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Val, 51
United States, North Carolina, Reidsville

Offline, last seen Tue, 30 Jun 2026 18:27:51

About Me

I'm a beach girl, grew up in this area, but have traveled and lived in many. I'm very social, love being around friends, bars, cookouts, etc. i am in numerous clubs, as i said, im social. My friends say i know no strangers.i want someone that loves being with friends, going out to dinner, boating,beaching it, maybe some paddleboarding, been dying to try it and have numerous friends that do. I enjoy Japanese food mostly, love my vegetables. Im trying to get back into the gym, as i have always loved to work out, but its been tough with my career, however that is changing as i speak. I am also a stay at home kinda girl, spending one on one time with a special someone. However, i like my space too, it soothes the soul. I love wine and love any activity that includes that.I love animals and have 2 cats. If my profile interests you, please respond, but dont if your into messing with my head. Dont need that drama. I treat the way i expect to be treated.Im looking for my mate, the one i share my life with, the one that adores me, the one that takes my breath away every time i see him....the one that loves social settings, or just intimate time alone with me....who doesn't hate public displays of affection, who loves animals, of all kinds....and wants to ultimately commit to love via marriage...don't get scared, its just that i loved being married. i feel its the end all of commitments and it makes you work alittle harder for love. Added update....what's up with the pictures with your sunglasses on? makes it really difficult to see what you truly look like, i mean we all look good in sunglasses. Let your true self shine thru your pictures. I basically believe MOST men are players......please prove me wrong!Update: ok, i took all the personality tests, however i think they are mostly accurate, but not 100%. I hope this lets you know a little bit more about me.:) I have always said a good first date is one where you get to know the other person. If your not interested in sharing your story from the start, dont bother. Japanese restaurants have also seemed to me to be the ideal place to have a first date and get to know each other. Or maybe just a****ail to start off to see if we want to go from there...wait a minute, whats wrong with the word****ail????. OK, adult beverage.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Caribbean English Thai
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