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Jen, 51

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About Me

I am an outgoing girl with a good blend of tradtional and modern values. I love to laugh and to make others laugh, too. My friends say I rarely meet a stranger and I have to agree!I am confident, optimistic, sincere and loyal and hope to find the same. Honesty and communication are important pieces of building any type of relationship and I will not settle for less. I believe any type of relationship starts with a strong friendship. I cannot see myself being with a man if I find any level of dishonesty. No matter how we may click, if you can't be honest, we cannot build a relationship.I am independent but far from being a feminist. I love dining at nice restaurants and dancing but also enjoy cuddling by the fire with a glass or wine or mug of hot chocolate. Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on put great flavor into many of my evenings. I travel frequently...more for business than pleasure...am always up for an adventure. I am hoping to travel more for pleasure in ***!I have started hiking frequently and enjoy going to Umstead Park or to the mountains for hiking and camping. I also enjoy salt water fishing and would like to try freshwater fishing at some point. I've toyed with the idea of learning archery, but not sure what would be involved and where I would go to practice.I have been described as multi-faceted, as I can fit into most any situation and always make to most of it. I enjoy trying new things and will try almost anything once...more if it's something I find I enjoy. I also enjoy pro football, though I can't say I have a favorite team. I always try to root for the home team...it's just been hard to do that for the Panthers lately!I am looking for a man that is honest and communicates openly without holding back. Someone that will listen to me as I share my day and will in turn share his day's adventures. I want to find someone that I can express my feelings and my dreams no matter how silly they may sound. Someone to laugh with, to share the good and the bad. I'm looking for my best friend. I believe dinner or drinks is always a good first date. It give you the opportunity to talk and find out more about one another in a relaxing no pressure environment. If dinner/drinks goes well enjoy walking and talking more afterward.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Katrina

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-36

    Hi! My name is Katrina. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Rockingham, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Rebeca

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    If you are kind, good-hearted, easy-going, fun-to-be-with, professional, divorced (not just separated) and monogamous, please be mine! I am warm, soft and sweet with an edge. I love my two adult kids and my friends.I love both city and country, weekend getaways, travelling and taking pictures of places I go to; my work and its challenges; sunny days and sunny people; biking, swimming, water in every way, (except for the pouring rain or a hurricane); fine dining and wine (not an addict, will never be);talking (but not about exercising, and how many times a week); walking, movies, ballet, flowers, Saturdays, vacation and kissing!!!I cannot stand cliches and stereotypes ("life is short", "live life to the fullest", "work hard and play hard", "glass is half empty or full...")I want to be with a man, who does not find thinking painful.I doubt conventional wisdoms.Do not like surprises, good or bad. Activity-wise, I can join you in cross country skiing, boating, sailing and very possibly in a gym, but not likely in rock climbing or sky-divingI am not running marathons, but can catch a bus. Athletic never been and will never be. I am in a pretty feminine shape, thanks to Godiva. Love music, but there are no sad tunes, rap or hip hop in my "jukebox."I am curious about languages and would like to continue with French, of which I took one semester.YOU are a genuine man, white, professional, happy with what you do.You have travelled inside and outside of the USA. "A walk on the beach" is not the farthest place you ventured out to. Snow in the winter does not turn you into a bear and does not frieze your active way of life.You are over your divorce and are ready for the new relationship.You are not watching sports programs on TV. Golf/TV/baseball are not the passion of your life, but are fine in moderation. If you like Seinfeld, hopefully, you are not re-enacting those characters, who have mastered sabotaging relationship!You are not posing bare-chested on the picture posted with your profile here. If you were born outside of the US, it is a plus. You must be able to hold your liquor, when you drink, and handle my jokes and sense of humor.If you "quit drinking" and view a glass of wine as a threat, please find someone else.You are not questioning, whether a glass is half full or half empty. You just fill it up, and we say "cheers!"You, "complete-honesty"-seekers, should know that I do not lie about my age. It is my age lies about me!Age is not an agenda. Neither it is a subject for a conversation. However I will NOT respond to anybody under 45.I do not "do drama." Neither I want drama from you.Togetherness, trust and interdependency are important for both of us.I do not have any "ideal man" in mind. If you agree with all of the above, I like you already.I will not respond, if there is no picture with your profile.And if you have nothing to say but "hi" - sorry! - there will be no response either. If your sentiment is that "life is to short," we have nothing to talk about! Now pay attention! Please note: I am size 12, and 5'6". It is not petit! I. First date is all about you and me. Dinner after work? A glass of wine? Must be a nice place so that we can talk.Being able to communicate is essential!

  • Romelia

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Who says you only live once? I'm on round two. I started a new language, joined a new gym, heck, even bought a new coffeemaker!Seriously, I disagree with those who say the best years of their lives are over. I have the wisdom, experience, and achievement of a 50 year old with the energy and spirit of a 30 year old. What I lack is that someone special to share it all with. Might that be you? Our first date should feel like our fifth. The conversation flows naturally, No awkward silences and great coffee. We leave smiling to ourselves, wanting more.

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