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Aiyana, 53

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About Me

I think most people waste a lot of time looking for the perfect love *** trying to create the perfect love. I believe that successful relationships don't just happen after you initially "click" with someone, but require patience and the desire to take the time to really get to know someone. I'm willing to make time to get to know you if you're willing to do the same.I'm happy most of the time and want to be around optimistic men. My goal is to keep working hard (I love my job) and spend my free time with someone who is a joy to be around. I'm not picky about what we do because I enjoy going out or staying in and cooking on a quiet evening for someone special. I'm a self sufficient woman with a lot of interests, so I don't need to have a man for support or protection, but I want one who can be a stable partner in this crazy game of life! Needing and wanting are two different things - so I'd like to choose to spend time with someone who is worth getting to know. Maybe it's you? I'm not sure what makes me unique, but others tell me it's because I'm intelligent, caring, funny, extremely loving and very creative. My interests include traveling, reading, cooking, theater, concerts, movies, kayaking, zip lining, and deep sea fishing. BONUS: I AM A HAPPY WOMAN AND NOT INTO DRAMA AND MOOD SWINGS. Seriously, I am happy, optimistic and thankful for the life I have, so I don't need you to complete me, rescue me, or take care of me. If things go well, the right man will just make me even happier and we will both enjoy spending time together. I am very adventurous and would like to meet someone who is curious about exploring new things, places, and ideas. Being open minded is a good thing! And if you can make me laugh, sparks will fly! Depending on your style, we can keep it simple on a first date and meet for coffee or somewhere we can talk and get to know each other. I also love the atmosphere in sports bars and would probably be up for going to any you might suggest. I also love hanging out in bookstores. Usually I like a first date to be short and simple to break the ice. If you're the rare man who can hold my attention for more than a couple of hours,, then you've captured my interest in a big way!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sessy

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am somewhat conservative in lifestyle, yet more liberal in beliefs.Enjoy a variety of activities- walking in a park/trail, walking the beach-- pizza to lobster tail, watching fireworks, outdoor concerts, movies (like the drive-in especially),cultural events-theater, museum, parks.... maybe a picnic, casino, go to open area and watch the stars, weekend/day trips, board games/family games, and especially spending time with family and friends. Work part-time in summer and tend to vacation/relax the rest. Holidays are special-spend them as family- and willing to spend them with yours as well. Volunteer for Special Olympics-coach soccer.I enjoy my job and supervise some after school activities. Work in northeast corner. Enjoy seeing kids sports- grandniece is in gymnastics. Coached sports through town leagues in years past,have been a member of town committee to address barriers for those with disabilities, and had been "friend" for 10 years to an adult with a developmental disabilty until he passed away(he was a true blessing in my life).!! Love having Sunday morning coffee while watching Sunday Morning and/or reading paper. Tend to eat more vegetables, pasta, and poultry...not a big red meat eater but you can be. Read more books during the summer months. Enjoy music--flops and dread wearing socks and shoes!! Would love to explore kayaking, cross country skiing/snowshoeing, and other activities with SO. I am open-minded to learning new things, seeing new places, participating in new adventures. Love being in an area where I get to be entrenched in nature..... Everyday I drive through the rural area to get to work and it is an enjoyable drive... understanding that it takes time to get to know one another and commit. Sense of humor a must. Gentleman, but not snobby. If you have a need to have your cellphone on and always looking at it while out with me/others, we are not compatable. Compatibility is essential. Family oriented- family/children are not baggage, they are a blessing!! Can we go out one evening and dig in the garden the next day? Jeans or a comfortable jacket and tie when needed? Would you be willing to wash pots and pans? Laugh the night away? Bucket list- Enjoy, appreciate, and plan future with husband; African safari; volunteer- community/environmental in another country/area yet explored; horseback ride on a beach;; visit new places; sky dive(once may be plenty); develop gardening skills; work artistically with glass- blown or fuse; enjoy warmer climates so may want to retire to a warmer climate. Appreciate all that life has to offer.. big and small, exciting and the mundane.*****Life is more about who you are with(caring, loving, communicating, appreciating, compromising, giving) rather than what you are doing... would love to share any or all of the above and so much more with my SO. Come grow old with me, the best is yet to be. (borrowed words)***** First date ..... breakfast, lunch,or dinner, a walk, enjoy an activity together...... I'm open to ideas..... somthing that gives us opportunities to talk, relax, and enjoy the time. Would like the date to be a memorable one!

  • Anitra

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hello! I enjoy vacations (Caribbean, beaches/sun/tan), listening to music, movies, auctions, concerts, learning and trying new things, and the list goes on. I am an honest, loyal and communicative person. I believe that all relationships need to be a give and take, and must have respect, honesty and great communication in order to thrive. Once these elements are in place, a foundation for something wonderful is probable. I believe that one should treat people the way they would want to be treated. I learned all of this through past experiences (good and bad).I am looking for a man that has a great sense of humor, is honest, down to earth, sincere, and romantic. Someone to spend time with and to perhaps create a new history with. We would want to anticipate each other’s wants and needs. A friendship and/or relationship of compassion, consideration and passion.I am not looking for Mr. Right. He does not exist anymore than a Ms. Right does. We are all flawed and the sooner we accept that about ourselves and everyone else, the better. I am looking for a friendship first than perhaps a relationship.p.s. And YES! I am a Spartan! GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GREEN! Coffee, adult beverage someplace public, maybe lunch?

  • Jackelyn

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I consider myself a good catch and hope that you are too. I like the outdoors and am very family oriented. When not at work you can find me busy at home on remodel projects, or yard work. I enjoy hunting for a bargain, shopping at flea markets or garage sales. In the summer I enjoy setting at my pool or going to lake. I also enjoy camping tent style or travel trailer style... I have two grown children and two grandchildren. I'm interested in finding a man that has the time to get to know me and spoil me and I will return the same! I like to travel when I can and would love to plan another trip back to the Cozumel... (hey would you believe I have zip lined thru through the jungle and propelled down a mountain....I don't like a man that has to brag on himself or probe for compliments. That to me is a insecurity issue. Let me compliment you on my own time. I don't need to know how much money you have how many big boy toys you have or how good your body looks. I'll be the judge and I will hand out the complements. I want a man that asks questions and shows an interest in really getting to know me. My first date would probably be to meet in a public place, that way there no pressure to finish the evening if there is no chemistry you can just wander away or go back out the front door! I'm interested in finding a man that is crafty with his hands (get your mind out the gutter), I mean a handy man around the house. Not afraid to get his hands dirty working in the yard. I enjoy a float trip or camping out. You really get to know someone when you look your worst. I've never been on a cruise and WOW would that be a great first date!!!!!

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