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Christy, 54
United States, North Carolina, Rockingham

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About Me

Hi! I am a lot of fun and a high-energy, positive, open, honest, passionate person. I love my job, but I WILL absolutely make time for a special person and really look forward to that! I enjoy my free time and am very happy doing a wide variety of things. I love playing tennis! I prefer to participate in life rather than be a spectator. Age is a funny thing, because the years may say one thing, but I have more energy than most people I know, including those 10 yrs. younger. It’s really a state of mind... as well as a physical state (and maybe some good, hearty Scottish genes!) I love to have fun and live life fully. I am very passionate and care about everything I do, from raising my kids (my youngest is 21 and away at school), spending time with family and friends, to work, volunteering, and certainly being in a special relationship….. I also have a great sense of humor (passed down for sure from my father and Scottish blood!) I believe the best in life is yet to come! Do you? I want to travel more now! I've loved goofing around with my kids, but they are not at home anymore. My youngest comes home in the summer and holidays, and is very busy with his friends, as it should be. While remaining a loving, and dedicated mom, I am very ready to start building toward the next phase of my life. I am NOT a game-player-I have no interest or time for that – life is too short. I am very genuine, loving, loyal and fun.I believe there is a wonderful man out there with whom, together, we can enjoy an active life of love and travel moving forward. There are many nice men, but I'm looking for "the one." The connection where mutual sophistication and playfulness recognize each other and naturally connect and intertwine. If we're a match, you're genuine and a really nice man; someone with good character who is passionate about life and seeks to find the same kind of loving relationship with someone, as I do, and is ready to share his heart. Honesty, integrity, loyalty, affectionate, intellect, and a good sense of humor- that’s what I look for in someone. I love being active, so someone who loves doing “stuff,” as well as chilling out at home is great. I don’t look for more in someone than what I’m willing to give. I believe in chemistry…not sure if it’s ***, but I hope meeting someone for a cup of coffee or glass of wine will reveal something. I guess it might also be helpful/fair to mention, that I'm not interested in a "fling"...I'd like to get to know someone special. I may get less responses, but that's okay. The man I'm looking for thinks like I do in this respect and cares about getting to know someone. However, chemistry a must! Questions? I'd be happy to explain.;And, in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make."If you got this far, I'd like to add that, just having taken the "Chemistry" questionnaire, I must have answered something goofy, because my family and friends are HUGELY important to me! I love being at home and entertaining friends, I just don't cook a lot for myself, so evidently that translated into a "Low Family Orientation," which is NOT true. I am an empty-nester, but I don't need to live the crazy night-life party life that the profile conveys! I am very honest and true about who I am and who I am not. Please feel free to inquire. I am open to several options for a first date. I am very flexible. I think it's nice to have time to talk and get to know one another a bit and see if there is an initial attraction/interest. If, after a first meeting, we decide to get together again, I would consider that next get-together the first date. If we like each other in a first meeting, I'm quite sure we'll figure out our "real" first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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