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Ossia, 55

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About Me

Hi! I am an active independent 55 yr. old woman. I am not perfect nor am I looking for perfection. However, I do take care of myself and I am looking for some one who takes pride in their appearance. I am looking for a man who is sincere in finding a new beginning in their life, a new best friend and new soul mate, leaving their past as a closed chapter as I have. . I love to laugh and I have a great sense of humour. I love when a man has a great sense of humour and can brighten my day or makes me smile with warm one liner. I am a very caring and compassionate person and have no problem showing my affection for someone. I am looking for a man who is a gentleman and has no problem showing his affection and compassion. I like a man to walk beside me holding my hand and an arm around me to let me know he is near and cares. I am looking for a man who is stable in their life and has the time to spend with me but still understands from time to time we need our space to fill our individual needs. I am seeking a man who likes to be spontaneous once in while and likes surprising me. Family and friends are important to me and I appreciate the same in a partner. I like going for walks holding hands, the beach, south for winter vacation, travelling, going for a drive to where ever, maybe stopping in one of those unique towns, cottaging, reading, motorcycles, love music (all kinds except rap), concerts (inside and outside), dancing, going to the movies, the theatre once in awhile. I like dining out, or barbequing in the back yard, a glass of wine or a nice cold beer! I like golf, playing and watching ball, hockey, football and yes, I love to cuddle on the couch watching a good movie.........I am not into one night stands so don't waste my time nor am I into glorifying the truth just to impress me. The truth comes out eventually. I do believe you have to start by dating and go from there. Please do not analyze. Take it one step at a time. If it is the distance.....for the right one....I believe you can make it work. Trust me, one kiss says it all! What ever we are both comfortable with. That can be discussed when we are chatting..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elvira

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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