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Elly, 51
United States, North Carolina, Rockingham

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About Me

I love the outdoors, gardening, walks along the waterfront, cycling. Willing to try new things. I want a real gentleman, one that knows how to act like one, and treats me like a lady. Not looking for casual dating. I prefer someone who is a empty nester or has much older children. I'm a empty nester and been that way for a few years.I"m not sure if I will find some one on these site's, but no harm in trying. I'm not into causal sex, and that is not what I'm looking for. If that is your intent please pass me by. Please be completely honest with me, I don't like being lead on, I don't want to be a another notch in your head board. I have pride in who I am. My reasons for being here are to find someone who I connect with , emotionally, intellectually,physically, and eventually after getting know one another , sexually, but that will come with getting to know one another. I want a relationship that is going to be lasting, one that is loving, compassionate , caring, respectful of each other needs. I'm a very happy person, and don't have any baggage as they say, or play mind games, I will tell you my honest opinion in a gently caring way. I have a gentle caring nature to me. I can show affection to the right person someone who I"m connected with and trust. Thank you for reading my profile and if I interest you please drop me a line, it doesn't mean that I will connect with you, but I will be sure to let you know if your profile interest me in anyway. I do like to chat for a bit before giving my number out, and coffee would be nice as a first encounter if all goes well then a second date might be the end result. Have a fantastic day and good luck in your search. Meet for coffee and see what happens. If all goes ok the gentleman can decide what would be next.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bowling Shooting Sports
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