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Shanita, 51
United States, North Carolina, Pembroke

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About Me

HELLO...It's VERY nice to meet you !I am a happy, energetic, passionate woman with a fun loving, youthful.spirit. My friends say that I'm always smiling and that's just the way I like to be, I enjoy life and my tendency to "look on the brighter side" helps to keep me positive and optimistic ...Hopefully you are too!. I have a VERY loving, caring, nurturing personality I care deeply for other people...their feelings and their point of view.. I hope to meet my counterpart... A happy, thoughtful, caring, passionate, fun loving man who is stable and responsible. Someone who loves to laugh, have fun and enjoy life, I know you're out there...I'M OVER HERE...HA!I am quite independant and I have a successful career.that I enjoy. My colleagues refer to me as the social convenor. I'm the one arranging the birthday lunches, parties social functions and when they want to vent or share a good laugh...my office door is always open. I'm a great listener and I love a good laugh! I like to keep fit I enjoy a very healthy lifestyle.I exercise regularly and I love bicycling, swimming, long walks, etc. I love golf, although I am quite brutal at it. I REALLY need lessons, so I wont be such a menace on the golf course...lol...but I love to try. I enjoy dining, dancing, movies. I'm very social and love to entertain. I enjoy meeting new people and am very comfortable in a wide variety of social settings..and regularly visit family and friends. Like to get my "City Girl" fix.I like to keep busy..,,BUT I DO love my quiet time too... IIt's important to have time to relax and reflect on life.. I love quiet intimate evenings..I'm a great cook I really enjoy it. A glass of wine by the fire, curling up for a good movie or enjoying a nice campfire. I love to be surrounded by nature and water. I have a cute llittle waterfront house that I love... Nothing like relaxing on the dock after a long day or enjoying a peaceful kayak or paddle boat ride. I love all kinds of music. Soothes my soul... I play bass guitar in a 3 pce girl band... SO much fun! ..Great way to unwind after a hard week's work in a professional business environment. I love it! ...It's like my "alter ego"...ha! It's one of my favorite creative pursuits..;treasures" for my house. I love plants and my garden and I can make a planter out of almost anything...lol I have collected some interesting things over the years. I'm told my creative flair shows through in my appearance as well. I like to dress a little on the "funky" side. I like to look sexy,,but always with poise and class..I am a fit and "curvy" little thing and I like it that way. REAL women do have curves ..Ha! I am very feminine and sensual and I REALLY do enjoy being a woman. I'm a real "GIRLY GIRL".. Love high heels,perfume,lipstick, lingerie glitter...all that girly stuff. Love a nice pair of jeans too...just maybe like to have a little bit of sparkle on them...lol I enjoy my independance but would really love to share my life with someone special. I am a very passionate, affectionate woman. I have a happy life...All that's missing is a good man to enjoy my life with.. Family is VERY important to me. If you have children of any age, I would welcome them. I LOVE kids!!I love to travel whenever I can. Many places in the world I have yet to see! I enjoy weekend getaways, road trips and spontaneous activities...just get in the car and drive. All beautiful romantic memories to share with someone special. Doesnt really matter what you're doing as long as it's time spent with the one you love...Romantic candlelight dinners, Long walks, bicycling, boat rides,flea markets, antique shopping....All great stuff. I look forward to sharing this time in my life with a warm, passionate, fun loving energetic man who is ready to enjoy his life with someone like me... So if you're out there...Time is precious....STEP RIGHT UP !!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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