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Ester, 51
United States, North Carolina, Pembroke

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About Me

Sooo, Ya say ya wanna meet an honest no games kinda woman eh? If that's so then read on.............Firstly, I am an outgoing, happy, affectionate, independent, wear my heart on my sleeve kind of person, who talks to people while waiting in line ups, smiles and says "hello" to people as I walk down the street.I try not to take myself too seriously (usually the first one to laugh at my own mistakes or short comings).I can be tough as nails or sweet as sugar (naturally refined not sweet and low) depending on the situation at the time.I work ***hours per day on average, in a male dominated industry, 90% of that time spent alone and sitting on my butt, hence the "few extra pounds" (working on that, but I would love to meet someone who likes to workout or keep physically active together).I have two grown daughters (both over 21), they think I am way tooo honest....I feel my "parenting is done" so the rolls are reversing, I'm acting more like a kid and loving every minute of it!!! I am an animal lover, between my youngest daughter (who lives with me) and I, we have 1 dog, 1 cat, 2 kittens, 5 horses and a pony.(one of us really needs a farm I think) If she kicked me out tomorrow I'd only have to take my dog :) Good Physical Interaction (lots of passion) is very important to me, but I am only interested in an open, honest, respectful, monogamous, long term relationship with lots of passion...I do not want a fantastic bedroom (or wherever) relationship and have nothing else in common.I am not looking to "hook up" so please do not contact me unless you are looking for a long term honest commitment.. If you think I'm the kind of woman you would like to get to know then lets chat....No expectations or preconception. I like to move things along quickly to texting or meeting (no sense in wasting each others time if there is no spark) But don't be shy to contact me if you have something "respectful" to share... always like to hear compliments or criticisms.Oh ya, almost forgot..... If you've read this far kudos to you............ I'll tell you the "Secondly" part when we meet ; ***Public but quiet place for a quick meeting and see if there's a connection...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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