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Gregoria, 55
United States, North Carolina, Selma

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Oh heavens... Where to start...I'm a tomboy, smart, flirtatious, witty, "old hippie", earth mother, genuine, fun, private, talented, creative, friendly, G-R-E-A-T cook... so much more but nothing ostentatious... I really am a good gal.-5 times a year for fun which may include a jam session, bonfire, hayride, BBQ, and generally hanging out with friends. More on my intention: I don't know if I want to get "serious" with someone or not. I really don't want to put a category on this because it isn't neat and tidy like that. By age 55 I think my expectations are tempered with the fact that I don't have a crystal ball, nor do I want one. I want to meet a nice man, date, have dinner, build a friendship with someone who stands out because he stands for something... who is kind to animals, kids of all ages and old people... who isn't too wrapped up in body-perfection but tries to live a healthy life-style... who can talk about or do most anything - not afraid of work but not a workaholic either... who has a relationship with Something bigger than Him on a Spiritual level but doesn't have to preach at others... who isn't afraid of a woman who knows who she is and has his own hobbies and interests... who has weathered some stormsthat being said... I really enjoy hanging out nearby, or on/off the water... or in the woods. I sing/play and enjoy live music - I don't drink alcohol but I will go to the wineries for the music, food, and fun. Cowboy television (fire) is good whether I'm alone or with someone.My kid is a senior in high school - ready to bolt - and I'm about ready to let her. She's going to have a great life and she's nearly old enough to have a run at it on her own. I'm looking forward to the next chapters of my life book.I work as a therapist but am not interested in counseling in my off-hours. Work should be left at work - don't you think?I do volunteer work by appointment tho.I can be as deep or as shallow as I need to for a given situation, but I don't care to be around rude or aggressive attitudes. I'm not a couch potato unless I'm feeling sick. I really enjoy life through an awareness of my senses - including, but not limited to... getting into the wind, dancing in the rain, swimming in the creek (the way water feels when you first dive into a pool), smelling/tasting/cooking fresh and tasty foods, listening to everything including the beating of your heart or your breaths rising and falling, the taste of a great kiss... all with gratitude and respect...Hey... if it matters... I am not a clean-freak. My house is lived in - sometimes cluttery - but I can get it company ready in 2 hours at any given time. One dog lives inside and two are outside with 5 cats - barn cats really but they like to hunt in the woods. Ours is a peaceful space.Looky here... I have a lot going on between my ears, my heart, and my soul, and it's all good, healthy, normal (relatively), and I'd much rather start a conversation with you, have a cup of coffee or tea, and see if we care to move forward. First face-to-face:A day or early evening cup of coffee or tea or water and maybe appetizers. Some conversation and eye contact - with an appropriate amount of nervous energy. And then we'll see...First date:Meet mid-morning and head out to a flea market, antique store, outdoor event, winery, festival, etc, to walk around, hang out, share space. Then to lunch or a picnic (hopefully outdoor seating). Maybe take a ride in the country.

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Darcel from Selma | Woman | 51 years old | Capricorn
    Darcel

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I've been on here for awhile.I spent so many years with the wrong person, I just want to get it right this time around. Its not easy finding the right person, I was starting to think a needle in a haystack would be easier. Then someone pointed out to me that what I'm looking for is "the right needle, in a needle stack." lol I think that may be the problem. So here I am.I've been divorced since "05". I'm independent and I'm doing my best to get my life together. I own my own home, my children are grown. Now I'm just trying to decide which direction I'd like to go with my life.Hoping to find my "Mr. right" Just one of my dreams. So maybe some travel in my near future. Now if I can only find the right travel companion.About me...I guess Im a very down to earth, low maintenance type of girl. Im not into bling, . Ive always been pretty self sufficient. I guess one tends to get that way when there's no one else to depend on but yourself. I love the ocean,I really miss living near it. I love boating and fishing.I hate winter and the cold temps it brings. I love art, history, nature, animals, and festivals.Also it would be really nice to have that special someone to sit in front of the fire on a winter night to cuddle, laugh and discuss all the weird things out there that make ya go hmm... As far as dating goes, I married young, so I didn't have the opportunity to date around when I was younger. For the past few years, Ive had that opportunity. Ive went out, made new friends and began to enjoy my life again. Although, it just seems to be missing something. That one special person to share all of life's special moments with.I feel I'm at that point in my life that Id really like to settle down with the right guy. I hope I'm not 80 when I find him lol. Since my divorce in "05" I've fell in love once. He passed away a year later. I now know what I was missing all those years. I wont settle for less now. Just waitin on the fireworks again! When filling out this profile, it ask what we are looking for.I guess it's someone who will put the "extra" in the ordinary to create that extraordinary relationship we all hope to have.I recently read a quote that says it all so well and explains why I'm still single. "Unless it is mad passionate extraordinary Love,it's a waste of time. There are too many mediocre things in life. Love should not be one of them." author Unknown....SOUL MATES.....I look into your eyesMy heart skips a beatThen races wildlyI know you're the oneWithout so much as a touchOr a kiss Or hearing your voiceI'll know you My soul could never forget youWe've known each other since the beginning of timeWake up! Remember me!I'm right *** and protectedNOTE: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum starting from previous current and future postings.. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. Sometimes just a cup of coffee may be a good ice breaker.I also really enjoy a nice walk along the river, if we click maybe grab some lunch at one of the restaurants overlooking the water. It's a nice way to just sit, chat, and get to know one another. If we don't click, we're not obligated to spend a long evening with someone with whom we don't feel a connection with.

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  • Roxy from Selma | Woman | 51 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    HI,,..Was married 25years. Im ready to find somoone to spend the other 25 with ~~Im a rookie at this dating thing, and I dont like it too much.Physical attraction is important, but not thee most. I have a 6th sense, and if you love yourself, you can love the outside in everything, and in others. And, as everyones face is different,so is everyones insides, past and expierences. Yet, with all that being said, happiness comes from deep inside. Life is short, and no matter who you are.. Im kinda picky. ya got to be right?? I don't want a defect finder, or someone who can't use something bad, that has happened in thier lifes, and not be able to use it as a tool. I certainly do not want someone who is in STONE, unable to change u a bit..Try new things.Life has so much to offer! Im open, though.. I just don't want someone who doesn't talk. Let's meet and see~ ! Its been 6 years since I left my marriage of 25 years ! It was the right thing to do. I dont pick up guys in bars, never have. I go to only one place here where I live,,the voo on cliff st usually Friday nites. And, sadly, everything else is closed in this town.. It a safe (small dance floor) but I like the band, the music they play. I love to dance fast. And, I only go there, because,,haha there isen't anything else open!!I don't want to see pictures of your bike,,its not that I dont like to ride,,,I do..I just want a man not a bike..lolI still like to fish..just dont be too pissed when I out fish ya..* Im not interested in messaging for a month,,ya want meet me,,lets do it. * Please be a man who is capible of FEELING!! Honesty is besty best. .Im.not going hunting, but dont mind if ya do. Done that,,..did what he did,, But he couldnt hold my hand in public for 25 years.. or take me dancing...wtf.*******I want someone to MOVE me.. TURN my head, make decisions WITH me, come up with a plan,,ya know. Once in awhile, make me feel like u care what i like too,,,that would be amazing..Come up with something fun for us...Be the man,,but don't be afraid to cry. Then take me and make me your wife ! haha A dream that seems so impossible, yet I know God has someone right around the corner for me.I really don't want someone who drinks alot,,but don't mind if u might. I love a guy with longer hair, but don't mind if your bald..lol Its who you are, that will attract me...If ya drink everyday,Stop now. Im not interested in a drunk. Ya can't hide it..Cuz Im a pro. 21 years I have not taken a sip of alcohol, Never got in trouble with it, but its in the gene pool lol~~~*~~~I like to be busy doin stuff, making things, going places..I even like my space..,,,I just dont like to lay around,,,and hope you dont :)Im not after your money,,, and I hope u dont want mine...if we are together its yours anyway..right?..Sorry if I have alot of wishes here,,, Its just I truely have lacked them for so long~ so this is important. Because for the first time in my life IM IMPORTANT,,,I won't make me second or last on my own list ever again:)I would love a strong guy, someone who doesn't run into the barn and build a bird house when something tragic happens, Someone who can admit he made a mistake. laugh bout it, learn from it...be honest gawd..sh*thappenes. I don't ever want to be an actress anymore either,,I am what I am. I say it like it is, anbd I want to be happy! I want to be important to u. As u are to me.. Take care of me, as I would you anyway...... look me in the eyes when ya talk, . Give me butterflies:) If you can cry..oh my what a plus! extra poinTS!!If u can't be honest...GUT HONEST then it won't worK..Cash register honesty won't do. hahaI dont like diamonds..not interested in expiensive stuff...but tell me your taking me to a estate sale..and my eyes will light up the room:) My heart will flutter. Let's meet each other on fone first, I think that would be a start..I am thinking of ending my account in March***, when it ends. This is a scary site, Im not happy with it,,,but I keep pluggin away, as my best friend is still dating her fish,,lol But you better hurry before I get cold feet..Im getting better.. One last request..my son lost his dad..my x remarried, and quit suddenly speaking and loving my son and daughter.Its as if they didnt exsist. His kids and life has been erased...seriously...so my son lost his best friend and hunting partner of 25 years....Its like my son said... its like dad died...but he lives across town.. Sorry.I gotta have someone who could enjoy the races or a beer with my son once in awhile.. If you dont mind that i am who i am, they send me a message..and please MOVE me.! one more thing..I smoke a little,,trying like hell to quit..Have a beautiful day~ PS..The honesty here is because, why not...thanks for reading it..I think we are worth it,,,don't you? coffee, dinner dosen't matter:) Just don't drink on our first date...if ya dont like to dance maybe you could watch me..~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ just feeeeeeel it..youll be ok..I promise.

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  • Arvilla from Selma | Woman | 52 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    The weather is going to take some getting use to. What a difference!!! But my daughter asked me to move closer to her so why not. I retired in ***after ***yrs in the legal field. I am raising a 17 month old, and he is awesome I am a fun loving lady who loves to have good times, and fully believe that laughter truly is the best medicine. However, that said, I do know when and where to be serious. I enjoy family and friends and seeing other smile. I enjoy photography, camping, fishing, cuddling, cooking, NASCAR, weekend trips and the simple things too many forget about. I really think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. Good company can make what would have been a mundane experience a great time. It is also important that you are able to carry on a conversation whether the topic is silly or serious. I think its fantastic if your idea of fun is cuddling up on the couch with a movie or just relaxing together. I am not into drama, one night stands or men that don't know the true meaning of being honest. So if anything here peaks your interest, leave me a message. Miss C. Something casual so we could talk and see if there is an interest and go from there.

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