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Merrilee, 52

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About Me

I am spontaneous, adventurous,... but grounded... not a crazy fly by the seat of my pants girl that doesn't take life or responsibility TOO seriously... I have a good job, support myself....not so serious that i don't know how to have fun.. I have a great, if dry, sense of humor - love to laugh, can be more than a little sarcastic... go figure.. lookin for a guy that is self sufficient, but has room in his life for mutual adoration, but seeks a relationship that will be fun, energetic, romantic, and drama free. Just so you aren't mislead - neither the plane, the horse, nor the big house are mine, just happen to be the pics of me by myself. Yes, I look like my pictures, well, except maybe the one in the blue dress, it's a little cheesy) I love spending time with my daughters (3, all over 18). I am just as comfortable in a great pair of heels as I am in flip flops or sneakers, (but barefoot trumps 'em all!) I want someone I can be myself with, whether we are spending quiet time at home, laughing, snuggling, pillow fights, or out on the town where I would love to be treated like a lady (I'm a sucker for the door opening...) and I will act like one (a lady, not a door :) I'm looking for that honest, sincere, funny, intelligent, articulate, tender-when-he-needs-to--when-he-needs-to-be, creative, adventurous, fun guy that wants to share his jokes, his talents, his accomplishments, even his hurts, his disappointments, but most of all his heart with me. You're out there, and in the meantime... I'm enjoying my life while I look for you :) first date, hmmmm, open to suggestion... sweep me off my feet :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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