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Pattie, 51
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

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About Me

Hi everyone. Let me tell you a little about me...I am a single mom to 3 adult children, 3 rescued shelter dogs, and a kitten, so I guess you have to like kids and pets. You must be HONEST, RESPECTFUL, and CARING. A gentleman who is outgoing, responsible, funny (please make me laugh), employed, educated, and kind and fun to be with is definitely a priority. I am very quick witted, and sometimes wonder if I am the only one who "gets it". I believe in talking over the internet first, then phone. You can learn so much about each other before you meet for the first time. I don't consider dating a game. I am very close with my family and enjoy being with them. My children are my number one priority and yours should be as well. A man that has children is great, but would prefer if they are older.I believe in old fashioned values...honesty, respect, commitment, respect, monogamy, respect, opening doors, respect!!! Get it?Because of my close family ties, I am not up for relocation. Thought I would put that out there........What I Like: Laughing till my face hurts. Going to NYC by train. Movies. Comedy Clubs. Museums. Doing something, or even nothing with the person I am with. What I don't like: Liars, cheaters, disrespectful people, players. If you say you are going to call, then call. Leading someone on, then just "disappearing." Never quite understood that one. If you're not interested, just say so.What makes a great date? Great conversation, mutual attraction, having a good time, not realizing that hours have passed and not wanting it to end, and of course looking forward to the next one. First dates are always so awkward and nerve racking, but they can be so amazing and wonderful too. It really doesn't matter where we go or what we do, what matters is having a good time together. Keeping it casual and non-pressured is the best.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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