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Regana, 55
United States, North Carolina, Rutherfordton

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About Me

I have been told that I have an amazing sense of humor and a beautiful smile. Words other people have used to describe me: passionate, voluptuous, creative, loyal, tender, pure, deep, tenacious, vivacious, intuitive, and exotic (I don't know where that one came from. : ) Most people consider me to be a very intelligent person. I am very open-minded. I can often see both sides in a discussion. I would call myself very curvaceous. I am a mother of three grown, amazing, individuals. Raising them was the best part of my life. I am a caring, compassionate person who sees the good in other people and is sensitive to their needs. Honesty is very important to me. My world makes no sense without it. I believe the best in people until they prove me wrong. The world is full of so many exciting things to learn about and explore. There is so much I want to see and do, so many places I want to go, so much I want to taste and touch and feel. I enjoy learning new things whether it is a new software application, a building project, or cooking a new recipe. I am a passionate reader. I love to surf the net and see what new subject I can find to explore. I never want to stop learning I love hanging out with friends and having deep, stimulating conversations. I like road trips whether it is for a week or a day. I love long walks and holding hands. I love watching meteor showers and sitting in front of an open fire. Nature and being outside are very important to me. I love watching movies, reading books, designing graphics and websites, putting together presentations, landscaping, shopping, photography, playing cards, painting, woodworking, mosaics, cooking, and so much more. I get very excited about new projects and ideas and always seem to have several things going at once. Someday I might write a book, or get my Masters degree, or start my own business. The world is full of possibilities. I am looking for my soul mate, my best friend, and my lover. I am looking for passion and chemistry. I want the kind of passion you feel in your soul… where when our eyes meet across a crowded room we communicate on a level that no one else can touch… that person who when we kiss I melt into a puddle of mush… where no one person or one situation in life will come between you because you will work together … and the combination of our love will be an unstoppable force… I am looking for someone with integrity and strength of character. To me who you are on the inside is so much more important than who you are on the outside. I would love to find someone who loves to laugh and have fun in life, but who can also take things seriously when needed. If you know how to dance I would love to learn. All my pictures have been taken within the last couple of years. The longer hair pictures are most recent. For those who are interested I am an INFJ. I would love to hear from you. Simple things are sometimes the best... candlelight... flowers...walking in the rain... chocolate...classic rock...shopping...a good book...a child's laughter... strong arms... kissing... touching...spooning(I get to be the little spoon!)...walking hand in hand...laying under the stars sharing thoughts and feelings...cuddling... Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens. Not by what life brings to us, but by what attitude we bring to life. A positive reaction causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes. It is a catalyst, a spark that creates extraordinary results. ---AnonymousA soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are: we can be loved for who we are and not for who we're pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we're two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we've found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life. ~“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” ~Carl Gustav Jung"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye." ~-Exupery "The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a glowing depth, beauty, and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing, it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of Divine accident." ~Sir Hugh WalpoeOh, the comfort - the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person - having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are, chaff and grain together; certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then with the breath of kindness blow the rest away. ~Dinah Craik, A Life for a Life, *** Love without talking!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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