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Gaynelle, 55
United States, North Carolina, Selma

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I like to learn and try new things and I admire people who have invested in educating themselves. Not an intellectual snob, but ‘intelligent’ is one of the first words people use to describe me, and I have to admit that education is important to me. So teach me something! Other words that describe me are romantic, affectionate, compassionate, loyal and trustworthy (no, I’m NOT a co-cker spaniel!) and these are qualities I need in a partner. In addition, you must be a good kisser and love kissing! Last but not least, I think humor is a gift from the Gods, so if you make me laugh, I will think YOU are a gift from the Gods. Most of all, I'm looking for someone who has the time and the desire to invest in a relationship where we take care of each other, give at least as much as we take, and create joy in each other's lives. I’d like for there to be someone I could lean on at times, but I’d also like my lover to feel he can sometimes lean on me.For fun and entertainment, I love to travel, explore, try new things, read, discuss, and do all kinds of things that fall in the category of “just chillin’.” I enjoy music (I would say rock, folk, alternative, world, and classical before I would say rap, pop, hip-hop or jazz), movies, museums, cooking and eating, theater, opera, and ballet. I especially love the outdoors and just about any kind of physical activity - I dance (folk, swing, salsa) and dancing with a lover is one of the sexiest, most romantic things I know! Other things I think are especially wonderful to share with a partner are hot tubs and massage and cuddling in front of a fire or snuggling together during long mornings in bed.If you decide to contact me, please say something more than “hi” or “you look good” – I just don’t know what to respond to messages like that! Not that I’m looking for endless *** “chatting” either – I need to meet a person to really get a sense of who he is – but if you don’t have anything to say when you write to me, I don’t feel particularly inspired to write back. Finally, I hope it goes without saying that at least one of your pictures should be recent. It’s not that looks are so important to me, but honesty is!Oh yeah, one more thing: I don’t like racists, homophobes, arch conservatives or religious fundamentalists, so those folks should definitely take a pass... I think a first meeting should be casual and unpretentious, just in case there's no chemistry. So I'd be happy just to meet somewhere for coffee or a co-cktail. But if there IS chemistry, and we get to plan a second date, let the fun begin!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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