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LorelleOffline
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
I have four daughters: two are grown, one started LSU this fall, and the baby is a junior in high school. I enjoy participating in community organizations that are oriented toward improving and enriching my community.** I will be at work on September 16, so hopefully I will be settled in my house. *****I am looking for my happily-ever-after, but that could be simply me, kayaking and painting and writing***You should NOT message me if***you smoke heavily or do drugs- you obsess on your boat/Harley/truck/etc. because I have very diverse interests and enjoy a wide variety of entertainment- you are stuck in a rut, whether it's music, food, art (or lack thereof***again, I enjoy so many genres and cultures I am Catholic. I had checked Christian - He is so wonderfully accepting of others which fits my beliefs as well. I accept the beliefs of most other religions. I don't think I can put a box around the concept of God. Also - the 'drink socially' - a margarita w Mexican food, or something w appetizers. But I have a glass of red almost every night - that's seriously part of my health and fitness. On the relationship check box - I do want a long-term relationship, but Initially, I want to meet and see how things go, NO rush! If you read the 'long term' and 'I want a relationship', and are still here but a little concerned - it's alright. Casual activity friends are great as well. However, I hope to find my happily ever after soulmate. I love to travel, and keep a bag partially packed so that I can be out the door within thirty minutes for a fun weekend. I try to combine my favorites when traveling - I love historic sites, concerts, art, architecture and food. Souvenirs for me are small pebbles, sand or soil. (there is a connection!)I like to investigate the local cuisine, as well as any unusual places that hit my radar. Barbeque? Once home, I love to replicate the wonderful things that I experienced. Cooking is one of my joys, whether following recipes exactly to achieve a special meal, or just a from scratch, off the top of my hea d down home country dinner.Music is essential. Plainsong, baroque, classical, romantic, swing, big band, rock, alternative, some country, and marching band are just some of the genres I enjoy. I saw the "How the Edge Stole Christmas" concert with my younger daughters. The concert started at ***and lasted until ***with 6 bands performing, including Fun., Silversun Pickups, and The Joy Formidable. Now that I'm moving home, I am planning to resume my regular trips to Jazz Fest. The 'stately oaks and broad magnolias' of LSU are home to me. I have never seen the Tigers lose any game I've attended.When I said I like hiking, I really needed to have a way to make it say 'meandering and exploring'. If you are one of those hikers who sets goals and times for arrival, hmm....Biking is better. I tend to stay on the path. Canoeing is another thing altogether. I love it dearly, but most of my stops are unintentional.A good night with the family would include board games or a movie, with a big bowl of fresh kettle corn. Just the two of us? Maybe a nice bottle of old vine zin, brie with fig compote, and all the time in the world. I am very affectionate and romantic. I like hand-holding, cuddling, snuggling, hugging, kissing, etc. The etc. is important. For me, a healthy, happy relationship has a strong physical relationship. Kindness and compliments are also necessary. I enjoy sweet words, a loving touch, a note, a card, a leaf, a pebble... Just something that says I'm special to you.;What Are You Doing the Rest of Your Life?" - that's what I want. If things go well, we'll visit for a while, and then maybe we'll wander out to explore the neighborhood. As we stroll, we will chat about the different things we see, learning more about each other as we go along. If we see a cool restaurant, or hear music that we like, we may decide to check it out.(Meeting for coffee also means that we can shake hands and leave easily)
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MontanaOffline
Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
I'm actively seeking a live/work situation, but if in that process I meet my "soulmate," that would be awesome. But I know finding what I really want in a soulmate (and note, I'm good with staying alone until if/when I find that guy) can take some time. My primary goal right now is to live in a more rural-ish, healthy home (ideally an organic farm, or other healthy environment--non-smoking, etc). Live/work, which means I live there rent (and utility cost) free (I provide my own food), with possibly a small stipend depending on the terms (negotiable)...and in exchange, I work for you as a platonic "wife," personal/business assistant, secretary (excellent writing/editing skills, mucho speedy typist), home manager, personal health coach/counselor, etc. I'm also a visual artist, and love helping with home decor...web design, photography, anything where I'll be working with color and design. Just a multi-talented girlie ;-) So I have much to offer in this exchange.======== Seeking Soulmate =========I'm a LIBRA, not a Virgo, although I do have a strong Virgo influence. If you think astrology and the like is bunk and/or you're not open to actually learning, discovering the truth about that which you know-not (as opposed to just swallowing what some old book says), then hit the back button, please. Thank you and toodles ;-) Please have an awesome sense of humor. I want a guy who enjoys communication, and who is intelligent and confident enough to describe himself nicely in writing or in person. Proper spelling and grammar am good ;-) Too much for me to ask? Then, babe, you're on the wrong page ;-)I know everyone says they're unique and all, but I really am :-) Look much younger than my age. On a physical level, I'm particularly drawn to kind of a mountain man look (although I'm open in that regard...any truly confident, not arrogant, intelligent guy is appealing). A well-kept mountain man, nice beard/moustache...writerly, artistic...who exercises and takes very good care of himself.Health-conscious (not optional***or more of these is part of his lifestyle: exercise, yoga, organic food, never eat junk food, etc ... Sorry, but I could not be happy with someone who wasn't also health-conscious and into exercise and taking care of their bod. You don't have to be perfect (I'm not), but you do have to be very conscientious about taking care of yourself. No Cheetos or Hostess cupcakes in my cabinets :-D More like chia seeds and coconut butter (very healthful).Also, f-o-o-t-b-a-l-l is blecky, hehe. So please don't be a lover/watcher of s-p-o-r-t-s, and big points if you rarely watch TV at all (I do love to watch comedy...SNL, Seinfeld, etc). I love nature and animals, love hiking...living in the country. I'm very creative, enjoy writing and doing just about anything with color--painting, collage, interior design, web design, etc. Art, I love art. My ideal guy would be very creative, writer, artist, loves to read, honest, very intelligent, great sense of humor, open-minded, non-conformist, compassionate, very interested in things like permaculture and solar power...organic gardening and all that :-)Hmm, what else about me. I can be intense, love to conversate--and I think I'm very funny. Non-religious spiritual, and would require the same in a partner. I'm a Libra, we make the best partners--loving, compassionate, sexy, sweet...we create beautiful, comfy homes. Very affectionate with those we love. I enjoy a wide variety of music--old rock, new country, and a little of this, little of that (pretty much anything but rap). Strong interest in metaphysics (if you don't know what that means, you're probably not the one for me, ha, it means I love things like astrology and TAROT cards, and joo-joo beans, lol...just kidding on that one, I have no idea what joo-joo beans are, lol), nonconformity, the law, human rights--especially women's and children's rights, and taking care of our planet.Under the heading of "goals and aspirations" would be freedom and self-sufficiency. I wanna live in the country, ideally very secluded, organic garden, and "off the grid" as much as possible and still be comfortable--solar power and all. I love the peace and quiet, the sweet sounds of the woods, a concert of birds on a beautiful spring morning...a deep black sky all sparkling with stars on a perfect summer evening... Well, first dates are tricky. Either ya' click or you don't. And it you don't, it's not fun. So a first date is best planned to be short-n-sweet. Maybe a coffee shop or similar. More lengthy dates that I'd enjoy would be hiking, a walk/picnic in the park, dinner at an organic healthfood restaurant, horseback riding...rent a movie and cozy it up at home by the fireplace :-)
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ElviraOffline
Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 52-62
Please take 2 minutes to read the whole thing ..THANKS!!!Im Looking to be crazy, madly INLOVE with the right guy , that will take the relationship to the end of life!!.....Its getting cold ,,I need a real snuggler and cuddler with his big arms wrapped around me, making me feel safe and warm.I need my Babe ,,and want him to call me his Babe ...And hopefully hes so into me, and im so into him. it ends up being that relationship you envy when seeing other couples together at the park or holding hands etc...We all want that magical love!!!But part of the magic to a great relationship is loyalty, being trustworthy, honesty, be caring, be loving, be a man who knows about intimacy,be kind, be gentle, laugh with me, cry with me or at least comfort me because how ever stupid it is, its important to me ,always appreciate each other,always tell each other you love them ,,have his back as he will have yours ...all these and much more are VERY IMPORTANT TO ME ,,Ive given MY ALL in relationships only to be hurt, burnt, maybe cheated on, used, and im done with those kind of men!! Im done being used!But Im waiting for a sign ,,I havent felt it yet....But its so "unmistakable" when it happens..But here, i look at his eyes in the pics hes posted ,,I read the words he's written, and when it grabs me in a certain way ,,you will definately know it and hopefully we meet ( not at dunkins) Dinner and conversation and at a cozy nice resturant where we can talk ( A REAL DATE), and hopefully you have conversation back with me and i dont have to drag words out of you, Its the type of chemistry, that if you know if Its going to be an amazing date , it may for sure will end up in an amazingggggggg relationship.....I wish you all luck that you find that woman that gives you that unmistakable feeling, and if by the end of the date there are no sparks,( you will both know) ,, then move on to the next...but guys , im sorry ,,we want REAL DATES, not a dunkins donut and a coffee ,,..theres no impression there ,, its daytime usually, its the wrong mood , its not a DATE ..its a 5 minute meet and greet ,,there's no excitement to it ,,it sucks actually....wellllllllllThese are my real feelings on what i want in a relationship ,,I want closeness...I want him to text me during the day if he can ,,if were definately a couple ,,arouse me by that text, as i will you..heat things up!!! show her you love her ,,dont push her away when she wants to hang on you, or play with your goatee ( (Love Goatees!! lol) and show people in public , that yes ,,i love this man/woman with all my heart and soul and want everyone to know!!! Do you own a motorcycle??????Love summer riding!...have all my own gear :) but hate riding on freezing nights!! BBBBrrrrrrrrrr! but love roadtrips by car or motorcycle, exploring different hideaways, hole in the wall eateries , as in diners ,,the best!!! just being with my man having fun doing whatever it may be!Also love boating on a warm summer day, maybe even a lil fishing is cool, Lunch on the boat or in where the boats can be beside maybe a cafe ,,pretty cool...Please Be local .. I Definately dont want you living too far away!!!LOCAL to LowellGood luck to all!!!!P.S. you'll only understand this if you have kids..I have 4 and 3 are doing great! But they say there's always one ..well this is definately THE ONE, all his life! My 30 yr old son is back, ugh yea,,supposedly saving money for a new place ,,his gf and baby are at her moms...The gf is a winner too!! But im the only place he could go to, but i only have a one bedroom..so hes on a mattress on the diningroom floor...and he has 3 cats ,,yes 3 ,,im very unhappy about that, but i dont see them , so if your allergic let me know ..my son isnt here alot ,,he needs a job , long story...,god only knows how long he will be here ,,i know im his mother, and i love him ,but 30 and back home??? no need for it...I could go on forever, but i wont ,,i just pray he's finding a way out!!!!!! If this is an issue for you, let me know..... Casual Dress, Nice Jeans are good ,Its a date, Look a lil decent, as i will for you..and always do look decent...Just dont look like you just got done cleaning your backyard full of dirt and fell in a ditch!( Im speaking from experience sadly) oh brother right???...Remember,Dinner, a cozy place we can talk and get the conversation to flow to get to know each other and if passion is in both eyes ,,a lil kiss...And ill venture out to meet you Onlyyyyy after i feel that unmistakable feeling after talking here off and on... My feelings are ,, if you like me that much , you will leave me a note before work, or i will leave you a note during the day ,,it would be awesome if you were able to use a comp at work,,but we'll see..