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Mel, 51

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About Me

Hi there...I am so sorry for all you well intentioned men out there. But I have to say this with hopes of boys that just look at the pictures. I am not interested in talking dirty, doing the wild thing on the first meet or seeing a person that looks different from what you've shown online. I don't mean to sound harsh but come on guys it's not a pair of shoes I'm buying I won't change my mind! Right off the hop I'd like to say that if your looking for a one night stand or if your a serial dater kindly move on. I'm a lady with spunk, love life with alot of energy. Life is to short and there is so much to explore on many fronts. I own my home so needless to say there is always something to do and I always have a project on the go. I'm not afraid to use a hammer or any other tool that makes a home a nicer place to live. After all it is an investment so why not help it to grow. You can also find me in Home Depot with a ball cap and ponytail, business attire or an evening gown. I have always been a people person so shy I am not. I'm happy with my exterior appearance but truly believe that true beauty is inside and I work hard at both. Life is a classroom and there's always room for growth. I truly believe that I have alot of great qualities to bring to the table and won't settle so I trust my *** find me a gentleman that can bring the same. Don't get me wrong I want a man in my life for all the positive aspects of a relationship but don't need a man. My son has just completed his BA at Guelph University (hence the reason I bought my home in Guelph) but is working now and recently got his own apartment, car and I'm very proud of the man that he has become. Now it's my time :) As far as location is concerned I'm flexible within the Southern Ont. area. I haven't yet decided if I want to sell my home or rent it. This is a university town and could utilize it as a good investment. Part of my decision will depend on who I'm with and where we're heading in yrs. to come. I know what I want and the direction I'd like to go in the future and I'd like to do this with a best friend, confidant and lover. A man with a sense of humour is a must, independant, intelligent, kind spirit and basically on the same page looking for similar goals in life.I try to reply to all even if your not my type I'll be polite and honest. Please don't take it personally different strokes for different folks. Your gal is just around the corner be patient. She's there :) We can both decide after all it's a meet and greet. Please be honest with your pictures and have them current. I mean you will eventually meet so starting off with a lie is just not a good start. First impressions are important.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Keiko

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I DO NOT SEE RACE IT IS THE HEART THAT WINS ME OVER! Please do not contact if you have not posted PHOTO.. Not wanting to give *** receive it. To many others without waiting for photo . No exceptions .. Straight Up!! However I am Looking for someone who is seriously looking to be able to change there status from single to (In A Relationship). If you don't have a current picture of you posted no need to apply you will not get a reply. No need to see pictures of your grand kids or pets,bike It's your picture that is important! You must be available to date if you are to busy to date then why not wait until things slow down? Not looking for fishing friends or company, Friends are easy to find! . There are givers and takers in the world and I pray for takers to stay away I prefer someone to like to give as well as receive affection , two way street:-)If you are not familiar with texting or communicating probaly not for me, If you are looking for a 53 year old in a 20 year old body I suggest you find ***Yr ),Must be Single not (separated) or thinking about leaving your Wife soon as kids move out! Well I would say I am a Good catch! Of course'I am very smart, Funny ,Secure ,Witty, Nurturing, Active, Affectionate, outdoorsy Not afraid to speak my mind nor am I afraid of hard work or being the leader in a group I am very confident and strong with a positive attitude , UNIQUE,I am just me and happy to be! No plans on changing for anyone! I am looking for someone who I am attracted to and enjoy spending my spare time being around exploring what life has to offer, I prefer a man who is able to make decisions and plan nice little things to do from time to time *** always saying,("What do you want to do?) I do not enjoy dating around for the fun of it, I prefer spending time with someone who makes me laugh and keeps me intrigued and makes me want to know more about him, someone who is active *** sitting in front of a movie every weekend. Love Outdoor adventure!! I am attracted to guys who keeps them self well groomed and is a secure stable gentleman God Fearing. One who has learnt through the years that if you don't respect her you will loose her, I do not get along with a Controlling man or a jealous insecure man One who may be jealous of the Ex even though there are times when we have to all come together and be civil, My ex and I are on good terms and wish the best for each other, Been Divorced 11 years so no baggage there, I am content being alone so not desperate but I do remember what it was to have someone to snuggle and hold hands kiss only with a good kisser and talk about everything ! I am ready for that again because kids are grown and prefer your kids to be grown and on there own. I am not getting any younger at least not on the outside and would like to have the scent of a man and feel there strong hands, Not looking for Players they are a dime a dozen :-(perfer someone serious and that has the time for a relationship! Just hope you don't bite off more than you can chew!! Must be in good shape but not a gym rat ! Not interested in heavy drinkers or loud mouths arrogance is a turn off.. And if you are a bully Skip please me. I just worry about my life and my hsppiness And how others live there lifes is up to them. I am not prejudice I just see people for there heart not there color! I Like variety Music. R& Well what do you think? Who just wants what I want ? A person to enjoy life with! So let's get out for a walk, festival, motorcycle ride. Or a theater or Something ? Not looking for friends if you plan on dating a few girls at once then not for me!. No deceitful friendships :- On a scale ***I would say I am a 5 .. Some better and some worse !! (. Whew as you can tell I am not short on words:-) Write me It's worth a try!!!!!!!!! if not have a good day and on my way:) plenty of fish in the sea:) :-) I need no-one but would like the right someone :-)

  • Olga

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Im hoping to find a kind, fun loving, christain man to enjoy life with me. I'm 52 I have three grown children, Im fun, open minded, and love to laugh. I love to fish and explore the outdoors, yet at the same time I love a day at the spa. Im an honest person and I beleive you get outta life what you put into it. Im a lover of all types of music, with a few expection :-)). If there's anything eles you 'd like to know just message me!! :-))

  • Carolynn

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I just moved to this new location and joined the YMCA to meet people. When I workout I like to watch the Food channel....lol I like to take a pic everyday. I like to try new restaurant's. I love all music as long as I can dance to it but if I had to pic one I didn't like it would be Rap. I just bought a kayak. I am pretty crafty. I am a very independent woman but it would be nice to find someone to share time together and maybe do some travelling together, do a little golfing, walk a beach or just cuddle on the couch and watch a movie. I also have 2 AMAZING Grandson's who I try to see as often as possible. It is hard to read a profile and see a few pic's to know if we would have chemistry together.....so drop me an *** where it goes from there! Good luck in finding that someone that fits into your lifestyle!! :o) A first date can be pretty much anything because I enjoy so many things. It would depend on the weather because you can't go to the beach and have a picnic if it is snowing out or can you??? So I guess for now a safe date to say would be to go to the movies....I hardly ever go but I love the movies!

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