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Marita, 51
United States, North Carolina, Murphy

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I'm a serious career woman who has a goofy side that likes to have fun too. I'm outgoing and have a good sense of humor. Separated end of December and divorce was finalized July 10, ***. Just trying to meet new like minded people for fun socializing. I'm not looking to rush into anything and hope that those who are interested can be patient with me given I am recently out of a 20 year relationship and surely am out of practice.Other notable information:1. I am really 5 foot ***inches but meetville does not allow halfsies for height.2. I am not a cook. Sure I microwave, and cook a few things, but one should not expect great cooking from me.3.4. Typically friends and co-workers would say I'm an intelligent person, but they all know I am navigationally impaired despite that. Even when using the GPS I have been known to get lost (my friends and co-workers raze me about this often).5. I like people and their stories.6. I dislike traditional exercise and have only managed to be good at it when I can think of it as fun and not exercising. Examples for me are walking, bicycling, roller skating, tennis, and soccer (one year - but i might go back to it).. But I must admit I don't do any of them consistently enough except walking. Striving to do better.7. I have respect for a lot of religions. I was raised as a protestant, but admittedly I have not been active with a church in years.8. I love the way the beach looks and like walking there, but just not into sitting out in the sun out by the pool or the beach when it is ***degrees! I love doing it during the winter in S.9. I am disappointed when we assume the worst in another human without really knowing the real facts. We all do it and I strive to always assume the best, but perfect I am not.10. I have about a dozen pair of readers tucked away at home and the office because of the realization that my arms are no longer long enough.11. Some of my bad habits I should try to ditch are too much salt, diet cokes and chewing ice. 12. If your tall though, don't let the mini concern you. It's been successfully tested by 6 foot 5 inch individuals and confirmed as an okay fit for even a tall person. If you're over 6'5" we'll take your car. :***.14. I am not a fan of reality TV for the most part. Big Bang Theory, House or Person of Interest might get me to stop in front of the TV, but it would never be the end of the world if I missed any television show.15. I love staying busy doing fun and interesting things with other people. I prefer to be a participant in life verses just an observer.16. I love doing the unexpected to help someone or to make them smile. It makes them feel good but more importantly it helps me feel like a good person. ““Any venue where you can hear one another and have time to get to know one another a little better is good. First impressions are important, but it doesn't have to be anything over the top or expensive to be a lovely date.” ”

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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