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Sophisticatednerdspiritualrockerchickintellectual…what?Can a woman who likes Renaissance and Impressionist art also like screaming out play advice during a football game? Can she head bang to hard rock and be swept away by classical lyricism? Can she read books for days on end and spend hours in the heart of a good adventure video game? She can and I do. My youth is not only in my heart and I feel the age I look rather than the one dictated by my birthdate. I have done my duty now long for adventure...to find all that is incredible and enchanting and breathtaking in this life with someone open and articulate. Do you? (PS: My pics are no older than six months…what you see is my truth; I wish for someone who is equally as honest.) I appreciate frankness…openness and honesty, especially on here as so many games are played. So here’s some of my own…I am NOT looking for till death do us part (if it happens, I’d go with the flow, but it’s not on my immediate radar). BUT neither am I a ‘one night’ girl! Perhaps it is my strong European influence, but I do believe there is a lovely middle ground, where sophisticated men and women can enjoy each other’s company, publicly and privately, without ever having to worry about such annoying questions as…what does this mean, where is this going…ugh! HOWEVER, (and yes it’s a big however), even with such a sophisticated attitude, and perhaps especially because of it, there needs to be as much if not more respect and manners…those I absolutely must have. A chat at the beach in the summer, in a cafe before a fire in the winter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Brigette

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I like reading poetry. Movies. all types of music. I\'m open to learning and doing new things. anything else you would like to know just ask me. I need a calm partner with mature attidutes to life and relationships.

  • Mark

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I love thunderstorms and the wind howling and the desert and deep woods. I like to watch sports with a man who knows a lot about them and likes even better, to play them. I love to dance and pray and get my hands in the dirt. I love action movies, old westerns, Shakespeare and slap-stick comedies. I love to see what is just around the bend and be in my jammies by 8. I am cheerful at 5am sans caffeine. I love the sound of a motorcycle reving up under an overpass just because and the deep voice of a man whispering in my ear for the same reason. I prize humility, courage, loyalty, perseverance in a man as I do in myself. I love a man with arms like an anvil and fists like a sledgehammer. And the wisdom to know when to use them and when to count to ten.My father and my son are the two men I have loved and respected most and when I was encouraged by a trusted friend to list 20 attributes I was looking for in someone, I found as I compiled it, that it was a composite of them. Here it is: 1. Between 6'1" and 6'5" in height. 2. Dark blonde hair. 3. Green eyes. 4. Athletically built and a life-long devotee of physical training. 5. Intelligent AND wise (they are not the same!). 6. Well-spoken and well-read. 7. In possession of a quick wit and enjoying poking fun at himself the most. 8. Gifted musically - able to play at least two ***, one of them being either the piano, the guitar, or the bagpipes. 9. Hard-working, personally frugal, but generous to those less fortunate.10.11. A Boy Scout.12. Clean in body - abstaining from all tobacco and recreational drug use. A rare intake of alcohol. 13. A warrior - skilled in a variety of weapons.14. A supporter of Israel.15. Devoted to his mother and courteous towards the female members of the family.16. Gentle and kind to animals and children.17. A man among men -18. Reverent - a fervent love for God encompassing body, mind, and spirit. 19. Faithful - able to withstand temptation, honoring his own integrity.20. Love me in word and deed. I took this list to my father, along with the profiles of the 30 men I thought most commendable. Though he was undergoing radiation and enduring much pain, his ***'s mind was as sharp as ever. He narrowed it down to just three.As I helped my father from his wheelchair to his bed, this man leaped up and lifted him effortlessly, but in doing so, his bounded hair became undone and cascaded over my father's face. And the man who was so "old school", who got his hair trimmed every two weeks, reached up and combed his fingers through the long tendrils and said, "It is so beautiful, Tom. Don't ever cut it." Then my father motioned for me to put a CD on, one of his favorites - "Wild Horses". When it was finished, he took Tom's hand and with tears streaming, softly said, "I have played this for her. Now, you will play it."Two weeks later my father died and joined my son. I was alone now in the world and the man with the beautiful hair had compassion on me and took me under his wing. He is in possession of many, perhaps most of these qualities. Odysseus was not the first, nor the last man to have his ship turned about... ; )But I will say this - every now and then, as I do the dishes, he gets out his guitar and plays "Wild Horses".And most of the time, "Nothing Else Matters..." It's message is one I keep remembering as I wait on Odysseus, the one who would be Anam Cara...to me.KINDNESSBefore you know what kindness really isyou must lose things, feel the future dissolve in a momentlike salt in a weakened broth.What you held in your hand,what you counted and carefully saved,all this must go so you knowhow desolate the landscape can bebetween the regions of kindness.Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness,you must travel where the Indian in a white poncholies dead by the side of the road.You must see how this could be you, how he too was someonewho journeyed through the night with plansand the simple breath that kept him alive.Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.You must wake up with sorrow.You must speak to it till your voicecatches the thread of all sorrowsand you see the size of the cloth.Then it is only kindness that makes any sense anymore, only kindness that ties your shoesand sends you out into the day to mail letters and purchase bread,only kindness that raises its headfrom the crowd of the world to sayIt is I you have been looking for,and then goes with you everywherelike a shadow or a friend. Well, I do like creativity and adventure... ; )

  • Verlene

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    When it comes to men that areromantically interested in you, it's really simple. Just *** say and only pay attention to what they do. It's that simple. It's that easy." From Randy Paush' THE LAST LECTUREOk...time to add more to my profile after receiving some *** are, at best, ridiculous. 1. Please READ my profile and not just look at the pictures.2. If you cannot think of anything more than "Hi" to say, wait until you can.3. I am by no means a model, but I am aware of my physical attributes...If you cannot *** other than the way I look, please don't.4. For the guys that have in their profile about "any good women left out there"....YES, there are...but if the only thing you can say to them is "Hi sexy"...and haven't read one thing they have written..chances are you are not going to find the "good" ones. The "good" ones are much more than their pictures.5. If you think this is being "****y" then feel free to not contact me :)6. I smoke. I do intend to quit one day, but don't think today is that day. 7. I am a woman who believes in compromise and working together to have a relationship be successful, however I will not compromise on my core values. Meaning, I will not date anyone who drinks excessively or does drugs. I do not accept disrespectfulness. I believe in treating people the way I want to be treated. 8. Have to add this due to the recent *** have gotten...If your profile is laced with sexual inuendos, if you feel that a woman owes you sex because you take her out to dinner or on a date...Definitely do NOT *** are all adults and physical activity is a healthy part of a relationship. However, women do NOT "Owe" you that. That is something between two people who care about each other and is given freely and with love.If you don't "get" that, then I am not the one to write to. ~ Now that being said...let's see what happens :)~ “You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.” - Bob Marley"The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: his eyes are closed."—

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