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HadassaOnline
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
A good girls ( guys ) guide to internet dating Ok so where to start really ?? It is a vast and somewhat crazy place the world of cyber dating ..... I have laughed , cried , and been completely dumbfounded . I mean really guys do you think that us woman what to see your great big penises as we sip our coffees and check our *** the morning ??I Digress , I suppose I should start at the beginning and tell you the reasons for trying it in the first place ...lack of free time ... work in a female populated industry ( which would be great if your a lesbian ) but if you like men , and I do .....then aside from the twenty something clubs that abound in my city where does a nice ...none drinking lady go ? Well Plenty of Fish of course . I could come up with many more appropriate acronyms for meetville , but i won't start with that .I started out very naive about the whole dating online thing ....I thought girl writes truthful , honest profile and sets out to find , truthful honest man ...not that easy " lol " that is internet for" laughing out loud " ....and you do a lot of that online ...!I went on dates, some good some bad , some leave you guessing , and some crazy car chases ensued ...I even had a first date where the guys Pitbull ( which he took everywhere with him ) killed some one elses poor little fifi ...yeah that was an adventure ... turns out that mr wonderful was a convicted felon, another got deported back to France ( Illegal Alien ) ,one showed up naked for a first date ...all true . but I am still laughing out loud !I have chatted , and chatted and chatted with a vast array of gentlemen in my search for mister plenty of something ... some have been lovely and inciteful ,some leave you wondering whether your in the wrong line of work ..... you can get paid for psycho therapy, you know .I want to hear that you are a happy well adjusted man child , with a bit of a peter pan syndrome, interested in meeting and keeping a great woman, a desire to travel and a heart to give away to the right girl ..not a commitment phobic ex con with a , crazy ex and a killer dog : ) We can put our little heads together and think of something cool and exciting !!
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NickiOnline
Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are. - C.G. Jung I believe that life isn't meant to give us our meaning. We give meaning to our life. I am spiritual but not religious, and I was long before it became cliché and it was just considered weird. I was even country when country wasn't cool although I know for some of you it still isn't:) I am looking for a fellow journeyer whose desire it is to create a mature and authentic relationship. Someone who knows who he is and how to keep it real; the walk your talk thing. I do my best to focus on what I want as opposed to what I don't and I had this at the bottom of my profile but I think it needs to be a little closer to the top for those of you might not get that far... " I will unlikely respond to one sentenced messages or a primary focus on my physical appearance."I value what's on the inside much more than the outer. I am a very down to earth and organic woman. Still waters run deep and so do I. I love where I am in life and excited about where I might be going. I happily accept my grey hair and wrinkles for the privilege of knowing who I am. I've lived long enough to learn if you keep falling in the same pothole it might be time to chose a different road and it seems my road is the one less travelled...ah I am just full of clichés. As I was writing this I started thinking about clichés as they seem to abound here, so I looked up the meaning. Cliché: A trite expression--often a figure of speech whose effectiveness has been worn out through overuse and excessive familiarity. So even though not very original, there is value to be found in the content so I thought it would be fun to express my intention and desires through clichés because it seems it is what most do here in the sea of Plenty of Fish:) Let’s begin with quality over quantity. Yes, and the qualities I admire in others and I am cultivating in myself is the ability to stop and smell the roses and/or coffee. I am interested in people who understand there is no time like the present (yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift). Who comprehend it is absolutely pointless to cry over spilt milk. They may be a diamond in the rough but remember from the little acorn grows a mighty oak. One who carries their own baggage. And of course there is no sweeping things under the carpet, beating around the bush or making mountains out of molehills. You can keep on moving on if you are looking for greener pastures. Judge not, lest ye be judged. And the big one....no drama! I am still very much a work of art in progress.Okay, that is about as cheesy as even I am willing to get. Still there is depth of meaning to the above and here is my actual translation. I love to be around people with the ability to appreciate the small things in life and know that love is in the details. Who choose to live in the present moment and find no value hanging on to the past or are waiting for that better thing in the future that will finally make them happy particularly if they think it is me. Who are aware the only moment we ever have is right NOW! They can see all "so called" negative experience come with opportunities to grow and learn. They understand life is about changing and becoming, and seriously guys, the no baggage thing makes me chuckle. We all have stuff . It comes with the condition called "being human" and I believe it is what grows us and gives us each our unique perspectives. If you think you have none, you might want to turn around and have another look. And if your stuff is you are in an unfinished relationship I am uninterested. What matters to me is your ability to deal with what you carry. And then there is the "no drama" thing. People living with drama always think the problem comes from outside of them and is caused by others. The truth is people who really don't want drama just don't have drama. You have to recognize it when it comes and choose not to engage and it is this choosing that keeps you drama free, not telling others you don't want it.I value honesty and the capacity to tell one's truth even if it isn't popular or easy. I am very straight up and you will always know where you stand with me; something I have noticed not everyone appreciates. And those who do, I call friend. And very important is an understanding how nothing is ever really personal (I'm still working on this one). Also a commitment to creating harmony *** conflict is imperative. Most significant for me is the ability to look for and see the good in life, because life is what you make it. I don't have it all figured out but for the most part I am enjoying the process of self-discovery.My intention is to be my best most loving Me. I live my life daily challenging my ego and it's judgements. I see everybody as a mirror, so if my buttons get pushed I look inside myself to understand why what they did or didn't do bothers me so much rather than blame and look outside at them. It is not easy and I continually slip and fall. It takes practise, courage and much discipline to live this way. I have made a decision that it is important to me that I build all new relationship with those who are on similar path and who are awake, aware and consciously evolving. I wish to create an authentic partnership with someone who looks inside for his answers and is committed to his personal growth. Who takes responsibility for his behaviours and choices, and knows he creates his own experience and from this he grows. I am very committed to leading a green and Eco-friendly lifestyle. I garden and can and preserve the food I grow, I buy organic, I cook and bake from scratch and I even make my own non-toxic cleaning supplies. I think I was born in the wrong decade because I would have made a very good pioneer woman or maybe even a happy hippie or flower child. *If the power ever goes out you are going to want to know me.....lol. More seriously, I really care about my carbon footprint and how I am leaving this planet for our next generations.This is my path and if you share it I would love to explore the endless possibilities. And although secondary to me but not unimportant is a mutual physical attraction and chemistry that must not be *** am raising my grandchildren. They are my first and most important priority and anyone who chooses to enter my life will be an asset to them as well as me. Parenting again was curve ball and not something I ever expected to be doing at this stage in my life but here we are, and the lemonade is wonderful. One last cliché:) I live by the beach and I like to walk....let's take it from there:)
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ShaquilaOnline
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
I'm independent and have mellowed with time. Career and work used to dominate my time but realized life is to short and family, friends and life should be the main priority. I love to have fun and enjoy laughter and easy going environment. I am definitely young at heart (spirit and body) and can be very playful in the right environment however, have a very professional side when circumstances dictate. I cherish friends and family. Although I had to select professional as my personality type, I can handle rough and rugged. I am looking for a man who is young at heart (spirit and body), self reliant, confident, and comfortable in jeans or a suit. I am looking to connect with an individual who appreciates the diverse cultures of our world and savours the variety of foods (I love all kinds of foods) and experiences the world has to offer. This is critical as enjoyment in life comes from experiences with different cultures including food. An individual that appreciates mutual respect and admiration, who welcomes change, and an individual that is current with today's environment. Do you appreciate the value of adult time? I do with a young teenager! I want to meet a man that I can enjoy the occasional date and enjoy life and a moment of fun. Let's see how it goes and one never knows. I love all types of music (with the exception of opera) and enjoy dancing. I welcome the opportunity to strut my stuff. High heels or boots -- based on the occasion! Very flexible - we'll decide.