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Vesta, 51

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About Me

This is the most awkward part so let's go.....I could ramble on and describe some very cool qualities about myself, unfortunately I am pretty partial to 'me' so you would not be getting a very objective view. What follows is a little bit about who I am searching for...I love to spend time outside and in great company. Enjoy unwinding with conversation and / or while listening to music over a cool adult beverage. I am not needy and I am not looking for anyone who is dependent on being with someone ***. I have found peace in being with myself. While I enjoy the independence, I know I am ready to connect with someone again. Hopefully that same someone can turn out to be the one I can fall for later .... I am low on maintenance and drama, hopefully you are too! I love music, very partial to rock (old to new), yet absolutely enjoy listening to any artist who can get lost in their lyrics. I enjoy good nutrition, exercise, and staying in shape. Sports like, my sons competitive baseball team, the Royals, pro football, and KU Basketball!! ;) not necessarily in that order, but close! If I could describe you, you would be fit, open, honest, fun-loving, family oriented, dog loving, wild spirit with a dash-o-rebel tossed in . . . all the while having a wicked sense of humor! You don't believe in 'soul mates' but appreciate the genuine connection two individuals can have... And you would much rather spend time kissing than finding fault, judging or blaming others... Is it possible to find that on a website and within one person?? . . . Who knows, but I'm not willing to compromise so the search is ON!I am honest, so let me start here. While looks are certainly not everything, we are on the internet so I can't get to know your personality first. With that said, I need at least an initial interest in your photo to want to know you more. I can tell you I am not a fan of responses that have no picture or lack any type of description, facial hair (although the scruffy look can be quite sexy)... nor am I a lover of large sizes. I do my best to keep myself in shape and I would expect any future partner to do the same..... I am sure that sounds stuck-up, but truly I am not ..... I just believe in being honest from the start! Thank you for taking the time to read my words. Good luck in your search!Ps...If you don't have a pic, are in search of a quick hook up, are married, or are a serial dater....move on to the next profile or website, I am not what you are looking for. A quiet evening where we can talk and get to know each other to see if there is a connection....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Oralee

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Sometimes I really miss the old fashioned way of meeting people, who remembers those days? You're out with friends enjoying live music, dancing, laughing and having a great time and then you see someone who catches your eye...you make eye contact across the room, smile at each other and make your way across to each other. You dance and flirt, discover that you want to get to know each other more...you find a place to sit and talk and before you know it hours have passed and you didn't even notice...yeah, those were the days.I guess that's what I'm looking for. I stay pretty busy with classes and homework (working on Master's degree), spending time with my grandson, he's 4 and so awesome!! I'm a substitute teacher for now, but am working towards being a full-time teacher (those classes and homework I mentioned). Now I could write about all the things I enjoy doing, but I'm thinking I'll save that for conversation, after all, I've listed my interests and I'm more than willing to answer questions.Thanks for stopping by and taking a peek, I look forward to hearing from you if I've peaked your interest.WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. I'm open...coffee, a drink, a walk downtown along the river

  • Shantell

    Online

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hello winners! Hello single men! Hello non smokers! Hello men who have a nice smile! Hello men who know they have two heads but can keep them both in check! Hello men that are not stuck on your ex! Hello men who loke BBW's! Hello men who don't have isses with the fact that I have dated out of my race! Hello to that one man that is loyal and would like to meet and see if we like each other in person!I am an out spoken smarteleck that loves to crack jokes, have fun and be serious when I need to be. I have NO drama in my life and love it that way, so it shall stay that way. I am open to meet, we can talk forever, but in person is the most important, if we meet, and not a match.. I will text and tell you wht I thinkand you doing the same would be nice, a 'we are not a match" would work. or hey I liked you! from both would be great! LOL and I must add.... have all your teeth in the front..fake or real, just have em! :) I can clip some wings, so be respectful. I prefer men that act like men, not horny lil boys. :) If you look...say hi. Meet for few minutes, visit. I don't think a movie is good, eating out is not good either. We may not like each other and you have spent that money and on someone that is not your match, nah. Just meet for a tea or even somewhere that you can just sit and talk, then go on our way! I'm simple.

  • Neely

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I have been more realistic about dating at this age. "Yes, it's difficult to date after 50, even harder after 60! The trust issues alone would prevent a lot of us from even trying. The men who say we shouldn't wait to sleep together because we have so little time left outnumber the ones who remember that we need time to get to know each other. "I find it especially hard for those of us don't have trust issues running into those who do have trust issues. Not my job to fix someone else's issues. I was able to work through my grief, and not dump it on anyone else. I have three beautiful daughters and I have been divorced for six years.. I am very easy going, it takes a lot to make me mad. I like to pratice playing guitar ..I'm just learning so I'm not very good. I like listening to live music.I am interested in a man who takes care of himself and his appearance. I love a good sense of humor, its always better to laugh. A man who is respectful and considers others feelings. I am 5'9 and so that kinda tall would like the same. Meet for coffee or drinks, talk and get to know each other. If there is a connection we can talk about a second date.

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