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Gytha, 55
United States, North Carolina, Murphy

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Mar 2026 02:32:38

About Me

After you read my profile, PLEASE read my IMPORTANT HONESTY NOTE at the very, very end. Also I NEVER write back to anyone who gives me a phone number or an *** away. Thank you. : ***Hello. Okay, so I am now ready to find that special person in my life. I guess my problem is I still believe. : )I am a fun, intelligent attractive woman who is looking for the same ***but in a man, of course. : ) I am a hardworking entrepreneur, but I enjoy life as well. I have a beautiful 28 year old daughter and a 20 year old son. I can be a "dress up" girl or a "jeans" girls, comfortable in either scenario. I can go to a ball with you; or I can go four-; or to a sporting event; or shoot hoops with you; or golf with you. If you like to "shop" I'll go along -- kinda cute in a way --but just so you know I'm not a big shopper. For some of you that might be a relief. I also don't mind sharing in your hobbies. I'm always interested in learning things, whether it's mechanics, or gardening, or whatever. Just as long as it isn't only about you and your world. A real relationship is a "we" world. I am very interested in meeting new people because in terms of finding that one person with whom I want to spend the rest of my life, I suppose some shopping is required. I am most comfortable with men 6 ft or over with adventure in the soul, and an easy-going personality. Humor is also huge. Although I enjoy the nice comments from men under the age of 48 and over the age of 62, at this point neither makes sense for me.Likewise if you don't live in town or plan to move here soon -- or close by, I can't see a relationship developing.Strangely enough, even at my age, and with my moralistic standards, I can find my share of guys. But I just want to find THE guy. I'm not into quantity, but quality. And I'm into the "gentleman" guy who can also be rugged and fun. Sharing laughter is huge! Bonus points for good spelling. That just shows you care about making a good impression. And if you can't spell, there is spell check. In addition to being a real estate agent, I am an author and in the past I have been a television reporter and show host. Having said that, I am very down to earth and enjoy optimistic people.I really don't want a "ships passing in the night with benefits" relationship. I'm lookng for a serious partner, taller than I am, very close to my age, who has sonething quality going on. If I haven't run you off by now and you are good looking and fit the criteria maybe we should talk.Important "honesty" points that I can't emphasize enough: Put your true recent pictures; put your true age, not the age you feel; put your true height; put your "true gut" and your true "status." If you are "separated" but say you are "divorced" and I call you on it and you really want to meet me (and fit my criteria), please change your profile status. I don't want to hear how you tell women the truth later. Be truthful now. You are putting out "bad bait" because even though you might meet me, I will know you are willing to be deceptive to get more hits. So then I will wonder, what else are you deceptive about? I've had this happen three times so far. Sweetly two of the guys realized the error of their ways and updated their profiles proving they are not game players. Even though a relationship didn't occur for various reasons, we are still friends. I am open to just about any idea in terms of a date as long as it is interesting and fun. I want to get to know someone before I get into a more romantic relationship. I am looking for an equally attractive person and equally motivated in life with a non-hair trigger temper. I am not self-centered and I would hope you are the same. The main thing is that life is short and so we should enjoy it!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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