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Sessy, 52
United States, North Carolina, Murphy

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About Me

I am somewhat conservative in lifestyle, yet more liberal in beliefs.Enjoy a variety of activities- walking in a park/trail, walking the beach-- pizza to lobster tail, watching fireworks, outdoor concerts, movies (like the drive-in especially),cultural events-theater, museum, parks.... maybe a picnic, casino, go to open area and watch the stars, weekend/day trips, board games/family games, and especially spending time with family and friends. Work part-time in summer and tend to vacation/relax the rest. Holidays are special-spend them as family- and willing to spend them with yours as well. Volunteer for Special Olympics-coach soccer.I enjoy my job and supervise some after school activities. Work in northeast corner. Enjoy seeing kids sports- grandniece is in gymnastics. Coached sports through town leagues in years past,have been a member of town committee to address barriers for those with disabilities, and had been "friend" for 10 years to an adult with a developmental disabilty until he passed away(he was a true blessing in my life).!! Love having Sunday morning coffee while watching Sunday Morning and/or reading paper. Tend to eat more vegetables, pasta, and poultry...not a big red meat eater but you can be. Read more books during the summer months. Enjoy music--flops and dread wearing socks and shoes!! Would love to explore kayaking, cross country skiing/snowshoeing, and other activities with SO. I am open-minded to learning new things, seeing new places, participating in new adventures. Love being in an area where I get to be entrenched in nature..... Everyday I drive through the rural area to get to work and it is an enjoyable drive... understanding that it takes time to get to know one another and commit. Sense of humor a must. Gentleman, but not snobby. If you have a need to have your cellphone on and always looking at it while out with me/others, we are not compatable. Compatibility is essential. Family oriented- family/children are not baggage, they are a blessing!! Can we go out one evening and dig in the garden the next day? Jeans or a comfortable jacket and tie when needed? Would you be willing to wash pots and pans? Laugh the night away? Bucket list- Enjoy, appreciate, and plan future with husband; African safari; volunteer- community/environmental in another country/area yet explored; horseback ride on a beach;; visit new places; sky dive(once may be plenty); develop gardening skills; work artistically with glass- blown or fuse; enjoy warmer climates so may want to retire to a warmer climate. Appreciate all that life has to offer.. big and small, exciting and the mundane.*****Life is more about who you are with(caring, loving, communicating, appreciating, compromising, giving) rather than what you are doing... would love to share any or all of the above and so much more with my SO. Come grow old with me, the best is yet to be. (borrowed words)***** First date ..... breakfast, lunch,or dinner, a walk, enjoy an activity together...... I'm open to ideas..... somthing that gives us opportunities to talk, relax, and enjoy the time. Would like the date to be a memorable one!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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