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Selena, 23
United States, North Carolina, Locust

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About Me

***Update ******I am a loving mom to a sweet 3 year old little girl. She's the one person in my life that has been by my side through hell and back. Just to prevent an awkward situation later, her father is deceased and has been for quite some time. He was NOT a low life or dead beat dad. With that being said, I'm not going to allow someone that isn't her father that IS like that to enter her life. She deserves the best whether he's her father or not. My daughter and God are my reason for being all that I am and give me the strength and courage to push through every day. I do all that I can to give my daughter a normal life. I go to school full time, have clinicals full time, and I work full time plus a lot of overtime. I'm going to school to be a paramedic at the moment. I will graduate in November and hopefully test in December. I have high hopes that I will push my schooling even further though. I hope to be accepted into nursing school soon after and eventually into Medical School. I would like to be a doctor specializing in Epidemics and Research. If I had to describe myself, I would say I'm genuine. I have no desire to be like anyone else. I am looked down upon for that, but I have faith, the person that chooses to stand by my side will hold that dear to his heart. I'm intelligent. I love to read, write and solve problems. I have this constant need to learn and teach. I try to be supermom as impossible as it is. She's given me so much in life, I try to return that for her. She's not spoiled, but she's a princess in my eyes (and hers). I'm kind to the point I get run over...a lot. I'm the GOOD GIRL. Take me home to mom, more than likely she will LOVE me. Sports are a passion in my life. I love basketball, football, tennis, dancing and racing. I coached a kid's basketball team this past season and fell in love with it. I'm hoping I can do it again this year.I love to kayak, fish, run, hike, canoe. I love to be outside. I try to be on the go as much as possible, but with school, I've been kinda stuck at home studying a little more than I like to be.I'm looking for:*Someone with the same morals and standards*A gentleman..Don't yell at me, cuss at me, hurt me because you can. Didn't your mom teach you any better?*Faithful- Your eyes should only be for me*Trust*Communication*Family oriented*Goal oriented*Honesty*Respect*Pride...Take pride in ALL that you say and doI'm NOT looking for:*Quick to get in bed. I'm not easy and I don't want someone that is. What's the point if I can just have you?*Someone lacking enough interest and originality to send me a message worth reading.*A douche...get over yourself.**** men are so unattractive. There IS a difference between**** and confident.*If you're not looking for something more long term because you have other commitments, don't bother. *Smokers or dippers. THAT IS GROSS!*If you look trashy in your pics, no thanks.*Lazy people*Heavy drinkers*Someone that doesn't read my entire profile. If you ask a question concerning something I say, fine. If you just skimmed through my profile I can probably tell.. You clearly don't care enough to learn about me so I don't care enough to give you the time of day. I'm all about giving people a chance, but I'm worth 15 minutes of your time to read about me.If I'm someone you wanna take the time sending a message to, send something that will get a reply. Be yourself, but be original with the message.

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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