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Perlie, 55

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About Me

Could this be the story of us?It's Saturday morning. You are cuddled behind me, your arm draped over the small of my waist. Sunlight streams in the window, warming the bedroom. Today feels great for a road trip. As I make breakfast, you surprise me with a hug from behind; I melt into your strong embrace. You load the car then off we go. You drive; I navigate . . . not that we have a specific destination in mind. We are both the curious type who enjoy people, travel, and exploring.We pull off the road for anything, especially photography. The pictures will become art for our home or the subject of my watercolor paintings. You are creative too. Lunch is at a tiny café, all locals. We browse a quaint downtown. Back on the road again. You see a sign for a trail. Am I game? Sure! The hike is moderate. (You save the tough hikes for guy-time.) You find it charming that I squeal like a girl when I see a beautiful flower, tree or cloudscape. You pull me close and we breathe in the beauty.On the way home we listen to music, chatting or in companionable silence, but we never stop touching. It is how we show our love, always touching, caressing, embracing, kissing, even in public.It's date night. You choose a musical because that makes me smile. I wear a little black dress that shows off my figure and legs, kept shapely with exercise. I look so beautiful, you feel your breath catch in your chest and your heart swells with adoration. You happily wear a suit because I find it so sexy (and you know it won't stay on long after we get home!) You love how my eyes light up when you walk in the room so you exercise and eat healthy too. And it makes you happy to surprise me with little gifts. You feel pleasure and pride when I am thrilled with your thoughtfulness. Sometimes your gifts for me are acts, like getting my car's oil changed or stopping by the grocery store on your way home. I feel deep appreciation for having a man as great as you. I am your arm candy and you are my hero.I love to cook and you love to eat so it's perfect. Fine dining is always an option but sometimes a hole-in-the-wall place feels right. Wine and dancing are fun too, especially since we took dance lessons together. Our kids are older and independent; our jobs give us freedom to create the life that feels good to us. We both have a spiritual grounding and a loving relationship with God but not a dogmatic religious view that requires being "saved".You smile at my endearing quirks, like dancing in the kitchen or struggling with electronic gadgets. You are not the least bit intimidated that I've written several books. You feel it is a huge compliment that a woman as pretty and intelligent as me chose you. I respect you and admire your success, professionally and financially. We enjoy quality without being materialistic. Money is never a problem. You can fix anything, although we hire others for what you don't enjoy doing.I feel protected, provided and cared for by you. You love my bright smile and sunny disposition, that I don't whine, am not a victim and I communicate clearly without blaming. And you enjoy my giggle, especially when your humor *** You smile a lot – especially since meeting me. Around me you feel safe to be your authentic self. As you drift off to sleep, you say to yourself, ""If living this story would make you feel happy, I want to hear from you. No worries... a short, casual meet-and-greet over coffee or tea to see if there is chemistry. Who knows?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    “I don’t like most men, but… I am not interested in most men and besides perhaps that's what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all more special. Myself – restless, analytical, fiesty, and opinionated. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on.Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on put great flavor into many of my evenings.I am warm and affectionate so you will be nicely surprised with pdaI make the best organic cookies on the planet!You’re taller than me. Not freakishly tall, but tall enough that I can lay a head on your shoulder without hurting my neck. You’ve got a job you love but that doesn’t control you’re whole life. You’re not afraid to choose the restaurant. You think kissing is a conversation and you like to talk.”I believe in the law of attraction in all areas of our lives. Your thoughts and feelings become your life. coffee and conversation with you buying

  • Jaiden

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Me...The beach ..the ocean, soft sand and gentle breezes ...... Sunrises and Sunsets....Music, and dancing ..... the rhythm of the soul.... live bands and showsAnimals, nature ..... Art and creativity ....The quiet and peacefulness of the outdoors ......The excitement and energy of a crowd ..... laughter, giggles and smiles Non stop chatter of your days journey.... Sharing and listening ..... Holding hands, hugs and gentle touch.... Not a rocker or deep fisherman..... nor biker chick or tattoo queen although they are beautiful and creative just not for me...Not into a gym fanatic .... pumpin up and juicing out ...more about the natural fitness life and hard work defines.... “Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.” Easy conversation......relaxed atmosphere .....Sharing and listening

  • Leonora

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    *****My pictures are pretty current with dates. I will be adding more soon. I like to see current ones on profiles in return. It's a big red flag if the pictures are older and especially if your profession or hobby is photography. Nowadays anyone with a cellphone camera, digital or webcam can take a picture.I'm updating this to say first off read no further if you are not interested in plus size women. I've mentioned this in my profile a couple of times that I am and that I'm not barbie. Evidently some of the men on here do not know what that means. Everyone has their own preferences. But as an update I have started a new lifestyle of eating and losing weight. Nothing is going to make me get off this path so you will see a changed person soon. I am very determined. I've finally found my 'magic bullet' to get to my goal. Be patient.If you're a game player, stop, move on to another profile. I for one am tired of all the games, it's wasting my time and yours.If you don't have the decency to tell a person you're interested in someone else YOU are not for me. That falls in to my category of "always looking around the corner for better". I'm really not a b*tch, just someone who has heard the bull before and tired of it. I'm actually a very nice person who sees the best in a person until they show me I need to see otherwise. I fall in the category of "treat others the way I want to be treated".If I haven't lost your attention read on....I'm putting my profile back up for how long I don't know. I seem to have this magnet that attracts looney people. I'm not into someone who is off their meds seeing things that aren't there, telling stories that are not true etc. Sorry, it's not for me. I am very leary of people after my latest experience so don't be offended if I'm a little hesitant. It's with good reason. I tend to trust and believe in people too easily.I'm a small town girl, blue jeans, nice blouse and boots (or heels) type who is looking for a real relationship. Not looking for a sugar daddy and I'm not a sugar momma. I don't require fancy dinners or fancy cars. Just looking for someone who likes doing things together whether it be watching a movie, doing some grocery shopping or cooking together or just sitting down and talking about your day. I'm trying to lose some weight so any activities together to help would be fun. I love motorcycle riding and am open to learning new things (camping, fishing, football). Would love to share his interests and hope he would like to share mine.I need to add here I'm not always organized and I'm not the best housekeeper. Someone once told me crafty artistic people are not LOL So that's my excuse! I have a very small very old home and I do my best. It's mine so with that said I'm into crafts and cake decorating and since my place is a shoe box size most of my supplies are in totes. I've picked up another hobby recently, glass etching. Soon I hope to reorganize and paint so don't be hurt if it's awhile before an invite over.I'm not perfect and I'm not looking for someone who is perfect. There has to be some attraction but looks are not the most important thing. I do love ink but it's not a deal breaker. I'm normally attracted to long hair bad boy types but again it's the person not the looks. I've met short guys, tall guys, skinny, average and big boys, it's really about personality, likes and dislikes. If you're always looking around the corner for better move on to the next profile. Relationships take two people to make it work and want it to work. I'm looking for someone who is real and can keep it real without all the game playing. Game playing is wasting time that can be spent on better things. Also if you don't like pets I'm not for you. I have a dog and cats.I don't have kids but would welcome yours as I do love kids.I love music and always have. My mom loved it (I had a cool mom) so it was always playing in our home.- As you can see a big variety.I've put "anything"Things I'm not looking for are: a hookup, friends with benefits, one night stand, etc.I'm looking for a relationship so if a person is in a relationship you don't need those or at least in my book you don't.So if you think you'd like to talk how about coffee, soda, wine? I'm real, I'm nice, I'm a bit quiet in person, if anything I'm a good friend. I do admit to being a true redhead, sometimes a little fiery, LOLI've had to disable chat because for some reason it doesn't work for me on here, just so you know.Jolie I think first meetings are just that...meetings. They shouldn't be real long in length because it's just to see if both are interested in each other. Meeting on line is easy but it's when you meet in person that counts. If both are interested then it's time to plan a first date.

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