Total users: 61,271,063 Online users: 220,577
Gytha, 55
United States, North Carolina, Murphy

Offline, last seen Sat, 07 Feb 2026 21:58:18

About Me

After you read my profile, PLEASE read my IMPORTANT HONESTY NOTE at the very, very end. Also I NEVER write back to anyone who gives me a phone number or an *** away. Thank you. : ***Hello. Okay, so I am now ready to find that special person in my life. I guess my problem is I still believe. : )I am a fun, intelligent attractive woman who is looking for the same ***but in a man, of course. : ) I am a hardworking entrepreneur, but I enjoy life as well. I have a beautiful 28 year old daughter and a 20 year old son. I can be a "dress up" girl or a "jeans" girls, comfortable in either scenario. I can go to a ball with you; or I can go four-; or to a sporting event; or shoot hoops with you; or golf with you. If you like to "shop" I'll go along -- kinda cute in a way --but just so you know I'm not a big shopper. For some of you that might be a relief. I also don't mind sharing in your hobbies. I'm always interested in learning things, whether it's mechanics, or gardening, or whatever. Just as long as it isn't only about you and your world. A real relationship is a "we" world. I am very interested in meeting new people because in terms of finding that one person with whom I want to spend the rest of my life, I suppose some shopping is required. I am most comfortable with men 6 ft or over with adventure in the soul, and an easy-going personality. Humor is also huge. Although I enjoy the nice comments from men under the age of 48 and over the age of 62, at this point neither makes sense for me.Likewise if you don't live in town or plan to move here soon -- or close by, I can't see a relationship developing.Strangely enough, even at my age, and with my moralistic standards, I can find my share of guys. But I just want to find THE guy. I'm not into quantity, but quality. And I'm into the "gentleman" guy who can also be rugged and fun. Sharing laughter is huge! Bonus points for good spelling. That just shows you care about making a good impression. And if you can't spell, there is spell check. In addition to being a real estate agent, I am an author and in the past I have been a television reporter and show host. Having said that, I am very down to earth and enjoy optimistic people.I really don't want a "ships passing in the night with benefits" relationship. I'm lookng for a serious partner, taller than I am, very close to my age, who has sonething quality going on. If I haven't run you off by now and you are good looking and fit the criteria maybe we should talk.Important "honesty" points that I can't emphasize enough: Put your true recent pictures; put your true age, not the age you feel; put your true height; put your "true gut" and your true "status." If you are "separated" but say you are "divorced" and I call you on it and you really want to meet me (and fit my criteria), please change your profile status. I don't want to hear how you tell women the truth later. Be truthful now. You are putting out "bad bait" because even though you might meet me, I will know you are willing to be deceptive to get more hits. So then I will wonder, what else are you deceptive about? I've had this happen three times so far. Sweetly two of the guys realized the error of their ways and updated their profiles proving they are not game players. Even though a relationship didn't occur for various reasons, we are still friends. I am open to just about any idea in terms of a date as long as it is interesting and fun. I want to get to know someone before I get into a more romantic relationship. I am looking for an equally attractive person and equally motivated in life with a non-hair trigger temper. I am not self-centered and I would hope you are the same. The main thing is that life is short and so we should enjoy it!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian English Indonesian Korean Turkish Biography Fantasy Music
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Tommye from Murphy | Woman | 53 years old | Aquarius
    Tommye

    Offline

    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    So, I asked some of my friends what they think you should know about me and here are a few things they came up with:I am a very fun loving, outgoing person who loves to laugh. I choose sassy over serious and I appreciate an intelligent sense of humour. That's not to say I fart rainbows and butterflies everyday, I just don't see the point of anyone taking themselves too seriously.I think loyalty, integrity and honesty are important components of a good relationship. I don't deal well with BS and I don't play games with people.....I wouldn't know how.I love to give and receive hugs as much as possible.......they just make you feel good.There's a lot of other stuff, but that's me in a nutshell. Granted, the shell may be a little cracked, but inside is a good solid nut.p.s. a few other random thoughts:I love my job, I don't like sushi, I'm afraid to fly, I'm not technologically savvy, animated birds that talk creeps me out, chocolate and peanut butter

    Chat
  • Shalanda from Murphy | Woman | 53 years old | Gemini
    Shalanda

    Offline

    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    some stuff i likeboat stuff Misc stuff Cruiser-style MotorcyclesCoconut powered AM radios Concrete Swimmin HolesIlludium Q***Space Modulators all my pics are current withn the last yrWorking on my Flux Capacitormen who are interested in memen who I could get interested inGroovey Stuff50s thru 90s MusicFishing stuffHunting stuff4-wheelin stuffCampin stuff talkin bout stuffthinkin bout stuffsavin up to do stuffRocket Science StuffDid I leave the Iron onCowbell stuff Stuffing stuffGeneral and Generic Gal stuffChevy convertible StuffPolaris RZR Stuff ???

    Chat
  • Sanjuanita from Murphy | Woman | 53 years old | Libra
    Sanjuanita

    Offline

    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    FIRST OF ALL::: No men over 50 Please or under 30!! Unless I contact you first! I am usualy not interested in seeing anyone older than myself or anyone younger than my daughter!! Hate talking about me! But I will try! Good hearted woman who loves dogs!, fun times, going out, movies, cuddeling and of course sex! Happy and secure, independant and loving! I have always helped the ones Im with, but now want someone to help me! And I dont mean with money! I always take the path of least resistance and am very agreeable to most things. I like all music but not a big fan of country music. At a point in my life where I just want a real person with no drama that wants a good life. Not into a bunch of young kids running around either. No smokers, drinkers or drugs! ***is ok though!) Would hope that you have everything you need as do I and can mesh our lives together. I work hard (own my own business) and hope to be able to take it easier soon with the support and respect of a caring mate. I am NOT looking for any open relationships, swingers or bisexual fantasies or one night stands! I am not here looking for just sex...!! Life is short and I really hate sleeping alone and not having that special someone in my life! I am a one man woman but for now I am seeing and talking to many men, please dont hold that against me!, just part of the fishing! I hope you have the time to meet and get to know me and are not all consumed with your job and your life. I will come to you at first due to me having a 14 year old at home. Please if you dont have your own place, a car a job, go to the dentist regularly and pay your taxs, please dont bother me! Not looking for any felons or anyone that needs help getting their life together! One more thing! I dont do long distance realtionships well. Please be local so we can see eachother often without the worries of a road trip! A good first date for me is a meeting for a coffee or drink. Unless we hit it off right away I dont want to be stuck eating dinner with you! I dont need a free meal that bad!

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: