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Jen, 51

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About Me

I am an outgoing girl with a good blend of tradtional and modern values. I love to laugh and to make others laugh, too. My friends say I rarely meet a stranger and I have to agree!I am confident, optimistic, sincere and loyal and hope to find the same. Honesty and communication are important pieces of building any type of relationship and I will not settle for less. I believe any type of relationship starts with a strong friendship. I cannot see myself being with a man if I find any level of dishonesty. No matter how we may click, if you can't be honest, we cannot build a relationship.I am independent but far from being a feminist. I love dining at nice restaurants and dancing but also enjoy cuddling by the fire with a glass or wine or mug of hot chocolate. Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on put great flavor into many of my evenings. I travel frequently...more for business than pleasure...am always up for an adventure. I am hoping to travel more for pleasure in ***!I have started hiking frequently and enjoy going to Umstead Park or to the mountains for hiking and camping. I also enjoy salt water fishing and would like to try freshwater fishing at some point. I've toyed with the idea of learning archery, but not sure what would be involved and where I would go to practice.I have been described as multi-faceted, as I can fit into most any situation and always make to most of it. I enjoy trying new things and will try almost anything once...more if it's something I find I enjoy. I also enjoy pro football, though I can't say I have a favorite team. I always try to root for the home team...it's just been hard to do that for the Panthers lately!I am looking for a man that is honest and communicates openly without holding back. Someone that will listen to me as I share my day and will in turn share his day's adventures. I want to find someone that I can express my feelings and my dreams no matter how silly they may sound. Someone to laugh with, to share the good and the bad. I'm looking for my best friend. I believe dinner or drinks is always a good first date. It give you the opportunity to talk and find out more about one another in a relaxing no pressure environment. If dinner/drinks goes well enjoy walking and talking more afterward.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Adrien

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    So it says if you want to be successful on meetville , TRY THIS...1. Hobbies are boating, swimming, gym 2 times a week, walking my dog, Jewelery making, photography, movie going, trying new foods.Like to dance. working in my yard. scootering in the back roads. Traveling.I love out door activities in the warm climates..2. Goals and aspirations, To be the best that I can be. To try to make a difference in someones life. Help someone smile more. See more of the U.S.A and other spots that I have not been to yet. Retire with a great person.. Some people who have moved me are... Photographer and Director Authur St John . People who better themselves. Eat healthy. Having the time to make more creative Jewelery. And of course find a decent mate or I would not be on here. lol .... I have dated a variety of people. I appreciate someone who is educated. As I get older The outer shell is not as important to me as the soul of someone. However I do appreciate a person who is active and takes care of themselves. But you do not have to be buff. lol Just no blue pills...3. What makes me unique? People say my eyes draw them to me, them my laugh is unique too. My artistic background. Working hard to be the best I can be. Loving heart. Good person worthy of a good partner. And nothing less. Care for animals. I am fun to be around. A Christian but do not push it on others.. I do have a strong personality. Not shy. But not a loud person. I do like to plan outings but sometime like to jump up and do something on a whim. lol Go with the flow sort of speak.4. My taste in music? Vary. I was raised in the smokies so I grew up with clogging to rock to some country to alternative. As I have become an adult I have enjoyed Jazz and the Blues more than anything. However the old 70's rock is still in my veins. My least favorite is rap. Street music and disco, some old country I do not care for. Most of the new artist I can handle.5. I see some people on here I know. lol And some pics that were on here my first time around on here too. I pray this time around I find the right mate for me. I do not want to swim backwards. So if it did not work with you the first time, it will never . So keep fishing please!!I am at a stage of my life where I do not have to work as hard. My schedule is flexible, I am my own boss.Just missing the other part..... A great mate.....HINTS...If you treat me like a lady needs to be that is a thumbs up, If you have a boat that is a thumbs up, a safe motorcycle driver a thumbs up, An out doors person too. ,thumbs up. Traveling a thumbs up. A happy person with little baggage a thumbs up. All of us have a little. But I am not here to me some bodies momma, or do I want to become a part time mom to someones kids. But I do not mind if you have grown or high school kids.Note. Please do your self a favor and I and others on here to show recent photos of you. Mine are recent. I have dated younger men and age to me is no issue. I do not act my age and could of lied about my age. But IF you like me, them we will go from there. I have dated older men, And that is fine too. But if you just want to sit around and drink coffee and watch T.V. I am not that gal...... You do not have to be wealthy, but I have had these things in life and It would be nice to find someone not financially in a hole or seeking a mate to help you succeed. I am doing fine without a leech. Not being rude, just straight forward and honest. READY TO START WRITING THE NEXT CHAPTER IN MY LIFE.(THIS PART IS UNDER CONSTRUCTION , MAY ADD TO OR REMOVE AT ANY TIME)Anything else , just shoot me a hello line and lets chat and see if we are compatible enough to meet some day.Happy fishing!!Something someone one told me and it stuck with me. I thought I would share it with you.The purpose of my life is this:Let go.Forgive and ask for forgiveness.Don't force it (whatever 'it' is), let it happen.Don't associate with people who are reckless with your heart or bring out the bad in you.Seek to associate with those who make you a better you, people who are life giving.Love as many people as you can.Show love to those closest to you.Be very confident in who you are.Listen more than you talk.Always be respectful even if you're being slandered or the target of verbal abuse.Don't be afraid.Ask for help when you need it.Embrace life.Live, laugh , love with passion.... Could be so many things. Lets talk first then see if we have enough in common to meet.I enjoy doing a lot of things. One of my friends said to tell everyone to skip the coffee interview and have a real date. lolMy goal is to date first, meet people and see which one fits me. Date several until I find that special keeper for good.I am at an age where I would like to settle down. Not have my own kids, but spend the rest of my life with someone special who we can compliment one another.I am not a thin rail person, but all my curves are in the right places. I am working hard to keep it this way.....I feel better talking on the phone first a bit to see if we have things in common, then we can make a date in a public place. If it is a thumbs up... We can go from there. Just say I am no stick in the mud. We will have a nice first date weather we are a fit or not. At least we have met a new friend.;) just be you and I will be me....

  • Kiera

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a fun loving lady who enjoys life! I am a mom, a friend, a hard worker, an optimistic person, a leader, an independent lady who is looking for that fun loving guy who is looking for a special lady! I enjoy many things like the sun, the beach, the outdoors, just about any sporting event, a good steak, cooking, live concerts, the list can go on and on. I have an adventurous side and I am open to just about anything, legal! I have a wonderful family, 2 boys that are in college and my family and friends mean the world to me. One son lives at home and going to college locally and the other is going to college in IA. They have been my whole life for so long, like most parents, I decided it was time for me to have some "me" time!I am a hopless romantic, I like to hold hands, cuddle, I don't mind PDA with the right person. Life has taught me what's truly important: Family, Faith, Love, Hope, Respect, Relationships and the blessing of good health. What am I looking for? I am not seeking perfection but you DO need to be honest, integrity speaks volume! I am looking for my best friend, companion and my lover. I would like to find a guy with a sense of humor a quick wit, someone who is happy with who they are, have a positive attitude, and compassionate, did I say honest? :) I would like a man who is spontanious, affectionate, care free, someone who is not a couch potato. You must be a dog lover because that is my baby at home. ;) I would enjoy a grill master because I am a good cook. How about a traveling companion, a dancing and exercise partner, just a well rounded man who is looking for that well rounded women. He must have a great heart because I do and I would do anything for the people I love. So you are not all of these? I am not perfect so you don't need to be either. Let's not make things complicated, let's meet and see where it leads, make sure your honest because I will be honest with you. My motto is to live each day to the fullest, let's find a place to begin!How should we start? Friends that develop into a relationship? Let's take is slow, I am in no hurry, and see where it goes! Here is a relationship rule for me:If I’m in a relationship with you, I promise,- To always put you in first.- To put in 110% effort into our relationship.- To care for you.- To never cheat on you.- To stay loyal and honest.- To be there for you always.- To share memories good or bad with you.- To make wonderful memories with you.- To listen to you.- To always try my best to make you smile.- To always communicate.- To keep you happy.- To keep US happy!Here is a great thought I will share: "The most useful asset of a person is not a head full of knowledge but a heart full of love, with ears open to listen and hands willing to help"Please have a picture with your profile because I took the time to post mine, which are current within the last 18 months. I have been told that I look exactly like my pictures. I am not interested in a quick hook up or serial dating so if that is a priority for you, just keep on looking.Age is only a number, I might be 51 but I have the energy of a 40 year old and I don't look 50 so I am told. I love life so lets enjoy it!Best of Luck.***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***Profile If***You Know---\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or Who May Be Fighting It Let's meet in a place where we can talk and get to know one another. A coffee shop, happy hour, a walk around the lake or a trail, we could bring my dog :) something casual.

  • Jesca

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hello! I'm an established professional who enjoys a wide range of activities, but especially healthy pursuits like golf, tennis, hiking and snowshoeing with friends or a special someone. I also really appreciate my downtime with quieter pursuits like reading, watching movies, dining (who doesn't?!) and sharing good conversation. My music preferences are classical, pop, blues, and definitely 70s rock!My wonderful family and many dear friends are the most important things my life. It would be great to enjoy these possibilities with a kind man who is also interested in getting the most out of life.

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