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Harley, 53
United States, North Carolina, Rockingham

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About Me

On several occasions I've heard that you've never really loved until the 2nd time around. I hope that's true since the 1st time just ended a couple months ago. After 20 yrs, some of the things I would do differently the next time is be a better listener and try harder to keep myself in shape both mentally and physically in order to give to the other person and to accept others as they are: by middle age, people probably are not going to change. On that note, I enjoy laughing and teasing and appreciating the differences in the opposite sex. What I'm looking for in a mate is for someone that has their own life and career and we can bond together on the weekends and ***week days with more as time progresses. I work a 40 hr week job and attend school at nite towards my nursing degree. I want a moral person, one that believes in going to church. I enjoy all kinds of music, my fav song is "I've Been Redeemed" by Big Daddy Weave Chord. I play piano, clarinet, violin, marched in marching band and used to sing in church choir. I like to eat out, movies, bowling, skating, playing cards, the occasional bar and dancing, hiking, swimming, boating, skiing, tennis and ACC basketball games. Don't know much about golf but willing to learn. Don't own a bike, but willing to get one. Enjoy home repair seminars. I have 2 teenagers, 19 and 17 and both live with me, but following the advise of preachers and counselors, I will put my mate first, I love my kids, but it is extremely important to create an adult life for myself. Both parents have passed, but I enjoy spending time with senior citizens immensely. I have 4 bros and sis but none live in S.- If any of this interests you, please don't be scared to write me an *** rarely meet a stranger. Thanks for reading and best of luck to you. NOTE: I am very friendly, however, I only want to date within my race, only answer to men with a photo (you're hiding something) and don't want any shenanigans with pictures of body parts. Looking for a ltr. NOTE July 26, ***. Have met several nice men on here, but HONESTY is huge for me. I know that by this age we all have other friends and aren't living in a cocoon, but if you are spending long dates and establishing a relationship with me, the man should not be juggling the same thing with someone else. If you are sincere about establishing a relationship, why would you even want to being doing that?TO BE LOVED, BE LOVABLE ENJOY YOURSELF, IT'S LATER THAN YOU THINK IF YOU ALWAYS GIVE, YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE NO ROAD TO HAPPINESS OR SORROW....FIND THEM IN YOURSELF BETTER TO DO IT, THAN WISH IT DONE DEAL WITH THE FAULTS OF OTHERS AS GENTLY AS WITH YOUR OWN DO NOT HAVE EACH FOOT ON DIFFERENT BOATS BETTER THE DEVIL YOU KNOW, THAN THE DEVIL YOU DON'T DOGS HAVE SO MANY FRIENDS BECAUSE THEY WAG THEIR TAILS, NOT THEIR TONGUE "Do or do not, there is no try"-Yoda "A pretty smile don't mean a pretty heart"-;Life is tough, its even tougher if yer stupid"-;Reason consists of always seeing things as they are"-;Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it."-;Shallowness begats shallowness"-

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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