to earth, well-to-do and hard working, fun and quirky, well versed in boat “mechanicing” to needing help tying a dock line… but we all love the water. It makes me smile to walk down the dock and see the grays of the dock boards, the ripples on the water and then the inevitable interruption of a warm greeting “another beautiful day.” Simply said, it is a good place. What I want… what kind of person will I ultimately find?… that is almost impossible to say upfront. It is about chemistry (literally), interests, direction, work ethic, values, sharing a good beer, music, knowledge (that yin and yang thing again, what can I learn from you and what can you learn from me), how you feel about the other creatures we share the plant with, how well you can trim the sails and oh, did I mention laughter. I am fit, strong and feel that I have a feminine quality that manages to stay in place even when I am working in the bilge or on my diesel engine. Appearance matters but it is not defining. Like a painting, for me “looks” are comprised of many layers: smiles, complexion, body shape and tone, hair and that ultimate sparkle in the eye. Pictures only go so far… you have to see a person in their environment to ultimately find out if there is a connection. To quote a song… “it’s a fragile magic” Gotta love life and it sure is fun trying to figure out this journey. Informal, simple. A drink or lunch.

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  • Kimberley from Selma | Woman | 52 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hi there! Thanks for stopping by to check me out. It says here to speak of my hobbies, goals & aspirations. I doubt that my hobby of collecting teacups & teddy bears will help in making a connection. As for goals....well I'd have to say to remain content. OK....next it says to talk about myself & what makes me unique. Ahh....here's the fun part! Unique? I'd say yes....but in a good way. I'm definitely on the fun/playful side....always ready for a tickle fight! I've been told I'm quirky & funny. I treasure my time with friends & family. I am a believer....a child of God....Jesus is my Lord & Savior. I enjoy comedy & cartoons but also a good paranormal/science fiction movie. No tats but I do have a piercing. My style of dress is mostly casual but I do adore getting dressed up for a night out on the town. I don't wear make-up except on occasion..... definitely low maintenance. Love playing backgammon (still searching for a worthy opponent). As for music I listen to music like "Green Day", "; & even some "Systems of a Down" ....also classic rock & contemporary Christian..."Kutless" is my favorite Christian band...love Chris Tomlin's work too! I love to cook but enjoy sharing the meal even more. I try to attend church every Sunday (non-denomination). Sorry...not a big sports fan but I can sit & enjoy a game here & there....I'm more of the "here's your snacks & drinks for you & your buddies....enjoy the game" kinda gal. My favorite past time is treasure hunting at the local thrift....tea cups & teddy bears! That's where I'd be during game time. I also read in my quiet time. Lately I've been reading a bit more fantasy/fiction. I'm pretty easy going.....no drama, no chaos. My life is very peaceful...I wish to keep it that way. My only physical requirement I have of you is that you have a nice smile......and please don't be a psycho! Well that's it for now. Hopefully I've either satisfied your interest or have intrigued it. Happy Fishing! I find the best place for a first date is a quiet place for coffee or a drink.......somewhere we can talk & get to know each other.

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