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Merrilee, 53

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About Me

I'm a pretty uncomplicated person and am looking for the same. I have 3 great kids; two who are grown and one still at home. I also have 4 grandchildren. They all bring me so much happiness and pride. I have a great job that I love (most of the time) but it can be demanding. I take pride in my appearance and work out at least 5 times a week. I do aerobics, weights, dance; anything to stay in shape. Don't let the jeans, boots and country girl image fool you. I'm also comfortable dressing up for a night on the town and have a professional side to me as well. I live in the country on 10 acres and have 2 horses. One of my horses is blind and I rescued him just a few days before he was euthanized. Horses are one of my first loves and I enjoy taking care of them and riding.; born and bred. Update: They have!I'm stubborn and determined. This has served me well in life as it has helped me accomplish a lot of things and face some challenges but it has also been a pain in the butt to some people in my life too: ) Sometimes I'm fiesty. I love to laugh! I laugh out loud every day and am told I have a great laugh. It's not annoying, I promise!I love a great cup of coffee and chocolate.I volunteer for lots of causes but mostly for our local fire department and supporting the military.I'm kind, affectionate, truthful, honest,sincere and loving but I also have an ornery side. I'm a little competetive. I play a really good game of corn hole (my pitching skills)and do not like to lose at anything!Some of my favorite things are the smell of rain, fresh cut hay and babies right after a bath. I love the beach, warm summer breezes, a snowy day spent by a warm fire with someone special to snuggle with.Please don't *** you're married. Separated is married. Also, if you think it's a good idea to send me a pic of your junk or you're a closet smoker, we're not a good match. A first date should be an opportunity to talk, get to know each other and see if theres a mutual connection. Lunch or dinner in a quiet setting where we have the opportunity to talk would be nice. Meeting for a few drinks also works. In nice weather, I would enjoy sitting on a patio, soaking up some sun and getting to know you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Colene

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    SWF seeking SWM...Just to be clear...I am said age and I DO look like my pictures. I consider myself to be a kind, caring, passionate, responsible, intelligent, witty, fun and funny person. I love to travel the world and have been fortunate to have traveled to many Wonders of the World! I also participate in 2 mission trips a year and feel blessed to be able help make a difference in the lives of others. I stay fit by playing tennis, biking, swimming, the gym or a brisk walk (since I can no longer run long distance..though I do throw in a 5 or 10K race occasionally). I love to golf, am an avid BAMA fan, enjoy live music, dancing in the rain, theatre, entertaining, dining out and quiet nights at home.Your turn!! Please don't respond if you can't provide a picture. Drinks that turn into dinner, good conversation and laughter.

  • Adrie

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hey there fellow traveler -I would like to share with you what matters in my world and hope that you will connect if the same holds true in yours.Fearless communicationHonestyLoyaltyIntellectAn inquisitive mindExploring - the world, the neighbourhood, and most importantly - ideasA healthy lifestyleCreativityGratitudeA positive outlookI am curious about the world and the many ways people find joy in these complex times. I am well traveled and have lived on four continents. I don't believe there is just one right way to do anything and I enjoy finding the ways that work for me. I know that for me, sharing the journey enriches the experience.My hope is to meet a man with a quick mind and a beautiful soul - someone self-assured and sensuous - who possesses the maturity and capacity to appreciate that there is always more to learn and who continues to grow in spirit as well as in intellect. Must also love kissing!I am successful and happy in my career but am by no means materialistic. Its not about having "things" - its more about having the capacity to act on an idea, or seize an opportunity when it presents itself. I am just as happy in my jeans and tool belt, covered in drywall dust or knee-deep in mushroom compost, as I am in a party dress and heels, sipping champagne at an art auction. Although I have many interests, I have become more of an introvert in the past few years and relish quiet times at home - experimenting in the kitchen, reading, or creating a new natural skin care formulation. Sadly I do not have a garden right now, but if I did, I would be outside at every opportunity - planting, weeding, harvesting or just swinging peacefully in the hammock. I do not have a set idea in my mind about any particular kind of lifestyle. For me it is about sharing the experience - whatever that may be - and of course, sharing a deep connection with my lover and companion. I believe that we are the architects of our own lives, and I wish to be with a man that has out-of-the-box dreams and is prepared to focus his energies on realizing them.It all starts with friendship and chemistry - and the hope that the connection will evolve into a committed, long-term relationship.Please send an *** are happy and solid in your world and ready to take on the next great adventure.xo I do not consider our first meeting as a "date". This is an opportunity for us to share some time together in a casual environment and see how we get along in person. No pressure, just an open and non-judgemental "get-to-know-you" conversation so we can determine if there is any chemistry.

  • Luba

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I think I am ready to open my heart again. It's kind of scary to start over at 51, but I know that out there somewhere is a kind, warm, nature-loving man of integrity who is looking for someone like me. I'm in a transition phase in my life right now, trying to find the balance between putting my time, energy and passion into activities and people which will bring meaning to the 2nd half of my life vs. the practicalities of everyday existence. I really admire people who have chosen a simpler life built on what is important to them, rather than what society today dictates as being important.Part of my vision for the future includes a loving partner to share the journey. I like to spend most of my free time doing things outdoors like hiking, biking, gardening and paddling my kayak, but also enjoy live theatre and music.I tend to favor acoustic music, but like just about anything but rap/hip-hop type stuff and really twangy country. I find cello music really expresses all the feelings of the human heart so I adore cello music. I especially love live music in outdoor venues.I love to eat anything fresh from an organic garden, ethnic food and locally grown and raised stuff. I was raised Catholic but am finding my spiritual needs and growth extending beyond the *** these days.I'm not perfect...I have faults, weaknesses and character and bodily flaws. I'd rather share them with you, for true intimacy comes from feeling safe enough to be vulnerable with another. I'd like you to feel safe enough to share your imperfections as well. I do wonder... ...whether I will meet someone amazing that I want to spend the rest of my life with and who wants to spend the rest of his life with me ...if I will ever have my little eco-friendly home with a huge garden, a few chickens and maybe a goat...(oh, and you!) ...how I can support myself financially doing something I love rather than just working for the paycheck (and just for the record I have no debts except my mortgage)You should message me if:...you are looking for a down-to-earth, grounded woman with simple but important values. Someone you would love to go for a hike or camping with, or spend the day playing in the garden with, cooking dinner with or just relaxing on the beach with.If you are a kind, honest, man of integrity, who cherishes the out-of-doors as much as I do, I think you should say hi.I'm sorry but please pass me by if you are a smoker or have a past, present or future substance abuse problem. I have been deeply hurt by someone's issues with alcohol and I just don't have it in me to ride that roller-coaster again.In general,"Hey", " Hi there", or "what's up?" are really not likely to get my attention, so please...if you would really like a reply, make the effort to say something of substance. Good communication is the foundation of every successful relationship, and by not making the effort on the first try, leads me to believe that you are not at all interested in this integral piece of the puzzle. Just sayin' I enjoy a nice walk and talk for a first date. I think being able to go for a walk with someone because it is a little more casual and sometimes the things you see along the way can fill in those awkward silences that can sometimes happen on a first date. I think you can usually tell after an initial meeting if the person is someone you would like to get to know (or not).

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