SIMILAR PEOPLE
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MarkOffline
Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-60
I love thunderstorms and the wind howling and the desert and deep woods. I like to watch sports with a man who knows a lot about them and likes even better, to play them. I love to dance and pray and get my hands in the dirt. I love action movies, old westerns, Shakespeare and slap-stick comedies. I love to see what is just around the bend and be in my jammies by 8. I am cheerful at 5am sans caffeine. I love the sound of a motorcycle reving up under an overpass just because and the deep voice of a man whispering in my ear for the same reason. I prize humility, courage, loyalty, perseverance in a man as I do in myself. I love a man with arms like an anvil and fists like a sledgehammer. And the wisdom to know when to use them and when to count to ten.My father and my son are the two men I have loved and respected most and when I was encouraged by a trusted friend to list 20 attributes I was looking for in someone, I found as I compiled it, that it was a composite of them. Here it is: 1. Between 6'1" and 6'5" in height. 2. Dark blonde hair. 3. Green eyes. 4. Athletically built and a life-long devotee of physical training. 5. Intelligent AND wise (they are not the same!). 6. Well-spoken and well-read. 7. In possession of a quick wit and enjoying poking fun at himself the most. 8. Gifted musically - able to play at least two ***, one of them being either the piano, the guitar, or the bagpipes. 9. Hard-working, personally frugal, but generous to those less fortunate.10.11. A Boy Scout.12. Clean in body - abstaining from all tobacco and recreational drug use. A rare intake of alcohol. 13. A warrior - skilled in a variety of weapons.14. A supporter of Israel.15. Devoted to his mother and courteous towards the female members of the family.16. Gentle and kind to animals and children.17. A man among men -18. Reverent - a fervent love for God encompassing body, mind, and spirit. 19. Faithful - able to withstand temptation, honoring his own integrity.20. Love me in word and deed. I took this list to my father, along with the profiles of the 30 men I thought most commendable. Though he was undergoing radiation and enduring much pain, his ***'s mind was as sharp as ever. He narrowed it down to just three.As I helped my father from his wheelchair to his bed, this man leaped up and lifted him effortlessly, but in doing so, his bounded hair became undone and cascaded over my father's face. And the man who was so "old school", who got his hair trimmed every two weeks, reached up and combed his fingers through the long tendrils and said, "It is so beautiful, Tom. Don't ever cut it." Then my father motioned for me to put a CD on, one of his favorites - "Wild Horses". When it was finished, he took Tom's hand and with tears streaming, softly said, "I have played this for her. Now, you will play it."Two weeks later my father died and joined my son. I was alone now in the world and the man with the beautiful hair had compassion on me and took me under his wing. He is in possession of many, perhaps most of these qualities. Odysseus was not the first, nor the last man to have his ship turned about... ; )But I will say this - every now and then, as I do the dishes, he gets out his guitar and plays "Wild Horses".And most of the time, "Nothing Else Matters..." It's message is one I keep remembering as I wait on Odysseus, the one who would be Anam Cara...to me.KINDNESSBefore you know what kindness really isyou must lose things, feel the future dissolve in a momentlike salt in a weakened broth.What you held in your hand,what you counted and carefully saved,all this must go so you knowhow desolate the landscape can bebetween the regions of kindness.Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness,you must travel where the Indian in a white poncholies dead by the side of the road.You must see how this could be you, how he too was someonewho journeyed through the night with plansand the simple breath that kept him alive.Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.You must wake up with sorrow.You must speak to it till your voicecatches the thread of all sorrowsand you see the size of the cloth.Then it is only kindness that makes any sense anymore, only kindness that ties your shoesand sends you out into the day to mail letters and purchase bread,only kindness that raises its headfrom the crowd of the world to sayIt is I you have been looking for,and then goes with you everywherelike a shadow or a friend. Well, I do like creativity and adventure... ; )
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LilliamOffline
Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 51-61
Fun, sassy blonde looking for a kind and outgoing companion who is interested in enjoying a little time together. I know that it's sort of cliche to say that I like sunsets and walking on the beach, but I really do! I like golfing (I work at a golf course), snorkeling and scuba diving, and trail hiking. But I also enjoy quieter, less active experiences too - So now that you know a little about me, what should I know about you? Do you like the outdoors? Can you laugh at yourself? Do you want to spend sometime with someone who enjoys the things you do? Take a chance - contact me, and let's see if we have something in common or can teach each other something new!
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AnniceOffline
Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-60
Im a happy go lucky type girl..going to karaoke for a couple beers and mingling with friends is how i like to spend some of my free time. i also LOVE to go dancing if only i had a partner to dance with..not much into rap or headbanging. I just take life a day at a time..Ive learned that the hard way and would love someone to do that with. My kids are grown and Im starting on the great adventure of grandchildren and Im loving it! :) I guess if i were asked what i were looking for it would be someone to grow older with..someone who has the same tastes and desires as me...are you looking for that someone special? That someone that makes you come alive when you thought life was over? Somone to make you want to get up in the morning with a smile on your face because youre no longer lonely? Thats what Im looking for...I hate being alone and not having anyone to have a good time with. Maybe you are him.. :)If you do *** I guess I would like for you to feel comfortable..maybe out for a few drinks to unwind..or coffee if its morning. I want to get a feel for whoever you are so I know what the next step of our date would be. Possibly dinner or a movie..what counts is if we hit it off...and I think we could get a good idea of that almost from the start.