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Deedee, 55

United States, North Carolina, Reidsville

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About Me

"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music." Friedrich Nietzsche"I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am pretty, but not beautiful. I have friends, but I am not the peacemaker. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love." —;When you stop chasing the wrong things in life you aIlow the right things to catch up with you." I am about respect. Dignity. Kindness.I want to leave the world better than I found it. Pay it forward. An eternal optimist, I am a happy person. When they say "A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour" they refer to me. Have learned to let go and live the moment. I truly love life and cherish what God has given me. Value kindness.;The more a man knows the more he forgives." Life is a series of lessons. Until you "get it" you have to repeat the lesson. Einstein declared "The only mistake in life is the lesson not learned." I haven't been that outstanding in getting it right the first time. That's OK. It's called Living. "To live is like to love. All reason is against it and all healthy *** it." I have truly learned that our backgrounds and circumstances may have influenced our lives but we are responsible for who we become. I have learned to be my own person and not look for adoration from the crowd.I have my own style from dress to play. I do have boundaries and will not hang on a lover's cross for you. As Jim Croce sung,"It's what we do that makes us who we are." A great romantic but equally grounded. I would like to be someone's princess, but can go to the ball by myself. I posess a fierce gusto for life and the energy that goes with it. Who am I looking for?Someone to fall in love with.Someone kind. A man with a big smile, a spirit of adventure,and a great soul. A man of character, conviction, and education. Someone who is not stagnant and likes to get up and go. Especially likes to travel. Embraces change.Young at heart regardless of age. A ONE woman man. As for distance, if you are not willing to meet me halfway, pass on my profile. If you are too busy to make time for getting to know me then I'm not the girl for you. If you want to spend weeks being a pen pal, I am not she.If you make a date with me keep it. I want to live, and live it up. I seek a real man who wants to meet and get to know a real lady albeit an old-fashioned girl. I am no Mata Hari, however Mary Poppins never appealed to me either. Adventures you will have with me.There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh.So, love the people who treat you right. Forgive the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is part of LIFE...Getting back up is LIVING. "Everybody deserves somebody who makes them look forward to tomorrow." It's not the event it's the sharing. Whatever we both decide. If I had to choose it would be an outdoor cafe with a romantic setting where we can talk the night away. A place with soft piano music in the background. A hike on a nice sunny day followed by lunch or a picnic.A lake stroll and boating. Love barbecues.Bowling or mini golf.Fall and winter-soft music in background, by a fireplace, having "comfort food" for dinner, slow dancing, playing board games at home.Going to an Inn with a roaring fireplace. Driving up to the mountains for leaf changing season in the fall. Hiking, trivia, karaoke. Going to the lake on a picnic and swimming. Grilling out and walking in a park.Sailing or being out on a boat watching the sun set.Be creative. Think outside the box.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    I am a small town girl who Loves Life and all it offers , Family Is first and foremost in My Life . I have 4 grown Daughters who are also my best friends , My grandchildren are the best ever ! Ii enjoy all types of outdoor activities , Love all types of Music and am an Avid concert goer . Im not sure about this on line dating stuff but am giving it a shot , I enjoy travel , camping , fishing, boating, .... not much I do not like to do . I accept others for who they are and as they are , am not the jealous or possessive nor do I want somebody jealous or possessive ;) So if you Love Life are Positive , and easy going thats what I'm looking for In someone ! I think meeting someone is what you both make it , you will either have the spark and same interest's or you won't simple as that. If you come with negative baggage or drama I'm not the one you want lol! I'm no Angel and My past Is just that My Past ! I'm a free spirit and when I am in a relationship I'm Faithful and give it my all , I do not believe any relationship Is perfect and not sure I would want perfect ;) Take Me as I am or not at all , and I will do the same ... I'm not going to change who I am or my beliefs for you nor you for me ,Compromise yes ! I like casual and fun dates, The 1st date or meet is always the hardest lol , Just be who you are no pretense , games or BS , keep it real and keep it simple ! Somewhere we can converse without distractions , people pretty much know on a 1st encounter if their is a spark of interest , if not no hard feelings for either one :)

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  • Adah from Reidsville | Woman | 52 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I don't want to wait until tomorrow , I do realize life is great thing to share. I have hopes still of finding just the man that don't want to leave me broken hearted, because he wants to only play games and use women . I'm certainly not claiming that i'm perfect. I've got many faults and made my mistakes. I don't drive i've lost my license to dwi. I wont drive with the fact also of having trouble getting around having a short term memory problem. One of the reasons i've applied for disability. I do enjoy going out to most anyplace or most any type of event. from sports ,dancing, festivals, events involving cars ,arts, theater , parks, the water or all types. Not a picky eater ,my favorite is shrimp, pasta and steaks. Enjoy family activities, church activities (important) . Most music is easy for me to follow , but I mostly these days listen to Christian contemporary music. I am definitely an animal lover, and enjoy watching birds . I enjoy working in the yard and flower beds ,very rewarding to my inner peace. I love most types of movies action, thriller, comedy . I'm active in church very important to me in life! I realize I started out somewhat negative ,but wanted to get most of the unpleasant out front .All I can add to having place them up front is I want any man that considers in responding to really think it through before contacting me . I'm aware its not the norm in most folks life ,so that's why . lso I do live with family who is helping me out at the present. I would like to add as well that before anyone starts to judge me ,step into my shoes ,walk the life I 'm living and if you get as far as I am , just maybe you'll see just how strong I really am .Im not here to play games . So ,god bless this note and place positive energy and men with positive energy and open mind and love for god and love to share into my life . Thanks for your time ,

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