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Isabel
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Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
Life is just too short to live without happiness, joy and love.***Update: Being stood up vs a BS text or *** came up.......If you make a date with someone and change your mind or a better offer comes up? Take a minute to shoot an *** letting the person you had made a date with that "something came up and you can't make it"......this is so much more considerate than just not showing up or anything. How would you feel if you either turned down other invitations or possibly work thinking someone wanted to spend time with you only to be treated like you were not of any value or consideration? It hurts......and it makes you look......well, not good.Think......****WARNING:** Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects. You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.About me:I have been single now for 2 years, I have dated, hooked up and been to some rather racy parties and clubs. I have had and having a lot of fun. It has left me wanting though. I am not sure how to describe myself but I will give it a shot. I am expressive and funny and I have been told very sexy. J I am very open minded and prefer being around people that are the same. I also, when I have time, Crafts, cooking, shooting pool (I suck at this but like it anyway) I like to laugh and make people laugh. I like roaming thrift stores and flea markets. In some ways I can be shy and other ways a bit of a show off. Lol. Like most women I love fresh flowers but hate roses, especially red ones. As this is a singles site I am also looking for long term friends. People that are open minded and non judgmental like myself. Folks that like getting together for a BBQ or going to shows or just hang out together. Friends that like to chit chat on the phone or text to just shoot the breeze, talk about our day or vent about that annoying co-worker if one of us had a bad day at work lol. There was one definition of a friend I had heard: A friend is someone who knows everything about you…..and loves you anyway. JWhat I am not looking for are men who are only in it for the sex. Guys that just want to come by my place jump in the sack and run out the door when its over. I may be open minded and I do enjoy sex a lot! I have had my fill of hook-ups, they leave me feeling empty and unsatisfied.I won’t say I am looking for a “relationship” but I am not avoiding one either. Everyone wants to be loved and I am no different. Even though I am very open minded and believe if I were to be in a relationship it would have to be a very open, I am still basically an old fashion girl…..I still want romance and not just sex. JIf I am looking for anyone it would be someone who: Still believes in opening a woman’s car door and pulling out her chair; Still believes that its up to a man to call and ask for a date; Still thinks that slow dancing and holding hands is a big turn on; Someone who thinks the first kiss is still a big deal and should be soft, slow, wet and last for days… Someone who still believes romance is still in style and belongs in even the most casual of relationships. I miss some of those little things from being close to someone. Like goofy text throughout the day that make me smile. Standing at the sink washing dishes when he comes up behind me to give me a gentle kiss on the back of the neck. :)FYI, I love flowers all but roses, especially red ones. I think they are lame and unimaginative. I hate the thorns too. :) I'm not sure I like the first date thing, too much presure. I would rather have a first meeting and just go very casual, somewhere for drinks where its not too loud so we can get to know each other or shoot pool. The big things should come later.
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Montana
Online
Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
I'm actively seeking a live/work situation, but if in that process I meet my "soulmate," that would be awesome. But I know finding what I really want in a soulmate (and note, I'm good with staying alone until if/when I find that guy) can take some time. My primary goal right now is to live in a more rural-ish, healthy home (ideally an organic farm, or other healthy environment--non-smoking, etc). Live/work, which means I live there rent (and utility cost) free (I provide my own food), with possibly a small stipend depending on the terms (negotiable)...and in exchange, I work for you as a platonic "wife," personal/business assistant, secretary (excellent writing/editing skills, mucho speedy typist), home manager, personal health coach/counselor, etc. I'm also a visual artist, and love helping with home decor...web design, photography, anything where I'll be working with color and design. Just a multi-talented girlie ;-) So I have much to offer in this exchange.======== Seeking Soulmate =========I'm a LIBRA, not a Virgo, although I do have a strong Virgo influence. If you think astrology and the like is bunk and/or you're not open to actually learning, discovering the truth about that which you know-not (as opposed to just swallowing what some old book says), then hit the back button, please. Thank you and toodles ;-) Please have an awesome sense of humor. I want a guy who enjoys communication, and who is intelligent and confident enough to describe himself nicely in writing or in person. Proper spelling and grammar am good ;-) Too much for me to ask? Then, babe, you're on the wrong page ;-)I know everyone says they're unique and all, but I really am :-) Look much younger than my age. On a physical level, I'm particularly drawn to kind of a mountain man look (although I'm open in that regard...any truly confident, not arrogant, intelligent guy is appealing). A well-kept mountain man, nice beard/moustache...writerly, artistic...who exercises and takes very good care of himself.Health-conscious (not optional***or more of these is part of his lifestyle: exercise, yoga, organic food, never eat junk food, etc ... Sorry, but I could not be happy with someone who wasn't also health-conscious and into exercise and taking care of their bod. You don't have to be perfect (I'm not), but you do have to be very conscientious about taking care of yourself. No Cheetos or Hostess cupcakes in my cabinets :-D More like chia seeds and coconut butter (very healthful).Also, f-o-o-t-b-a-l-l is blecky, hehe. So please don't be a lover/watcher of s-p-o-r-t-s, and big points if you rarely watch TV at all (I do love to watch comedy...SNL, Seinfeld, etc). I love nature and animals, love hiking...living in the country. I'm very creative, enjoy writing and doing just about anything with color--painting, collage, interior design, web design, etc. Art, I love art. My ideal guy would be very creative, writer, artist, loves to read, honest, very intelligent, great sense of humor, open-minded, non-conformist, compassionate, very interested in things like permaculture and solar power...organic gardening and all that :-)Hmm, what else about me. I can be intense, love to conversate--and I think I'm very funny. Non-religious spiritual, and would require the same in a partner. I'm a Libra, we make the best partners--loving, compassionate, sexy, sweet...we create beautiful, comfy homes. Very affectionate with those we love. I enjoy a wide variety of music--old rock, new country, and a little of this, little of that (pretty much anything but rap). Strong interest in metaphysics (if you don't know what that means, you're probably not the one for me, ha, it means I love things like astrology and TAROT cards, and joo-joo beans, lol...just kidding on that one, I have no idea what joo-joo beans are, lol), nonconformity, the law, human rights--especially women's and children's rights, and taking care of our planet.Under the heading of "goals and aspirations" would be freedom and self-sufficiency. I wanna live in the country, ideally very secluded, organic garden, and "off the grid" as much as possible and still be comfortable--solar power and all. I love the peace and quiet, the sweet sounds of the woods, a concert of birds on a beautiful spring morning...a deep black sky all sparkling with stars on a perfect summer evening... Well, first dates are tricky. Either ya' click or you don't. And it you don't, it's not fun. So a first date is best planned to be short-n-sweet. Maybe a coffee shop or similar. More lengthy dates that I'd enjoy would be hiking, a walk/picnic in the park, dinner at an organic healthfood restaurant, horseback riding...rent a movie and cozy it up at home by the fireplace :-)
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Alethea
Online
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
Ready to travel the world, one step at a time. Enjoy listening to music of all kinds, writing stories. Seeking to meet new people from all walks of life and have some really good time with.