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I'm a beach girl, grew up in this area, but have traveled and lived in many. I'm very social, love being around friends, bars, cookouts, etc. i am in numerous clubs, as i said, im social. My friends say i know no strangers.i want someone that loves being with friends, going out to dinner, boating,beaching it, maybe some paddleboarding, been dying to try it and have numerous friends that do. I enjoy Japanese food mostly, love my vegetables. Im trying to get back into the gym, as i have always loved to work out, but its been tough with my career, however that is changing as i speak. I am also a stay at home kinda girl, spending one on one time with a special someone. However, i like my space too, it soothes the soul. I love wine and love any activity that includes that.I love animals and have 2 cats. If my profile interests you, please respond, but dont if your into messing with my head. Dont need that drama. I treat the way i expect to be treated.Im looking for my mate, the one i share my life with, the one that adores me, the one that takes my breath away every time i see him....the one that loves social settings, or just intimate time alone with me....who doesn't hate public displays of affection, who loves animals, of all kinds....and wants to ultimately commit to love via marriage...don't get scared, its just that i loved being married. i feel its the end all of commitments and it makes you work alittle harder for love. Added update....what's up with the pictures with your sunglasses on? makes it really difficult to see what you truly look like, i mean we all look good in sunglasses. Let your true self shine thru your pictures. I basically believe MOST men are players......please prove me wrong!Update: ok, i took all the personality tests, however i think they are mostly accurate, but not 100%. I hope this lets you know a little bit more about me.:) I have always said a good first date is one where you get to know the other person. If your not interested in sharing your story from the start, dont bother. Japanese restaurants have also seemed to me to be the ideal place to have a first date and get to know each other. Or maybe just a****ail to start off to see if we want to go from there...wait a minute, whats wrong with the word****ail????. OK, adult beverage.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jami

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi There.....*Ok, Update* I forgot there are a number of unsatisfied men out there. If you are married, engaged, or otherwise involved, please pass me by. I am not interestd in getting involved in any of that b.s...... My first request would be to ask you to please have a picture available if you are going to contact me and expect any response. I like to have at least an idea of what you look like. Not expecting perfect by any means, who of us are perfect, right? I just like to be able to look at a picture (or two, or three?), and feel like there would be able to possibly be some type of attraction. I know you can't tell everything by a picture, but that a great start.Hoping to find someone young at heart, not an all night, every night partier, but definitely not someone "old", and most of that comes from the heart.I enjoy entertaining with a few friends, playing card games, board games, pool (though I'm not very good), darts (even worse). I'm taking a photography class later this month, that's another hobby of mine as well. I like the girl "things".... manicures, pedicures, cooking, whether on the oven, or on the grill. I have an 85 gallon aquarium, I enjoy watching my fish. And I love clothes shopping! Although I wouldn't consider myself a country girl - I am a city girl. I prefer rock and roll music or motown, I'm not a fan of country music at all. Some country music will even make me change my mood, not for the better.......I always try to think positive and not complain. Who wants to be around someone mad and sad all the time? I know I don't. I try to laugh at every available opportunity. Most of the time I end up laughing at myself, and that's fine too! If you don't have a sense of humor, we won't be a match. Best first date would be something quick like meeting for a cup of coffee, or maybe lunch. Want to spend enough time to see if there might be the opportunity for any chemistry, but quick enough to be able to run for your car if we both know right away, we don't have a match.

  • Abigail

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    A Litte About Moi ~~- but no health issues -- still agile! (Not a couch potato)~ Hard worker (same govt job for almost 30 years)~ Loyal friend & companion ~ Dislikes drama-dictators~abusiveness~smoke-filled bars~ Likes peacefulness~kindness~compromises~ Very Independent~ Love my daughter! (she's in college and will probably live here until she graduates)!~ Enjoys outdoor concerts or a simple fall or spring picnic ~ Most comfy in casual settings~ Huge heart (to my detriment at times) I normally 'root' for the underdog in most circumstances!A Little About Vous ~~ Someone with a sense of humor & compassion for his fellow man~ Someone with a touch of intelligence; but doesn't feel the need to shove it down my throat ~ Someone who is willing to compromise ~~ I am always receptive to suggestions/requests; but dislike demands/orders~ Someone who displays honesty~integrity~~love for family & friends~ Someone who is financially stable (don't have to be wealthy - but bring SOMETHING to the table!)~ LAST - but definitely not least - someone who has morals (inside - not just superficial exhibits for the public to view). Your character/morals displayed each & every day are more important to me than whether or not you participate in organized religion. I think there may be a special place (somewhere) for those who profess to be Christians and/or hold particular positions in organized religious endeavors simultaneously w/ manifesting evil behind the scenes. Let's skip straight to the SECOND date since the firsts are sometimes quite awkward!! :-)

  • Annett

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    "A man sees in the world what he carries in his heart." ~GoetheAttraction captures the eye. Personality captures the heart.Living life...trying to keep mind, body and spirit balanced. Kind,caring,passionate,fun....simple but deep;simple meaning down to earth, value the things money can't buy. Deep in the way that I perceive. Philosophy,theology,science, mind-body medicine are some subjects I am passionate about. Over all. I am passionate about life approaching it with excitement, humility,integrity and no expectation. We are born, we die, ( actually we are energy ...ie...energy never dies but is transformed...law of physics.) What happens in between is experience, not good nor bad, just lessons to be learned. Love the out-doors,hiking,camping,snowshoeing, fishing, Nature is my comfort zone. If your looking for someone that follows the crowd....I am.... NOT the one for you. My best friend since 4 yrs old claims I started using the word "non-conformist" at the age of 8. lol funny thing is I probably did. Also, I am not a ***person in a relationship. I am a creative, artistic type and find some solitude is needed to nurture that aspect of myself. However in a relationship, I am as loyal as man's best friend. I am known for my laugh...in a good way :) Belly laughs come easy. Friends... and... get this... my sons, say, I have a great sense of humor. I have three sons 27, 26 & 22. Raising 3 boys, sports was an all consuming constant ....taking a much needed reprieve. Being the free and gentle spirit that I am, I would enjoy someone similar in his lifestyle. I like quiet one-on-one time or getting together with adult friends. I tend to disappear from chaos, pandemonium, sports & cold hearts. I am interested in interacting with a unique soul who is warm hearted, genuine, introspective, and overall happy in his life. I like individuals who are complex, and who have been through challenging life experiences without losing their bright spirit. Differences are interesting, and yet I most enjoy close relationships with individuals who are more like me, than not. This is key: I take my time in getting to know someone. My relationships need to have meaning and depth. I prefer to meet someone who has been alone long enough to know yourself well and you enjoy your own company. In other words, Would you date you? ;) As to the question of what are you looking for...just answering it seems like a commitment..you can only select one choice,leaving out the factor of the Unknown, kind of predetermining the outcome. I prefer letting the dynamics between organically flow. I should add... I do believe that I am a part of of something larger than myself, i.e. Uni-verse. But, If organized religion is important to you, I do not think we would be a good fit. I love great conversation, meeting new people and am open to possibilities. Random things about me: Books are door-ways Presently into Carl Jung Intelligent conversation & laughter is foreplay.-wash box listen to classical {fires neurons for higher thought}-= I watch Dr.Quantum.

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