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Darcel, 51
United States, North Carolina, Selma

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About Me

I've been on here for awhile.I spent so many years with the wrong person, I just want to get it right this time around. Its not easy finding the right person, I was starting to think a needle in a haystack would be easier. Then someone pointed out to me that what I'm looking for is "the right needle, in a needle stack." lol I think that may be the problem. So here I am.I've been divorced since "05". I'm independent and I'm doing my best to get my life together. I own my own home, my children are grown. Now I'm just trying to decide which direction I'd like to go with my life.Hoping to find my "Mr. right" Just one of my dreams. So maybe some travel in my near future. Now if I can only find the right travel companion.About me...I guess Im a very down to earth, low maintenance type of girl. Im not into bling, . Ive always been pretty self sufficient. I guess one tends to get that way when there's no one else to depend on but yourself. I love the ocean,I really miss living near it. I love boating and fishing.I hate winter and the cold temps it brings. I love art, history, nature, animals, and festivals.Also it would be really nice to have that special someone to sit in front of the fire on a winter night to cuddle, laugh and discuss all the weird things out there that make ya go hmm... As far as dating goes, I married young, so I didn't have the opportunity to date around when I was younger. For the past few years, Ive had that opportunity. Ive went out, made new friends and began to enjoy my life again. Although, it just seems to be missing something. That one special person to share all of life's special moments with.I feel I'm at that point in my life that Id really like to settle down with the right guy. I hope I'm not 80 when I find him lol. Since my divorce in "05" I've fell in love once. He passed away a year later. I now know what I was missing all those years. I wont settle for less now. Just waitin on the fireworks again! When filling out this profile, it ask what we are looking for.I guess it's someone who will put the "extra" in the ordinary to create that extraordinary relationship we all hope to have.I recently read a quote that says it all so well and explains why I'm still single. "Unless it is mad passionate extraordinary Love,it's a waste of time. There are too many mediocre things in life. Love should not be one of them." author Unknown....SOUL MATES.....I look into your eyesMy heart skips a beatThen races wildlyI know you're the oneWithout so much as a touchOr a kiss Or hearing your voiceI'll know you My soul could never forget youWe've known each other since the beginning of timeWake up! Remember me!I'm right *** and protectedNOTE: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum starting from previous current and future postings.. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. Sometimes just a cup of coffee may be a good ice breaker.I also really enjoy a nice walk along the river, if we click maybe grab some lunch at one of the restaurants overlooking the water. It's a nice way to just sit, chat, and get to know one another. If we don't click, we're not obligated to spend a long evening with someone with whom we don't feel a connection with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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