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Mel, 51
United States, North Carolina, Pembroke

Offline, last seen Sat, 18 Oct 2025 06:06:14

About Me

Hi there...I am so sorry for all you well intentioned men out there. But I have to say this with hopes of boys that just look at the pictures. I am not interested in talking dirty, doing the wild thing on the first meet or seeing a person that looks different from what you've shown online. I don't mean to sound harsh but come on guys it's not a pair of shoes I'm buying I won't change my mind! Right off the hop I'd like to say that if your looking for a one night stand or if your a serial dater kindly move on. I'm a lady with spunk, love life with alot of energy. Life is to short and there is so much to explore on many fronts. I own my home so needless to say there is always something to do and I always have a project on the go. I'm not afraid to use a hammer or any other tool that makes a home a nicer place to live. After all it is an investment so why not help it to grow. You can also find me in Home Depot with a ball cap and ponytail, business attire or an evening gown. I have always been a people person so shy I am not. I'm happy with my exterior appearance but truly believe that true beauty is inside and I work hard at both. Life is a classroom and there's always room for growth. I truly believe that I have alot of great qualities to bring to the table and won't settle so I trust my *** find me a gentleman that can bring the same. Don't get me wrong I want a man in my life for all the positive aspects of a relationship but don't need a man. My son has just completed his BA at Guelph University (hence the reason I bought my home in Guelph) but is working now and recently got his own apartment, car and I'm very proud of the man that he has become. Now it's my time :) As far as location is concerned I'm flexible within the Southern Ont. area. I haven't yet decided if I want to sell my home or rent it. This is a university town and could utilize it as a good investment. Part of my decision will depend on who I'm with and where we're heading in yrs. to come. I know what I want and the direction I'd like to go in the future and I'd like to do this with a best friend, confidant and lover. A man with a sense of humour is a must, independant, intelligent, kind spirit and basically on the same page looking for similar goals in life.I try to reply to all even if your not my type I'll be polite and honest. Please don't take it personally different strokes for different folks. Your gal is just around the corner be patient. She's there :) We can both decide after all it's a meet and greet. Please be honest with your pictures and have them current. I mean you will eventually meet so starting off with a lie is just not a good start. First impressions are important.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Jazz R&B Rodeo
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