Total users: 60,509,253 Online users: 218,103
Christy, 54
United States, North Carolina, Rockingham

Online

About Me

Hi! I am a lot of fun and a high-energy, positive, open, honest, passionate person. I love my job, but I WILL absolutely make time for a special person and really look forward to that! I enjoy my free time and am very happy doing a wide variety of things. I love playing tennis! I prefer to participate in life rather than be a spectator. Age is a funny thing, because the years may say one thing, but I have more energy than most people I know, including those 10 yrs. younger. It’s really a state of mind... as well as a physical state (and maybe some good, hearty Scottish genes!) I love to have fun and live life fully. I am very passionate and care about everything I do, from raising my kids (my youngest is 21 and away at school), spending time with family and friends, to work, volunteering, and certainly being in a special relationship….. I also have a great sense of humor (passed down for sure from my father and Scottish blood!) I believe the best in life is yet to come! Do you? I want to travel more now! I've loved goofing around with my kids, but they are not at home anymore. My youngest comes home in the summer and holidays, and is very busy with his friends, as it should be. While remaining a loving, and dedicated mom, I am very ready to start building toward the next phase of my life. I am NOT a game-player-I have no interest or time for that – life is too short. I am very genuine, loving, loyal and fun.I believe there is a wonderful man out there with whom, together, we can enjoy an active life of love and travel moving forward. There are many nice men, but I'm looking for "the one." The connection where mutual sophistication and playfulness recognize each other and naturally connect and intertwine. If we're a match, you're genuine and a really nice man; someone with good character who is passionate about life and seeks to find the same kind of loving relationship with someone, as I do, and is ready to share his heart. Honesty, integrity, loyalty, affectionate, intellect, and a good sense of humor- that’s what I look for in someone. I love being active, so someone who loves doing “stuff,” as well as chilling out at home is great. I don’t look for more in someone than what I’m willing to give. I believe in chemistry…not sure if it’s ***, but I hope meeting someone for a cup of coffee or glass of wine will reveal something. I guess it might also be helpful/fair to mention, that I'm not interested in a "fling"...I'd like to get to know someone special. I may get less responses, but that's okay. The man I'm looking for thinks like I do in this respect and cares about getting to know someone. However, chemistry a must! Questions? I'd be happy to explain.;And, in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make."If you got this far, I'd like to add that, just having taken the "Chemistry" questionnaire, I must have answered something goofy, because my family and friends are HUGELY important to me! I love being at home and entertaining friends, I just don't cook a lot for myself, so evidently that translated into a "Low Family Orientation," which is NOT true. I am an empty-nester, but I don't need to live the crazy night-life party life that the profile conveys! I am very honest and true about who I am and who I am not. Please feel free to inquire. I am open to several options for a first date. I am very flexible. I think it's nice to have time to talk and get to know one another a bit and see if there is an initial attraction/interest. If, after a first meeting, we decide to get together again, I would consider that next get-together the first date. If we like each other in a first meeting, I'm quite sure we'll figure out our "real" first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco Metal Fishing American Chinese French
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Gene from Rockingham | Woman | 51 years old | Taurus
    Gene

    Online

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a hard working woman,honest,caring. I'm looking for a good man to share my time with.I keep things simple,don't like drama.Enjoy cooking,movies...not scary ones lol swimming,volleyball,bon fires,cars,shopping . I love to travel.I'm a huge REDS fan!!! I like to go out to the bar and hang with friends.not everyday lol I'm simple:-) I like classic rock,r&b,hip hop not to much country. Keep it simple :-)

    Chat
  • Stephane from Rockingham | Woman | 51 years old | Aquarius
    Stephane

    Online

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    A good read if your willing to take the time ***I'm a younger-looking, exotic, & a young-at-heart woman. 54, who prefers younger men, however would definitely date someone older if it's a match. I’m not one for putting on airs, what you see is what you get. I am easy going and independent. I’m not your average girl; I’m outstanding, especially in person. I would love to find a partner in crime, ying to my yang. I am sincere, sexy, and romantic. I love to laugh and laugh till our sides hurt, have no problem laughing at myself when I need to. I love to ride on the back of a motorcycle or a horse LOL, and would really like to find someone to share that with. I enjoy riding in the mountains or just about anywhere. There is nothing I love more than packing up for the weekend and camping, or a spontaneous road trip, or it could be one of those off beat Saturday afternoon adventures, meeting friends for drinks and/or dinner, hang out at home snuggling up watching a movie. I enjoy going out for a night on the town every now and then, I love to dance mostly in the dance studio once in a while in a nightclub. It's not really necessarily what we're doing but more about doing it together and being able laugh and enjoying each others company. ***friendly,a Democrat. I'm a great cook. My specialty's are Pork ribs, Steaks, sautéed Chicken and an Italian Pasta that you will beg for on a regular basis.***I'm looking for someone that wants to make me smile, and can, especially if I’ve had a bad day at the office. I am personable, adventures, spontaneous and a very honest person. I enjoy learning about new things. I love all types of music but especially love Jazz, Classical, Rhythm & I DONT play games or have nor want Drama! I find Immaturity and *** huge turn off. I'm looking for a REAL MAN who knows what he wants and purpose in life. Who's willing to give me ***thus in return loving him unconditionally, cherishing and treating him like a King. I'm looking for a man who is OPEN, HONEST, RESPECTFULL, LOYAL, someone who is GENUINE and grounded.... with a great sense of humor, who is adventurous, spontaneous, affectionate, giving, caring and romantic. The most important part of a relationship for me is honesty, loyalty, communication knowing that to be a good communicator you must first be a good listener, and most of all spending time together, the attraction and animal chemistry has to be there for me in order for things to develop into something serious. I want a strong, solid, meaningful relationship that will stand the test of time, which is hard to find these days. Someone who will accept me for who I am, and in return I can accept them for who they are. Most importantly make time for the one's you love because everyday that passes by and you don't is a day lost that you can never get back. Someone who respects and likes himself as well as me, someone who can enjoy relaxing at the end of the day, yet willing to stay up late, if we want to get wild and crazy. If we connect, and I find interest, you will know and embrace all the many intriguing wonderful attributes and strengths I carry. ***I will say, I am an intelligent and real woman! No more, no less! Note: Not trying to be rude.***I'm finding it very difficult to reply, and or choose whom to talk with if your photo shows you from to far away of a distance, blurry, an inch tall, and or, no close up and can't see your eyes if you only have pics with sunglasses on. Having nice eyes won't hurt your chances, so let me see them! Although a physical attraction is important, I feel one's personality is what ultimately makes them attractive. However, Ultimately, if I can't see you, most likely, I won't reply. Sadly, If your looking to just hook up, or a one nighter, I'm not the one for you. I know there are many pretty girls out there, but sometimes just being pretty isn’t enough unless your out for a one night stand. If you message me and I don’t reply, respectfully, I’m not interested and won’t waste your time in eventually telling you so or not showing up for a date Hopefully I’ve shed a little light as to who I am and what I’m looking for, with that said, bait your hook and catch me if you can! :) We'll decide together.

    Chat
  • Samella from Rockingham | Woman | 55 years old | Aquarius
    Samella

    Online

    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I've got a second chance at love! Mom to a daughter 23 and son 18. (Please note, I won't respond unless you have at least one picture.) Without hats and sunglasses!!)Planning to find (if you don't find me first***sincere, compassionate, kind, sexy man to have fun with, get to know, share weekends together, and eventually become a part of each others' lives. If you're traditional and romantic, even better! Not afraid of commitment; if you are, or you're content to date around and have one-night stands, etc., then we wouldn't be a match. Would like to develop a monogamous relationship with one man. If you're a workaholic and your job takes up most of your time, then I'm not your gal.No extremes or drama in my life. No wild partying, "important" job, etc. I'm as low-maintenance as they come. I have a dry/quick-wit; great listener. I'm all-Italian, healthy, honest to a fault, very compassionate, sensitive to other's feelings, romantic, appreciative of little things. I could picture us after a nice dinner (out or home-cooked), just snuggling up on the couch, with that content, warm feeling. I enjoy most regular activities: movies, live bands,dinner out or cooking together at home, picnics, bowling, mini-golf, dancing, plays, comedy clubs, playing pool, street fairs/festivals, museums, paddle boats, wine tastings, coffee shops, catching a Nat's/Orioles or Redskin game, driving on back roads, watching DVD's at home, long romantic walks, anything that we can do together. I love to learn about people, nature, animals, countries. Enjoy Discovery Channel, TLC, Food Network, Animal Planet, news. An absolute deal-breaker would be if you smoke or do any sort of drugs. "The eyes have it" is meaningful to me. I notice eyes first--they can tell me if you're sincere, kind, respectful,passionate, friendly. I don't need to be impressed by you, and likewise I don't try to impress. Don't always need to be on-the-go, planning numerous activities. At this stage in my life, I'm ready to turn it down a notch! I'm looking for an emotional as well as physical connection. Long conversations over wine are very insightful and enjoyable. Hope you don't mind PDA's; if we're taking a walk, I'm going to hold your hand or want your arm around my waist. Friendship turning into love would be fantastic. Please have a picture if you respond (take your sunglasses off!***I can't communicate back unless I can see your face! Looking forward to meeting you! Conversation is most important. Let's meet for coffee, lunch, some wine or beer, or a long walk, find out all we can about each other, and have some fun doing it!

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: