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Merritt, 55
United States, North Carolina, North Wilkesboro

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About Me

I've decided to stop by after a much needed 5-month break and can see most of the same people are still here.....I've posted some current pics, how about you?.....(BIG Smile Here)I like concerts,baseball games, fairs, tropical vacations or amusement parks. I'm a secondbaseman in a co-ed softball league, I love sports, water skiing, kayaking, snorkeling or anything outdoors (No camping...unless there's shower facilities). I work out daily and keep active to stay in shape. My music interests vary: motown, modern country, jazz, R&B, hip hop, 70's, 80's, 90's so pretty much anything you can dance to. Love the Caribbean. I'm both book smart and street smart. Please tell me what YOU like as it's not just about ME, but about US! A travel partner would be awesome!!!!I'm looking for a man who is within MY AGE range & looks close to my age. Please remember, you don't need to have EVERYTHING IN COMMON to be compatible. I'm not looking for a perfect man, just one who is "PERFECT for ME".; pepper hair, moustaches, goutees, a killer smile, tall men is a + (not a requirement), and chilvary is not dead. If you spend 99% of your time on your hobbies and 1% with your "family" or "partner", pass me by or if you're looking for friends with benefits again please pass me by. I'm just your everyday kind of girl who wants to spend time and share my life with a genuine man....eventually Long Term. FACTS: I'm NOT going to have anymore kids at my age. Please...no married men and no women either!! Love kids, so that is fine. Remove your hat, sunglasses, kids, pets as I have no interest if you have "only" pics of those. Throwing a javelin 20 yards doesn't make a person athletic. If you don't have a car, you have a very long walk. If you're a Great catch please make sure the hook is secure so you don't cheat. Please don't Sugarcoat your Profile because it's the same thing as telling a lie.....just keep it REAL. I'm Drama-Free, I've NEVER cheated, I'm honest and sincere. Relocating is not an issue to be with the right person (Prefer warm climates). As you can tell, I have a sense of HUMOR and truely am a lighthearted person. I'm 5' 7", size ***& weigh approx. ***. My career background includes: Banking, Construction & EducationMy Promise: I'll make TIME for you and the things that you like, but please do the same for me as that's what couples do! Relationships are 100% ***%, not ***, you have to give 100% of yourself in my book to make things work. I treat my partner the way I want to be treated, with respect. It doesn't matter what you drive or what's in your home, but more importantly, in your heart.........Race / religion unimportant.Life's too short so if you see an interest, feel free to contact me as I'm very APPROACHABLE. I promise to answer ALL *** I believe that's a "common courtesy". If I write to you please do the same, whether you're interested or not.....I'm a grown-up, I can take it. Thanks for viewing my profile and I wish you the best of luck in your search. Please SMILE in your profile....it looks good on you... :) Maybe a light lunch, baseball game, picnic, appetizers? What would you like? Make a suggestion, I'm flexible. No movies since we won't be able to have a good conversation or coffee (gives you bad breathe)......LOL

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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