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Lilita, 53
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

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About Me

Hello. A little about me. I am a mother of 3 adult children, two daughters and one son. My oldest daughter passed away four years ago at the age of 26. My other two (daughter and son) are twins. They are now 27 years old and on their own. My daughter lives down south so I try to travel down as often as possible to see her. I am also a grandparent of three awesome beautiful girls. 11, 5 & 11months. I am also very proud to say I am a member of the Blue Star Moms. Three Blue Stars, one for each child deployed. My son, daughter & son in-law. I have been employed with the local county police dept for the last 20 years. I've been in several commands over the years and each one was a blessing to be a part of. Would love to share the future memories with someone that also wants to share what life has to offer. At 53 years old, no children at home, I like to jump in the car and just go. Whether it be the next town over or a journey thru states. As much as I love to see new different places, I also love the comforts of home and family. I love all genres of music. Well, not all. I do not like rap. Give me classic rock, country, blues, jazz, classical, soul, reggae....I like the beach and the country. I can adapt to almost anything and willing to experience just about anything. I have knocked one dream trip off my bucket list. Awesome trip, but would have been so much better if shared with someone special. Another dream trip is an African Safari. Being a contestant or just being able to try out the course on "Wipe Out" looks like awesome fun. I love roller coasters, sling shot chair ride, anything exciting. I LOVE to laugh (I laugh LOUD), and I really love to be silly. I'm looking for someone who wants to do these silly fun things with me. I think the perfect first date would be somewhere with a relaxed atmosphere. Coffee, drinks, treats, casual n comfy. Maybe a nice casual walk/ hike at a local park or beach.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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