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Tamia, 51
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

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About Me

No coffee needed! I wake up happy and ready to roll every morning!I am upbeat and outgoing with a big heart...and a mix of many opposite traits. Bright but down to earth, energetic but able to slow it all down, athletic but feminine, a sucker for a cause but not fanatical, a mom but a woman underneath. I know how to have fun in a big way (!!!) but also have an introspective, thinktank side that needs to be indulged, too. Tickle my mind and my heart, and hopefully the rest will follow. Woohoo!I'm a devoted hockey Mom, black belt sparring partner and concert roadie (fancy title for chauffeur to my son’s gigs).-time. I have all my parenting ducks in a row, and we have a great life. But I can't jet off to Belize on a whim. Though I am spontaneous by nature, right now I need to plan for it a bit. The right guy for me loves family and will understand. Together, we'll figure out how to work around it all. I don't require a specific look, however I prefer a man whose smile is wide and whose eyes twinkle. If yours do, you know exactly what I mean. I like a guy whose kindness and integrity inspire those around him. And, I enjoy a man who is active and lives a healthy lifestyle, but a perfect physique and thick head of hair are not necessary. As we age, gravity wins, though I'm fighting it kicking and screaming!My favorite kind of partner does life a lot like I do, but of course with a guy spin to it all. Together, we can read each other's glances without saying a word. We agree that text is great but talk is better. We are emotionally healthy and share our feelings out loud, generously. Our chats are energetic, two-way volleys. We laugh till our stomachs hurt. We like pillow fights and pillow talk. And, we're in a good place to build a relationship because our divorces (if you're divorced) are long done and any resulting fallout resolved. If all this sounds so good that you can't wait to get in touch, then please, drop a few lines and tell me more. I like talk (and soooo much better than text). Let's go to a quaint place with charm and personality and have a glass of pinot. Or...let's go to a brew pub and get a sampler of the latest greatests! I like comfortable, casual and memorable....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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