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Trudie, 53
United States, North Carolina, Pilot Mountain

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About Me

I have been single for 5 years, and have just in the past year been serious about finding a partner to share the afternoon of my life and hopefully the evening as well. I want this to be my last relationship.I am looking for someone who is totally understanding and compassionate towards all others and allows each and every person on this earth to be whom they choose with no judging just loving acceptance. Self esteem is very important as well, but without the dreaded EGO getting in the way. Choosing to be kind and not having to argue, but just letting it go. The Beatles said it best: Let it be, let it be.I enjoy being outdoors (whether camping, fishing), golfing. I also enjoy reading, cooking (especially with someone), all types of music and yes even Rap. lol. I am a Grandma of 5 beautiful grandchildren. My family is a very important part of my life.If you would like to know more just ask, I am pretty open.I take care of myself, I love dressing up, especially in my high heels, but can also wear a pair of jeans just as well and feel just as comfortable.I work out, doing strength exercises, walking and yoga.Looking forward to chatting. : ) First date or first meeting I would think we could do whatever we felt comfortable doing. Whether it be going for a coffee, taking a walk, or even going out for a meal. I am open to whatever we come up with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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